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Peoples Shame Of Discussing Baldness

shookwun

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Wow, although when I think about it rings true. Just as I was splitting from my ex ex, she became pregnant. We still split and I met someone a 4-5 months later who was a tall blonde attractive women, I broke the news that my ex was pregnant and she said she couldn't deal with it, but an hour later she was on the phone saying she would deal with it and we got engaged a few months later.

One girl I was seeing casually kept trying to make it more serious but I kept ending it and she went crazy but a few days later she was messaging me again, she let me do what I wanted to her sexually even though I dumped her many times, i'm sure I could message her tonight and be in her bed tomorrow. Opened my eyes. But that kind of thing isn't fulfilling I now have met a great girl and want to settle down with her.

It's sad that looks are almost everything to women and even though I benefit from it I still find it very shallow and unfair.
Hit me in the feels with girls that I had some experience with that did the same thing. Of course they were obsessed with my looks, and couldbt get enough.
No surprise.


Being better looking then the women yu see is always in the best of a man's interest if he wants a women who can show puppy dog affection after the honey moon phase. Seems like a lot of women in general develop a decrease after all said fun is done and said
 

cocohot

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Trying to rewrite history I see.

You don't even remember the user's name right.

One use did indeed attack EvilLocks, he was alone in his attacks. There were others who said this is a men's section, and EvilLocks should be sensitive to the fact that a young very pretty women posting about how boys were looking at her when wind blew through her hair might rub some of the depressed men here the wrong way.

There is a reason the site creator divided the forum into men's and women's sections.

No, psycho's like you need to leave this forum. She is depressed over baldness like us, same with Joan and Parisienne.

I actually think you are sadvegeta using a different account. Pathetic. Nearly ruined the forum, we just had 3 posters spamming the forum when everyone left/was banned. I got banned for 2 weeks myself.

Why on earth do you have a problem with anyone depressed over baldness posting? Their self image is affected just as badly as ours. How can you say a woman with aggressive hairloss has won the genetic lottery?
 

Joan

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No, psycho's like you need to leave this forum. She is depressed over baldness like us, same with Joan and Parisienne.

I actually think you are sadvegeta using a different account. Pathetic. Nearly ruined the forum, we just had 3 posters spamming the forum when everyone left/was banned. I got banned for 2 weeks myself.

Why on earth do you have a problem with anyone depressed over baldness posting? Their self image is affected just as badly as ours. How can you say a woman with aggressive hairloss has won the genetic lottery?
CaptainForehead is not a psycho. He admitted he's not proud of feeling that way and that he's being small when he does feel as such. We can't control our feelings, and he is entitled to his, as is everyone else. I actually thought he and EvilLocks were getting along before that incident with SadVegeta. I admire CaptainForehead for humbling himself. His life has not been an easy one, and baldness isn't the only difficult thing he (and others) have had to deal with. I don't think he's said anything offensive.
 

blackg

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Trying to rewrite history I see.

You don't even remember the user's name right.

One use did indeed attack EvilLocks, he was alone in his attacks. There were others who said this is a men's section, and EvilLocks should be sensitive to the fact that a young very pretty women posting about how boys were looking at her when wind blew through her hair might rub some of the depressed men here the wrong way.

There is a reason the site creator divided the forum into men's and women's sections.
Well, we obviously remember the event differently.
Evillocks is welcome around here as far as I, and a lot of other members, are concerned.
 

pjhair

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One use did indeed attack EvilLocks, he was alone in his attacks. There were others who said this is a men's section, and EvilLocks should be sensitive to the fact that a young very pretty women posting about how boys were looking at her when wind blew through her hair might rub some of the depressed men here the wrong way.

I remember that thread very well. I completely fail to see how EvilLocks sharing about boys looking at her hair-challenged head when wind blew can rub people the wrong way. I suspect your self admitted resentment towards EvilLocks is the reason why you took it that way. Anyway, I applaud that you recognize the flaw in your point of view when it comes to EvilLocks.
 

CaptainForehead

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EvilLocks and I have been good for months now. I wish only happiness for her.
 

buckthorn

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how did evil locks hit the genetic lottery if she's losing her hair?
 

buckthorn

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CaptainForehead

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how did evil locks hit the genetic lottery if she's losing her hair?

She has eggs, and she is very pretty.
She has the option of making a bunch of babies with decent genes men.
 

CaptainForehead

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Baldness and psychological issues that led her into a psych ward for treatment. Some genetic lottery.

Lotteries can be squandered away ...
 

Afro_Vacancy

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If hair loss is your only problem, then you're doing fabulously.

The issue with hair loss is that as a problem it can amplify the damage from other issues. Usually most people have multiple issues.
 

blackg

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If hair loss is your only problem, then you're doing fabulously.

The issue with hair loss is that as a problem it can amplify the damage from other issues. Usually most people have multiple issues.
Yep, but it obviously depends on the degree of hair loss, wouldn't you agree?
 

I.D WALKER

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yes, being NW3 on your 40th birthday is a non-issue.

I appreciate the gist of your point.,
and in the tradition of your obliging manner David,
I'll respectfully add another provision, also "frog hopping" off of Sir Blackg's last caveat. ;)
Our reasonable 40 yr. old male NW3 will probably do ok, so
long as his hair loss is a "less severe" form of male pattern baldness, and one that will not advance
2-3 Norwood's by the time he is 45. Aggressive Androgenetic Alopecia is pretty devastating at any age.
 
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