Dating coaches have nothing to teach. You know that too. Anybody can read the pickup books - which are full of nonsense - and then regurgitate the information. The coaches that I had just told me that I was approaching well and that I should keep trying. And the usual stuff of the coach telling me that being in shape and well dressed is important, all while I was in better shape and better dressed than him. One caring coach told me that I do not seem to have any social problems and can go ahead without a coach. I used to think that I must have social problems to have such bad results but no. It can all be attributed to baldness. The problem with the dating coach industry is that there is no accountability or quality control. When I was unsatisfied with the results, I wasn't offered any remuneration or free service but told that I can book more time at full price if I want. Similar thing with the pro photographer that I hired. I am done with paying people for substandard service.
The travel thing could be an option and same with hair system. But you are all overestimating arranged marriage. Nowadays it is fiercely competitive - same as the apps and all - and it is not arranged marriage but arranged date. When you are on a date, all the usual rules apply: you are out of your depth if your Norwood is higher than NW3.