Recent content by melancholy

That made no sense. Can I ask you something? Is English your first language? Not trying to be mean here.

I am certain women are unable to read my mind and "know" I am desperate. And I never said I did not care about the physical stuff, what I said was I do not "base my self-worth" on my ability to get women. Two completely different things. Also, I have female friends in the workplace who I...

Lots of flaws in your theory. First, very good looking NW1 guys have sex with both pretty girls, as well as average girls, and fat girls. Back when I was 16, I was a handsome NW1, and that is EXACTLY what I did. I ****ed anything, and even dated some obese women. I would have rather had...

And like I already said in response, I don't base my whole self-worth on how many women I can sleep with. I like girls, I want to be with one, I can't help it, and not being able to get one makes me very depressed. Not really that hard to understand... I have gone 5 years without even...

Most of the obese women I know are with guys that have hair, are fit or at least OK bodies, are good looking or at least OK looking, and have other advantages as well. No wonder even obese women reject me, if they can get a better looking guy with hair, why would they want me? No wonder they...

Heh, believe it or not I have approached a few 300lb+ women who rejected me as well. The real kicker is that these women were even more bitchy with me.

Its not that I base my self worth on my ability to get laid (I don't). Its a simple matter of me wanting a normal dating life (which includes sex) and it makes me depressed being unable to get that. Thats it.

It has nothing to do with confidence, at least in my case. For me, I lost my hair, then my ability to get women declined, then, several years after the decline started (several years after all I could get was obese women, and even that took a lot of effort), my confidence started to go down and...

You really want to rationalize this, huh? I can tell you this is not the case at all, in fact, quite the opposite is true. When I first noticed I was balding I hardly even cared. I thought it was my personality and social skills that were getting me laid. It wasn't until AFTER I noticed...

Not sure what the point of that would be, I'm NW5, yes I know that's "bald" and yes I know there is not much to save as someone else said. I might as well just stop taking finasteride at this point.

I am originally from America, I lived in 4 different states in my adult life. I've also lived in Malaysia and Japan. Looks (which hair is a major part of) is extremely important no matter where you live. - - - Updated - - - My self esteem did not start to go until my success with women...

So what is it then, and why was my decline perfectly lined up with how much hair I lost? - - - Updated - - - Actually, I can no longer get 200lb+ women. And I can assure you my social skills are well above average. Statistic made up on the spot to prove your point. I used to be very...

I first started researching hair loss on the internet 8 years ago and remember seeing a lot of posts about all these different trials, experiments, etc. that made it sound like a cure was just 3 to 5 years away. So much false hope, I wish they were right. I want my sex life back. :(

Back when I was in high school and still had most of my hair, I got laid all the time. Hot girls, ugly girls, nerdy girls, goth girls, fat girls, skinny girls, war pigs, I ****ed em all. I was truly on top of the world. Part of me knew this wouldn't last forever, but I never thought I would...