depopulation of bald men, yes or no?

[2bald2young]

So this got me really curious, do you guys think that in western cultures the percentage of bald men is only going to get lower?

You can think yes, Since appearance is playing a bigger role now and we all know that women especially while they are young see baldness as a no (combine that with another no and game over). So that means they probably wouldn't reproduce and the gene won't pass on.

On the either hand no. When they age they want to settle with someone who wouldn't leave them and so they can choose a bald guy and if the bald guy who had a hard time with his shiny scalp is ignorant enough to pass it on then the cycle continues. Note, I am not saying that bald men don't have the right to have children but that he shouldn't do it for the child's sake.

So, what do you guys think about the future of young bald men. Also assume that there will never be a cure.

 

[resu]

50 years from now when hair cloning is as common as FUE it won't be a problem, we were definitely born either too early or too late.

 

[2bald2young]

I appreciate your comment and there are 2 thing I would like to tell you. First off yes you are right I think I won't come here as often anymore. And second your promise is something you can't possibly keep. First problem came when I was just 12, with money and a painfull treatment I could fix it but it is money I don't have and won't going to have for a very long time. Second problem baldness came when I was 14 it is so agressive that even my sides are thinning (no hair transplant) and that my extreme regimen doesn't work well. Family and friends said no big deal so my attitude stayed the same but still in that time my memory is only full of bad experiences and bad luck. So yes my life is over. Thanks for caring though not something I see often. At least my life is quiet now.

 

[Mikazz]

Being bald is only a small part of seduction. You know that the guy who wrote one of the best book about seduction, neil strauss, is small, have white skin, and is bald ? It doesn't mean, you can't have success with girls, AT ALL.

YES, some girl will be turned off by you being bald, but some other trait sthat you can CONTROL can make you more of a seductive person. Being insecure (ie:about being bald) will NOT help you.

I have seen small ugly guys, with more problems than being bald, and they were with cute girls. And it was all about personnality and confidence.

 

[bald29]

So this got me really curious, do you guys think that in western cultures the percentage of bald men is only going to get lower?

You can think yes, Since appearance is playing a bigger role now and we all know that women especially while they are young see baldness as a no (combine that with another no and game over). So that means they probably wouldn't reproduce and the gene won't pass on.

On the either hand no. When they age they want to settle with someone who wouldn't leave them and so they can choose a bald guy and if the bald guy who had a hard time with his shiny scalp is ignorant enough to pass it on then the cycle continues. Note, I am not saying that bald men don't have the right to have children but that he shouldn't do it for the child's sake.

So, what do you guys think about the future of young bald men. Also assume that there will never be a cure.

Bald men won't depopulate. For many reasons:
1) baldness usually appears after the age when people reproduce. This forum is full of exceptions, people becoming bald at a young age, but that's not the norm out there.
2) Even for those bald at a young age, having a hard time with women, there are ways to reproduce:
a) Lowering standards
b) Having a baby with a used up sl*t or gold digger. This is a likely scenario for bald men who are making decent money. At only 29 years old, I've had a few hot gold diggers trying to use me. Rejecting them is not easy task, and I'm not sure if in a few years I will be able to.

Also, about not reproducing for the child's sake, very few people actually have babies for other reasons than their own selfishness. If it was for the child's sake, very few people would reproduce in this overpopulated world where 99% of the people are fighting for a piece of bread and a roof. People will still have babies, even if they can't have a proper dinner themselves.
-honey, we have no food tonight.
-no problem, let's skip dinner and go make a new baby!

Then, of course, they can fill my FB news feed and my Whatsapp with baby pictures. If this trend continues, in 5 years if the police raided my home they would have more than enough evidence for a case of pedophilia (together with my NW5+, of course).

 

[dreamermerlin]

So this got me really curious, do you guys think that in western cultures the percentage of bald men is only going to get lower?

You can think yes, Since appearance is playing a bigger role now and we all know that women especially while they are young see baldness as a no (combine that with another no and game over). So that means they probably wouldn't reproduce and the gene won't pass on.

On the either hand no. When they age they want to settle with someone who wouldn't leave them and so they can choose a bald guy and if the bald guy who had a hard time with his shiny scalp is ignorant enough to pass it on then the cycle continues. Note, I am not saying that bald men don't have the right to have children but that he shouldn't do it for the child's sake.

So, what do you guys think about the future of young bald men. Also assume that there will never be a cure.

I think you are over-obsesses with looks.

 

[2bald2young]

sigh, guess it is true that people, especially on this forum, simply can't or won't understand what you are trying to say to them. even claiming that I have body dysmorphia and that I am over-obsessed with looks, people really make quick judgements. Always thinking that some people are just exaggerating things, while they never experienced it themselves. coco hot people like you always give me hope that it isn't so bad, but then when I try, I again see that other people think differently than you. I understand what mikaz means and no, I always thought that looks didn't play such a big role and I still believe that it doesn't play such big of a role so no dreamermerlin I am not obsessed with looks however I do believe that if you possess this so called turn off that they do play a big role. I also think you really misunderstood one thing or well I probably said it wrong, it is undeniable that my social life isn't going to be fun if I try to be social and stuff and yes I heard of ugly guys getting cute girls but as I said I have bad luck and for some reason that doesn't apply to me , however I need to do something with my life so I am searching for other things to do with it, maybe become a mountain climber or something. Lesson learned never complain on this forum or on the internet.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

5. Personality and confidence, right, we hadn't heard this one before. So I guess you will have no problem dating an obese woman who is very very confident then?

Good point.

 

[dreamermerlin]

Answer the question though Fred and 2bald2young, is going out with a flat chested woman with a beautiful face like Natalie Portman unthinkable to you?

Yes, i have no problem with flat-chested and pretty woman.
Ugly face but great tits-hmmm not my type.

 

[slipy]

The obese comparison is wrong because obesity makes every part of your body ugly, but baldness just affects a tiny part of us. The rest of our body still looks great.

yea, aside from our heads. you know, the part of the body that matters the most as far as attraction is concerned. :doh:

it's also hilarious to see Natalie Portman being compared to a bald guy.

 

[resu]

The only comparable example that I can think of that has similar powerful impact on a person's looks is crooked teeth, they can ruin your whole face, you become reluctant to smile, it changes how people perceive you, among other negative aspects. Even just a little gap can change your whole face (see Dumb and Dumber or Madonna). Your teeth can also be yellow and crooked and be healthy without you ever touching a cigar or coffee but other people will think otherwise, same with baldness, people will think that it was because of stress or maybe you're a smoker or... never mind.

 

[Mikazz]

1. Neil Strauss is a con artist. There's evidence that 99% of these PUA gurus are. They get like 1% success, just like any man mass-approaching would.

2. Some girls will be turned off by baldness? Make that the vast majority of girls.

3. You can't help being insecure to some degree if you're bald, but you wouldn't know that since you're probably a NW2.

4. There's more than what you see, these small ugly guys had probably status or were wealthy.

5. Personality and confidence, right, we hadn't heard this one before. So I guess you will have no problem dating an obese woman who is very very confident then?

6. You are not bald.

1. I don't have enough knowledge to answer this one.

2. The vast majority of girls will priorize people with hair, but someone bald can still date them no problem. But, hey, no one can date every women.

3. I'm NW3

4. I have a friend, he is small, he was a bald NW5 at age 20, he had an untanned white skin, he was student (nothing special) and he managed to sleep with ove 20 girls (even very superficial ones). They were HB5 to HB8. He had around 2-3 girlfriends and it was all about motivation.

5. Obese is something you can fix with a good diet. Most people can't fix their hairloss.

6. I suffer male pattern baldness, and it is very visible.

 

[dreamermerlin]

people will think that it was because of stress or maybe you're a smoker or... never mind.

And why should we care so much about what ignorant people think??

 

[resu]

And why should we care so much about what ignorant people think??

Because it's defamatory, I don't want to be perceived by the general population as being sick.

 

[peter079]

So this got me really curious, do you guys think that in western cultures the percentage of bald men is only going to get lower?

You can think yes, Since appearance is playing a bigger role now and we all know that women especially while they are young see baldness as a no (combine that with another no and game over). So that means they probably wouldn't reproduce and the gene won't pass on.

On the either hand no. When they age they want to settle with someone who wouldn't leave them and so they can choose a bald guy and if the bald guy who had a hard time with his shiny scalp is ignorant enough to pass it on then the cycle continues. Note, I am not saying that bald men don't have the right to have children but that he shouldn't do it for the child's sake.

So, what do you guys think about the future of young bald men. Also assume that there will never be a cure.

Women can also carry the hairloss gene.
So you will have to ask women with any hairloss in their family (going back at least 4 generations or so), to Not reproduce either.
This will be impossible.

 

[swingline747]

Or a woman with an ugly face but a great tits?

The obese comparison is wrong because obesity makes every part of your body ugly, but baldness just affects a tiny part of us. The rest of our body still looks great.

What kind of face we talking, like a 5 or Steve Bushemi with tits?

 

[CaptainForehead]

That still isn't as unusual as you think. It also isn't any worse than being, ginger, having acne, a big nose etc. Some women will care but most won't. Would you automatically reject all flat chested women even if she had a face like Natalie Portman? Or a woman with an ugly face if she had incredible tits? One attribute alone is not everything in attraction, women won't just be looking at your hair. So yes, I can promise you, your life is not over.

You cannot compare tits to hairloss.
How many romcoms or romance novel covers feature a bald man?

How many hot actresses are flat chested?

How are bald men portrayed in hollywood (see the big thread)?
Are women with small tits portrayed negatively in hollywood?

 

[bald29]

You cannot compare tits to hairloss.
How many romcoms or romance novel covers feature a bald man?

How many hot actresses are flat chested?

How are bald men portrayed in hollywood (see the big thread)?
Are women with small tits portrayed negatively in hollywood?

This.

Baldness is not a flaw, it's something that takes you down to the bottom, something that makes you totally unappealing for the opposite sex. Many of us believed all those lies about it just being a flaw, similar to a flat chest, and had to learn the truth the hard way, and late for that matter.

Baldness = ewwww gross!! I can understand it just being a flaw after 50, but not when you are in your 20s or 30s, and expected to be attractive, young and healthy, especially if you want to date women who fit in that description as well.

As with everything, there are exceptions. But for most, life without hair is a real, constant, day to day struggle. Sometimes I can't believe I'm still here, trying to keep progressing in life, even when I've been 2 years without an attractive, decent date (one night stands with fatties or drunk gold diggers don't count).

Some people in this forum have been struggling even longer, NW2 guys come here to give their speeches about personality and confidence without even knowing what they are talking about, and addressing the NW4+ people in here as whiners, when these NW4+ people are in fact really strong guys, who have been fighting this fierce battle for years, or even decades. I would love to see many of these NW2 advisors with a NW5 head, see how well they do with their other 'good attributes'.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Lol @ cocohut for saying baldness is like being cross eyed or having a big nose. NO it's not! Any of those other things can be fixed by one visit to the plastic surgeon, baldness can not be fixed nearly as easily.

 

[hellouser]

Lol @ cocohut for saying baldness is like being cross eyed or having a big nose. NO it's not! Any of those other things can be fixed by one visit to the plastic surgeon, baldness can not be fixed nearly as easily.

A lot of times it cannot be fixed AT ALL.

All of the solutions we have are just pathetic fvcking bandaid solutions... of which we only have TWO solutions anyway; minoxidil and finasteride. How the fvck is any hair loss sufferer supposed to feel confident with such sh!t solutions and the incompetence/laziness from biotechs and researchers that have yet to provide us with any kind of superior alternative to those options?

The whole industry is a joke and society would rather have us STAY bald than see us live a pleasant life like theirs, because our misery gives them the knowledge that they're better off than us.