Hahaha, wow!

[Tom1985]

Life really seems like one big joke sometimes. I'm Norwood 2/2.5 who has been using minoxidil/nizoral/supplements for years now, to keep my hair and youthful appearance in check (I'm 27) and try to stay attractive to women.
Anyways, a girl (8/10) I used to date and never really got over is now going out with A ****ING BALD GUY! He's 26 and is like a Norwood 4 with an almost completely shaved head. He seems stylish, confident, is in good shape and has designer stubble going on.
Hair or no ****ing hair some guys just have the 'it' factor and let's face it, these are not the guys who ****ing cry and b**ch to each other on internet forums.
Rant over

 

[I AM AWESOME]

Life really seems like one big joke sometimes. I'm Norwood 2/2.5 who has been using minoxidil/nizoral/supplements for years now, to keep my hair and youthful appearance in check (I'm 27) and try to stay attractive to women.
Anyways, a girl (8/10) I used to date and never really got over is now going out with A ****ING BALD GUY! He's 26 and is like a Norwood 4 with an almost completely shaved head. He seems stylish, confident, is in good shape and has designer stubble going on.
Hair or no ****ing hair some guys just have the 'it' factor and let's face it, these are not the guys who ****ing cry and b**ch to each other on internet forums.
Rant over

Exactly.

Some guys on here somehow think that the whole world is out to get them because of a few follicles on their hair.

Now I'm not saying completely disregard your hair and forget about it, that is rather easier said than done, I myself have difficulty doing this. What the guys should do here is try their best to keep their hair in best condition (Ie consistent treatment, good haircut to suit face/baldness) and not give a single fuk what anyone says about them. Also acquire confidence and you're good to go.

No point not living life because of something out of your control.

 

[Ori83]

I agree..... but.... lol, doday was cold outside i went with my beanie and for the first time since god knows when had a girl approaching me at a cashier i a coffee place, though i felt flattered i said i have a girlfriend because honestly i want interested... plus didnt want to disappoint her and myself once beanie is down...
eitherway i agree, some guys just know how to play the game, bald or not.

 

[uncomfortable man]

That just goes against all social convention, right?

 

[Tom1985]

That just goes against all social convention, right?

'Social convention' or not, I'm still gonna be rubbing **** on my head twice a day for the rest of my life to feel good about myself while some bald dude is ****ing my hot ex-girlfriend.
Maybe some guys really can just deal with going bald and some guys (us) just can't...and maybe were are the neurotic, vain, pussys who give bald men everywhere a bad name.
It's not our fault I guess...I just dunno

 

[uncomfortable man]

I dunno.... that your story is real. Sounds like a hypothetical scenario manufactured to make a point.

 

[Scarred4Life]

Exactly.
What the guys should do here is try their best to keep their hair in best condition (Ie consistent treatment, good haircut to suit face/baldness) and not give a single fuk what anyone says about them.

If baldness and hair loss doesn't matter, according to you, why should they do what you said?

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OP, what do you know about the bald guy? Is he rich? She may just be dating him because she thinks he is or he has given her some BS.

 

[dude77]

I've seen op's scenario .. and more than once .. it's nothing hypothetical .. the face helps of course .. you can get away with quite a bit if you have a good looking face .. of course even if you don't have such a good looking face, you can still get away with the baldness by how you carry yourself .. if you're self conscious and insecure you ARE going to repel women no matter what your hair situation is .. that's just how it is

 

[HairGuru22]

Girls want attractive guys period

That guy may be tall and good looking in his face

Some bald guys still look good

But they are few

Welcome back bro lol

 

[uncomfortable man]

I've seen op's scenario .. and more than once .. it's nothing hypothetical .. the face helps of course .. you can get away with quite a bit if you have a good looking face .. of course even if you don't have such a good looking face, you can still get away with the baldness by how you carry yourself .. if you're self conscious and insecure you ARE going to repel women no matter what your hair situation is .. that's just how it is

OP isn't bald but I'll bite... of course being self conscious and insecure can't help the situation. But let's look at the situation of your average bald (white) guy. Even with all the pruning and positive self-affirmations, most bald guys are going to get alot less positive attention (from everyone, not just females) and have to face some pretty brutal rejections on a more frequent basis. The real question is, can you weather all of this abuse and still maintain a positive enough mindframe to take advantage of the slim chances that bald men still have? Not everyone can. I admit that it is easy to get discouraged and disenchanted with people after experiencing humiliating failure after failure... after which, you may just conclude yourself that anger, resentment and bitterness are actually suitable, natural human responses to such stimuli.

 

[Exodus2011]

asian men have it worse with hair loss, its rarer with them AND they are shorter and more feminine

 

[I AM AWESOME]

OP isn't bald but I'll bite... of course being self conscious and insecure can't help the situation. But let's look at the situation of your average bald (white) guy. Even with all the pruning and positive self-affirmations, most bald guys are going to get alot less positive attention (from everyone, not just females) and have to face some pretty brutal rejections on a more frequent basis. The real question is, can you weather all of this abuse and still maintain a positive enough mindframe to take advantage of the slim chances that bald men still have? Not everyone can. I admit that it is easy to get discouraged and disenchanted with people after experiencing humiliating failure after failure... after which, you may just conclude yourself that anger, resentment and bitterness are actually suitable, natural human responses to such stimuli.

The trick is to not revolve your life around females and be a beta crybaby.

Be alpha and not give a single fuk about anything.

Acquire curreny/success, disregard females.

 

[uncomfortable man]

The trick is to not revolve your life around females and be a beta crybaby.

Be alpha and not give a single fuk about anything.

Acquire curreny/success, disregard females.

Don't be so immature. I am almost forty. I have a family to support... I love my daughter with all my heart so your juvenile advice to not give a **** about anything or anyone is severely misdirected.

Being alpha is not a frame of mind, it is a physical stereotype. They are physically the best and strongest specimens the male gender has to offer. They have the best genes and they know it which is why they can AFFORD to be so confident and not worry about females because they can get any woman they want anytime. A little skinny bald nerd can't just puff out his chest and act like a badass and expect the world to bow down to him, doesn't work like that.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Don't be so immature. I am almost forty. I have a family to support... I love my daughter with all my heart so your juvenile advice to not give a **** about anything or anyone is severely misdirected.

Being alpha is not a frame of mind, it is a physical stereotype. They are physically the best and strongest specimens the male gender has to offer. They have the best genes and they know it which is why they can AFFORD to be so confident and not worry about females because they can get any woman they want anytime. A little skinny bald nerd can't just puff out his chest and act like a badass and expect the world to bow down to him, doesn't work like that.

UC Man, this is all the crap coming from that puahate forum. Where they see women as accessories, and are more interested in getting approval from other men....

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Except for S4L as any woman who would want him is either in debt or wants a meal, so no nookie for him. Unless they're hot and young enough to be his daughter! Mind you I don't know where he meets women, maybe a crack den!!

 

[I AM AWESOME]

Don't be so immature. I am almost forty. I have a family to support... I love my daughter with all my heart so your juvenile advice to not give a **** about anything or anyone is severely misdirected.

So what are you complaining about then?

If you already have a wife and a family then why are you concerned about your hair and your perceived lack of female interest?

A little skinny bald nerd can't just puff out his chest and act like a badass and expect the world to bow down to him, doesn't work like that.

You do know that you can change your body if you're skinny? You're not genetically coded to be skinny for life. Lift heavy, eat clean and take your multi and you won't be skinny anymore.

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Also lol'd at the jelly haters who negged me just because I said it how it is.

I just cannot believe how many here are giving up in life because of a few follicles on their head.

Yes having hair is good, but not having any isn't the end of the world. Get on treatments, take care of your hair, keep track of it and carry on with life. Life isn't going to end because you have a few less follicles than before. Most here have hair loss in their late-mid 20s/early 30s, at which age even pretty advanced hair loss is considered normal. I've been very advanced diffused since 17 (Lost my hair in a period of 5 months of extreme shedding at 17) and have not seen it interfere in my life as much as some are implying here. Of course some days I feel bad about not having a full head of hair at 20, but this motivates me even more to success. Stop crying and trying to garner sympathy from others on this forum and do something about your situation.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

I neeged you because your comment was daft! I'm certainly not jealous, if that's what you mean by jelly! I agree with much of what you say having said that

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[Exodus2011]

girls arent even the main issue . . . . . its a big part of it but my main problem with hair loss is the way it completely ****s my identity and body image . . . . . . . i literally never ever look into a mirror except when putting on minoxidil. its simply too much of a downer

 

[Scarred4Life]

Except for S4L as any woman who would want him is either in debt or wants a meal, so no nookie for him. Unless they're hot and young enough to be his daughter! Mind you I don't know where he meets women, maybe a crack den!!

That's where I met your girlfriend, since you are now using the forum to directly attack and insult people and the moderator zero allows it.

 

[zeroes]

Use the report button. Just because you don't see action taken against a poster doesn't mean action is not taken.