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Having confidence is always touted as the cure-all for anything in life. The point is though, its a catch 22 situation when you go bald. Girls find you less attractive, and this in turn lowers your self esteem and belief. If you're a norwood one then girls are going to be more into you, and...

Yeah I guess this is the crux of it. As we get older, after experience after experience, after relationships and lots of casual sex and general life experience, I guess eventually people get tired of chasing that perfect look. You begin to say f*** it. Not that is necessarily a good thing. But...

Yeah. For me its been tough enough over the last few years even with most of my hair. f*** knows how its gonna go when male pattern baldness really hits me. But yeah, I kind of hope Ill meet the right women eventually, and a she wont care about my hairloss etc, but its one of those ideals that doesn't seem to...

I agree that facial features are most important in regards to attraction. But. And the big but is - that when you lose your hair, you lose the frame and contrast that originally gave your face that definition. So if you do have a 'nice' facial structure, if you go bald, it will be harder to...

My world is unbeleivably dark and bleak at the moment. My love in life is women. My passion. Its what excites me. Not saying that Im a player or anything. Just that meeting women is what I love. Simple. And for a few years I was desired. When my receding hairline hadn't made much of an...

Hmm..Its hard to generalize, it really is. I wish it were the case that we would all look magically fine bald but I don't think it is. Thats great that the guy got better ratings and you would have thought those kinda internet places would be the worst for bald guys but hey. What ethnicity...

male pattern baldness sucks but I would never take it on myself to stop socalising or become a recluse as a result. Although I guess you could say that sub-consciously - it has effected my confidence/self belief/esteem in ways that I'm not immediately aware of. Perhaps if I had that nw1 I wouldn't think twice...

Yeah, its a worrying trend. It seems every tom dick and harry are getting into shape these days, I'm going to have to follow suit soon enough as it will become a kind of benchmark. But at the same time, for all the guys obsessed with their image, their have to be a thousand more fat f*** slobs...

This pretty much. You have to develop some sort of thick skin. If someone points out that im receeding - and its not meant in a derogatory way or anything then I tend to live and let live, whatever. If anything I see it as them asking innocently, if anything it shows that its not such a bad...

I dread how hard its going to be women-wise once I lose my hair. Of course, it may pan out a lot better than expected - and I guess a lot of that does come down to me. But worst case scenario, I will no longer be able to have chances with pretty women, it will be plain and average at best. But I...

I mean personally Id say f*** the treatments. Shave off, go and live in a hotter climate for a while, work on getting healthy and a good complexion. Its definitely inspiring when you go to other parts of Europe, the bald guys dont look so bad. Without a doubt in the UK its the lack of sunshine...

The way you wrote that made me laugh!

I thought UC Man was divorced? As much as I like the guy for bringing the realness here at the sametime I hope I never have a mentality as tragic as his when I get older. But yeah, I hate it when people say, you shouldn't care what people think of you etc it doesnt matter etc. IT f*****g DOES...

Its all about the skin tone. Being black means that even if your're bald, it still doesnt stand out that much. And there is far less shine. So its basically not something that draws attention in the same way that a white head does. Having a good tan as a white guy is a semi decent compromise.

Yeah, this is what I have realized over the last few years. Im 22 now, and started receeding at about 17 1/2. At the time I felt like OMG, this is the worst thing in the world etc, and thought that I was suddenly going to go bald over night etc and rapidly lose my looks. But over the years I...