Has anyone made it out?

[peter079]

Have any of you young (20-30yo) bald/balding guys with at least a NW4,NW5 or more, have managed to dig yourselves out of this hole???
What I mean is, have you been able to find a girl that has accepted you and remained with you and are now married and living happily? I know there are girls out there that will date a bald guy until someone better comes along, that is why I'm asking for examples where your partner has remained with you, and you are now engaged or married/soon to be married?

Lately all that has been on this site is members saying how hopeless everything is. I wouldn't mind hearing some positive stories of how some guys on here have actaully managed to turn their lives around, and maybe share some tips with others.

 

[GeminiX]

There are many positive stories, far more than the negative ones; it's just that the negative people tend to keep going on and on and on vociferously, while the more positive people get on with their lives

 

[bigentries]

I'll say it again

I know a guy in his middle 30's who went completely bald AT LEAST when he was 23 years old.
He has been married, has cheated, and to this day doesn't have a problem getting women. He is also the most rude guy you would ever meet. Sometimes I worry what would he be like today if he kept his hair

A guy I went to college with was a heartthrob and always dated the cutest girls around. He shaved his head completely, but I never considered it any other thing than a choice until someone told me he went bald in high school

And I know lots of couples from work in their 30's with a bald husband

While my examples are not the norm, you only need to have a walk to see that people that are considered "ugly" do reproduce and form families, and way more than people who are considered extremely attractive
Baldness is not seen as an attractive trait (with more exceptions than people here admit), but is not going to keep you away from getting a couple

Sorry if I offend anyone here, but many pessimists remind me of girls I know in their middle twenties who are butt-ugly and still read Twilight and talk how they want an Edward in their life as soon as possible, and still wonder why all their friends are getting married and she is still alone

My viewpoint doesn't make me accept my baldness. At least with me it makes me look ugly, if I had the opportunity to have all my hair again, of course I would pay for it . But I'm not going to blow things out of proportion.
Sorry if many here were the cute boys around the block and are only realizing what being considered ugly is like

 

[Zidane]

I think the people who "make it out" as you put it, are mainly the people who have proportionate heads and ears - so shaving their head doesn't change their appearance too much, if at all. I don't think that's the norm though. Some people even look BETTER with no hair. Unfortunately though, most of us who shaved our heads or even clipper it down low on a 1 or 2 look like completely different people, and not in a good way either.

To answer your question though, Yes I do know people who made it out. My friend has had VERY thin hair all over his head (Not sure how you would classify it on the Norwood scale, i think it's just referred to as "Diffuse Thinning"), he's been with the same girl since his mid 20's, hes now in his 30's. BUT, he's one of the lucky few who look good (if not better and more masculine) with a shaved head.

I don't know anyone with DISPROPORTIONATE head/ears who are chill about losing their hair though, sorry :dunno: