Hey hey, calm down dude :) you ain't going bald, hair loss is treatable if you act early that is what i read on a blog, just take necessary precaution or maybe go see a dermatologist in your area and is your father also bald or anything because hair loss very much happens because of your genes...
I don't know about the alcohol, but I have seen many chain smokers with no or very little hairloss or such problems. Don't know about the real scientific facts.
So sorry to hear your story.. but there must be something better in it.. looks are not everything... sometimes we tend to make lesser important things more important and more important things less important.
the positive is that you guys are accepting that you are obsessed, and the negative to me is that you people are "Obsessed'. Why? Does all that counts in your personality and life is "LOOKS" ?
I agree with both the parties,,, but the reality also is that most of the folks are not conscious enough to think and make those choices, they tend to follow fashions and trends portrayed on media.
my prayers and wishes are all with you, and yes do keep updating this thread as it will help you keep going towards progress and may also help other forum members.