Find out what females think of us....

[23RussianBolding]

Check out this link
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/?qid= ... ALzPs2&r=w
I feel better after receiving this answers. What do you think?

 

[Guest]

This makes you feel better?????????

I actually prefer guys with a lot of hair on their heads. Sort of Cove Reber ish, or the "shag look" as fashion is calling it. Very Josh Harnett. I don't think bald guys are hot. But if you are black it could look good. That's maybe the only situation.

Stupid sl*t should be..... :2gunsfiring_v1:

 

[IBM]

.

 

[CCS]

hlkjhlkhlk

 

[CCS]

and my left shift key does not work.

don't you hate it when you complain that someone is leaving you and you can't get an attractive woman and the response you get is "if pretty women don't want you for who you are, then they are not worthy of you. you should date a fat woman like me who will love you for who you are." Or if the woman is pretty, she says "i'm sure you will find someone [but not me]".

i hate it when they have to make excuses for breaking up.
When she does break up, she probably won't say the hair is the reason. she will pick something else that aways was there and never was a problem before. or she will try to start arguments all the time just so she can say "it is not working out since we are arguing all the time." you can avoid arguing and avoid any methods she dreams up, but she will still act less than happy around you and not want to have sex as much and eventually break it off. this makes me respect the honest ones who will say what is really bothering them instead of making a guy self conscious about all his other attributes as well.

Even if someone knows the common excuses and acts confident and avoids fights etc, she can still claim that she can tell he is self conscious, and that she does not like that and does not want to date a guy who does not trust her enough to know she would not break up with him for something so superficial.

 

[kalbo]

I don't think the guy posting the question should've mentioned that he currently has a gf and is losing his hair. I think most of the females replying were thinking in terms of whether or not they would leave their current partner if he were balding. And if they truly love their significant other, of course they wouldn't leave him for such a petty reason.

He should've just said something like, "Be completely honest, how do you feel about dating bald/balding men?"


You know, this kind of reminds me of that episode of Seinfeld where Elaine was dating a balding guy. Jerry asked her if women truly care whether or not a guy is bald and she replied with a, "uuh yah, we care" kind of answer. Can't remember the exact script but I remember the overall message she was trying to convey was that women say they don't care, but deep down, they know they care.

The one thing I learned from women is to never completely believe the things they say. They never want to come across as shallow nor hurt your feelings (unless necessary), so they'll always say stuff like, "don't worry, hair doesn't matter to me at all, what matters is what's on the inside...... and I'm being completely honest!"....

 

[23RussianBolding]

I don't think the guy posting the question should've mentioned that he currently has a gf and is losing his hair. I think most of the females replying were thinking in terms of whether or not they would leave their current partner if he were balding. And if they truly love their significant other, of course they wouldn't leave him for such a petty reason.

He should've just said something like, "Be completely honest, how do you feel about dating bald/balding men?"


You know, this kind of reminds me of that episode of Seinfeld where Elaine was dating a balding guy. Jerry asked her if women truly care whether or not a guy is bald and she replied with a, "uuh yah, we care" kind of answer. Can't remember the exact script but I remember the overall message she was trying to convey was that women say they don't care, but deep down, they know they care.

The one thing I learned from women is to never completely believe the things they say. They never want to come across as shallow nor hurt your feelings (unless necessary), so they'll always say stuff like, "don't worry, hair doesn't matter to me at all, what matters is what's on the inside...... and I'm being completely honest!"....

Good point my friend. I realized that my question was not correct. I will design next question using tecniques from my sociology class. I will post the results again.

 

[CCS]

when women respond with "no, it does not matter what you look like", they do two things:

1. Tell some men what they want to hear so their feelings are not hurt.

2. Tell men who want the truth that the "no" answer should be believed as much as the "appearance does not matter at all" answer.

 

[23RussianBolding]

Upgraded question

Ok after I ve listened to you my friends I have eliminated any elements of prejudice or suggestions about the matter of the question. Here is the link so far it has 24 female's answer. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/?qid= ... 307AAzCajp

 

[CCS]

loosing your hair does not mean you can't date, it just means you have to work harder and earn their approval, whereas with hair you are on equal footing from the beginning and don't have to earn their approval.

hair is not everything to women. they want money, to be treated a certain way, loyalty, performance, personality, and many other factors. When people make trade offs, they usually don't say they want the thing they missed. instead, they use this as an opportunity to tell everyone how non-shallow they are because they did not go for that other quality, even though they did go for the qualities they went for. Example, you must choose between a woman with acne scars and a woman who is chubby. If you pick the chubby one, you might say you are not as shallow as other men because you picked her instead of the inshape woman with acne scars, and vise versa, except people usually don't even make that comparision. They say they are not shallow because they chose their wife instead some superficial supermodel. Funny, isn't it.

If a woman can only get 80% of every quality she wants, and you are bald, you can date her if you work for it. Baldness is not such a handicap to drop you more than 20%. Also realize we don't know what these women look like. These may be average women. Perhaps the pretty ones are the ones who say they don't date bald men.

 

[Follically Challenged]

Not alot of hot chicks will be answering questions on yahoo.

 

[Hans Gruber]

quite a few nice answers on there,i know my girl doesnt really care but im gonna get a hair transplant anyway cos i want to,and im sure she'll be cool with that :hairy:

 

[camobear777]

It is going to depend a lot on the woman. Generally speaking I do not think that women have an issue with hair loss. My ex girlfriend never mentioned anything wrong with my hair though I am currently diffusing quickly into a NW3. I would say that superficial women that are hot heads do not like men that have a lot of hair loss. However I have seen a few dating men with noticeable hair loss. Personally I am disappointed about my hair loss but life goes on. I think in the back of my mind that it can effect me dating women in the future as my hair loss gets worse but it is what it is.

 

[Guest]

From that second question link:

"I would never date a bald-balding guy".

puertorican_gurl's Q&A
puertorican_gurl

Nickname puertorican_gurl
Participating since July 14, 2006
About im 15 years old and im pretty.


:roll:

 

[Guest]

hey, it's the bald, angry kid trolling the internet, posting bogus messages on other sites!

i love it.

this kid is bald. forever. lol.

 

[IBM]

.

 

[porajj]

Why is anyone even trusting the opinions of people who post on a yahoo blog?

Most normal women are never going to even touch something so stupuid. Women who frequent that site are either rediculously bored, very self conscious (looking for problems in other people so they forget about their own), or are kids with nothing better to do.

Its a leading question anyways. "Bald/balding" "loss" etc. are all negative words. No one is going to respond to them in a positive way. If someone actually wanted to do a legit survey, the question should be worded like:

"Do you like men with long/medium/short hair?"

even that sentence has its problems.



If you want to look at RL from an optimistic perspective instead of a pessimistic one that everyone on this forum has-- one would see that hair doesnt matter that much. It is a factor to some extent, but not as big as one as people make out to be.

If having a total thick head of hair was a deciding factor in attractiveness, the whole entire male population in the U.S. Military would have a huge problem with trying to get chicks.

Put it into perspective.

Hair is important, but not that important. When everything is all said and done, your personality and your physical appearance from your body will carry you a hell of a lot longer than hair ever will.

 

[CCS]

most of the US military has hair. women don't care if you cut it short. they just care where the hairline is and how thick the hair is. Shave it 1/8 inch, but the roots better be in the right place.

I think hair can make about a 20% difference in a guy's overall attractiveness. That means a 20% difference in the attractiveness of the women a guy can get. And if his head is nicely shaped, he can do better than that. Guys with poorly shaped heads who used to get pretty women may find themselves only getting cute women when they hit NW5.

 

[still_trying]

i hear so much sh!t on hair loss sites about hair loss and women.

rule number one, having more hair DOES NOT lead to getting more women. People generally look for excuses and reasonse why they aren't getting something. In this case, a lot of people on here say "when i get my back back, i'll be so cool and confident that i'll get laid all the time"....

and when the hair comes back, there'll be some other excuse like "i haven't got enough money, my job's not great" etc etc. I got addicted to making these type of excuses relating to my career, finding "reasons" not to go for great jobs, when in fact they were excuses and i was just scared. Admit to yourself they are just excuses, get over them and move on - do the things you find hardest (like talking to beautiful women or applying for tough jobs) and they become easier over time.

I'm 25, and as i've got less and less hair, i've been getting more and more women, and right now i have a beautiful girlfriend, even though my hair looks the worst it has ever. I've shaved my head to between grade 1 and 3 for the last 5 years, and have to say that it looks better shaved, but i always find that it's MY ATTITUDE that determines how successful i am with a woman.

You know those nights you're out at a bar and you're a bit tired and nothing feels right and yet you still stay out with your buddies, have some more drinks and hope to meet someone...well, most of the time nothing happens.
And then there are those nights when everything feels right, you're having a great time, life feels good, you think you look great (even if you don't!) and bingo! you meet a great looking girl.

College chemistry student, i don't want this to sound offensive, but you have posted nearly 800 times in a month. Dude, i think you need a bit of perspective in your life. Even if you looked like brad pitt you'd struggle to get any women if you post that much!!! Perhaps you're putting too much of your energy into one area. When i do that, generally my mental state deteriorates and things get worse. Life's about balance. My time at uni, i worried about what bar i was going to that night, not how many hairs had fallen out that day!! When i first went to uni, i was terrible with women, but through 3 years of practice my game went through the roof..

i hope this doesn't sound like me trying to brag, it's me trying to help other people through my own experiences. I struggled with lack of confidence for years and it doesn't go away by itself...you have to face your fears and go through them...and then you come out the other side a better stronger, more confident person.


If you really need some help with women, do a google search for neil strauss, aka "style", the author of a book called "the game", and another PUA (pick up artist) called "mystery", and his famous mystery method. I read an article about neil strauss and found some of the stuff interesting, and jokingly recommended it to my friend, who signed up to the mystery method even though he was doing well with women...and he swears by it... and no i am not "my friend"!! WHen i get a bit of time off work though i will be getting stuck in to the mystery method.!

 

[barnabas]

Yes, good post. I have dated women that would have been way out of my league even if my hair was at the point it was before it started receding, and none of them ever commented on the hair loss. Collegechem, you're a helpful guy on here, but you're kind of creepy when it comes to women. You clearly try to quantify everything, and your ridiculous 'statistics' like "hair matters 20%" or "if you are losing hair, you will have to go for women that are chubby" are outrageous and point to a lack of experience with women, and give off a strong air of depersonalization.

Unless you're incredibly attractive, no woman is going to date you unless she likes your personality, and no woman is going to date you without liking your personality unless she's incredibly shallow. Thus, the only reason hair loss should impact your dating prospects is if you were really hot in the first place and go for superficial women. If you weren't an "eye-catcher" pre-hairloss the hair being gone can't hurt unless you made a career out of going for somewhat desperate women who would do the first guy that talked to them but draw the line at guys with slightly less hair. Or unless you go after a woman who was beaten by a bald man when she was very young and now has a pathological fear/hatred of them.