21 year old female to a 32 year old male:
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationsh..._hard_to_be_a_good_faithful/cxubyrl?context=3
Ugh, as a 21F, I hate guys like you. It's so gross having someone so much older than you check you out, it makes my skin crawl. I feel sorry for your wife, and I doubt you could hook up with a young attractive women anyway so I wouldn't worry about it. Especially as you get older this will become less of a "struggle" because you won't have any other options, so you got that going for you!
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationsh..._hard_to_be_a_good_faithful/cxubyrl?context=3