How do I get over it? Blown once in a life time chance?

Feelsbadman

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How do you get over a once in the life time chance?

I had the chance for love sex and a relationship but I blew my chance, then my hair receded and being an ugly short male I can not afford to lose any points

. I looksmaxxed incredibly hard in the first place to get a girlfriend. I was at my "peak" when i was with her.. my peak being a 6.5/10 but any slight drop to my physical appearance (e.g. hair loss) would have huge ramifications. Now i'm a 4/10. So please don't say "you can get another gf again bro!"

To make it worse, I take finasteride which has reduced my libido and ability to f***. So now i have to live knowing the fact that i cant even f*** like i used to nor get a gf like i used to. How does one just not care and get over it?
 
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DoctorHouse

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No troll responses please, going through a rough patch atm.
PTSD? And I thought you had a sense of humor? You need to change that dislike to Ha!HA!, sport. You know I am not the enemy here. I am like Chucky, your friend til the end.
 

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Save for a transplant. Focus on your career/socials skills. Get a hobby. Stop lookmaxxing like a psycho, do your best but don’t go overboard. Improve your fashion. Learn to love life outside the context of women and relationships
 
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Feelsbadman

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Save for a transplant. Focus on your career/socials skills. Get a hobby. Stop lookmaxxing like a psycho, do your best but don’t go overboard. Improve your fashion. Learn to love life outside the context of women and relationships
But looksmaxing is the only thing that mad me attractive to women?
 

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Just saw a photo of @Feelsbadman and he lied. He is a chad after all. Troll of the year. You really should be ashamed of yourself for making us think you were ugly.
 

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any other no troll answers? how can i move on when theres nothing to move on to?
You just answered your own question with a question. I think the only way to move on is to contact the girl and have closure. Ask her why she cheated on you? And would she want you back?
 

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You just answered your own question with a question. I think the only way to move on is to contact the girl and have closure. Ask her why she cheated on you? And would she want you back?
it's too late for that she's mentally unwell.
 

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didnt he post some pic with his ex some time ago? if i remember it right he looked absolutely normal^^
Oh, so you remember seeing it too. Someone just PM'd me the same one you are talking about.
 

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Oh, so you remember seeing it too. Someone just PM'd me the same one you are talking about.
yeah i dont remember his face right now, but i would if it wasnt normal...
like the one fat dude who thought hair is his only problem... that is something i of course remember...
 
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