How Do I Calm Down Need Legit Advice

[Xander94]

I go to the gym everyday and aside from workceling I browse lookism and GourmetStyleWellness all day and constantly shuffling pictures around for tinder.

Im at stress all day thinking what I should do and do nothing finally. Im living the same day every day

I can't even sleep properly

Have slowly been like that for the past 5 years the last 2 years it has gotten extremely worse (due to stress of baldness and agepill).

No vacation no friends no social interaction.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

You're quite a decent looking guy so its not because of the way you look.

Its so hard to give you advice over the internet because we cant see how you interact with others.

For friends - the best thing to do is join a sports team or if you aren't into sports then join a club that relates to your hobbies,

 

[EvilLocks]

I go to the gym everyday and aside from workceling I browse lookism and GourmetStyleWellness all day and constantly shuffling pictures around for tinder.

Im at stress all day thinking what I should do and do nothing finally. Im living the same day every day

I can't even sleep properly

Have slowly been like that for the past 5 years the last 2 years it has gotten extremely worse (due to stress of baldness and agepill).

No vacation no friends no social interaction.

Try truxal for sleep if it's an ongoing problem, it worked for me. It's not a sleeping pill so not addictive but it calms you down and gives good rest. If you don't wanna try meds you can try meditation and going to bed and waking up at the same time every day.

Agepill? Aren't you 22? You could have the best years ahead of you my friend. Agepill doesn't hit men until 40's.

 

[Xander94]

You're quite a decent looking guy so its not because of the way you look.

Its so hard to give you advice over the internet because we cant see how you interact with others.

For friends - the best thing to do is join a sports team or if you aren't into sports then join a club that relates to your hobbies,

no hobbies either

 

[Xander94]

Agepill? Aren't you 22? You could have the best years ahead of you my friend. Agepill doesn't hit men until 40's.

Once you reach a certain age and ur incel you become an oldcel and your family starts making you feel like a failure.

 

[Dante92]

At this point, see a very good shrink. You need to vent, not on a forum, but talking to someone irl. Get a grip on your life and pull yourself together once and for all before you get to the point of no return in the self destructing state you've willingly reduced yourself to. Anger and frustration will poison you if they are not channelled into something creative and productive and turned into positive energy to take control on your life.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

At this point, see a very good shrink. You need to vent, not on a forum, but talking to someone irl. Get a grip on your life and pull yourself together once and for all before you get to the point of no return in the self destructing state you've willingly reduced yourself to. Anger and frustration will poison you if they are not channelled into something creative and productive and turned into positive energy to take control on your life.

I cant believe I'm saying this but listen to Dante.

 

[Xander94]

At this point, see a very good shrink. You need to vent, not on a forum, but talking to someone irl. Get a grip on your life and pull yourself together once and for all before you get to the point of no return in the self destructing state you've willingly reduced yourself to. Anger and frustration will poison you if they are not channelled into something creative and productive and turned into positive energy to take control on your life.

23 and have lost the will to live. What am I even doing in my life, who am I doing it for, what is the point of all of this.

 

[EvilLocks]

Once you reach a certain age and ur incel you become an oldcel and your family starts making you feel like a failure.

That's true. My younger brother is 19 and an incel, and although he never says anything I know it's hard for him even at that age. He's just too shy to talk to girls and never goes out to meet any either. It's easier for girls, guys are ''supposed'' to be studs who bang chicks right and left, if a girl is a virgin it's just seen as cool and ''saving herself for someone special''

 

[JohnsonDDG]

That's true. My younger brother is 19 and an incel, and although he never says anything I know it's hard for him even at that age. He's just too shy to talk to girls and never goes out to meet any either. It's easier for girls, guys are ''supposed'' to be studs who bang chicks right and left, if a girl is a virgin it's just seen as cool and ''saving herself for someone special''

I was the same at 19 - I was super shy and never approached women.

Internet dating saved me and gave me the confidence I needed. Before then I just stayed in and never talked to girls because I was afraid of rejection.

 

[Xander94]

I was the same at 19 - I was super shy and never approached women.

Internet dating saved me and gave me the confidence I needed. Before then I just stayed in and never talked to girls because I was afraid of rejection.

Internet dating broke me completely. It was the final killing blow on an oldcel

 

[GornMyson]

This site is one thing but you really need to stop browsing lookism

 

[Xander94]

This site is one thing but you really need to stop browsing lookism

You don't understand I literally do this all day. I read a new black pill story every day and my sould gets darker and darker combined with the dissapointment from online dating.

I think if this continues in a couple of years I will be broken completely and become just an empty life shell. Quit everything and completely rotcel in a basement somewhere.

 

[SmoothSailing]

You don't understand I literally do this all day. I read a new black pill story every day and my sould gets darker and darker combined with the dissapointment from online dating.

I think if this continues in a couple of years I will be broken completely and become just an empty life shell. Quit everything and completely rotcel in a basement somewhere.

Seriously, get off lookism. It's an ideology and gives a warped view of reality.

Get off lookism.

I'd also advise stopping online dating for the time being. You're young and have time. Try and bring your focus to something non women related, not as a perma cope, just for the time being to get your head straight.

Then make slow changes to become more sociable.

Good luck friend.

 

[GornMyson]

You don't understand I literally do this all day. I read a new black pill story every day and my sould gets darker and darker combined with the dissapointment from online dating.

I think if this continues in a couple of years I will be broken completely and become just an empty life shell. Quit everything and completely rotcel in a basement somewhere.

Bro don't get me started on how depressing my life has been and how insecure I've been. You're not the only one.

If I browsed lookism everyday I would go back in the nut house. It's toxic. At least cut down on browsing until you feel better and can totally cut it out

 

[Xander94]

Bro don't get me started on how depressing my life has been and how insecure I've been. You're not the only one.

If I browsed lookism everyday I would go back in the nut house. It's toxic. At least cut down on browsing until you feel better and can totally cut it out

are you incel as well?

 

[pjhair]

Internet dating broke me completely. It was the final killing blow on an oldcel

I think you should forget internet dating. Why even rely on that if it's not working for you? Get out of your house man . Meet new people, travel, go backpacking.

 

[Xander94]

I think you should forget internet dating. Why even rely on that if it's not working for you? Get out of your house man . Meet new people, travel, go backpacking.

Are you nuts. I told you I legit only have a few friends and atm only one I semi-trust

 

[GornMyson]

are you incel as well?

Basically ye . I've had "sex" 3 times but very drunk and half hard on half soft and never came and they weren't prime girls trust. Part of that is due to p**rn addiction.

 

[Medina]

Me at 22 - Playing Fallout New Vegas all day, no friends, no interest from women
Me at 27 - Rocking up the club, the man of the hour, actually rejecting women

You can turn it all around bro. The only problem is, once you get a taste for that life, once you know how it feels to be wanted. You become scared to death of losing it. That's what male pattern baldness is doing to me.