How do other view you: Objective measures?

CaptainForehead

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Have any of you have posted pics on hot or not, or ratemypicture type sites?
To see objectively how others view you?

If so, what were your ratings?
 

DannyBoyy

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No cause i couldnt give two ****s what others think you shouldnt either.
 

Primo

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Quite honestly we should all be more or less aware already where we rank in the "lookist pecking order" as UC Man puts it without the need for further outside negative judgement from other paranoid, ultra-competing males, for instance I know very well from various guys saying I look like Gollum, Heath Ledger's joker and Wayne Rooney (pre-hair transplant) that I certainly don't have Hollywood features, however the way guys b*tch and cry on this and many other forums you'd think that simply having an average looking face was a total "incel" death sentence....

....and YET I've had more than my fair share of quality female action (ironically much more since I've become a nw3) and women are more than happy to talk to me and never run scared from me because I don't look like a 6ft, handsomely chiselled, nw1 male model... why is this I wonder???... Perhaps because I am a normal, happy, friendly, open and honest, non-creepy, non-antisocial, non-misanthropic, non-(giving a sht about "what society thinks" about my appearance) and non-"air of desperation look on my face when I talk to women" human being and women find this very attractive and have a lot of time for me despite my bog standard average looking face, height, build etc...

I think because most men are so incredibly superficial and strictly VISUAL about attraction to the opposite sex (i.e. her personality and her absolutely dreadful potential and non existent attributes as a future-wife and mother and all other flaws are rendered completely insignificant, as long as she's hot and has a cute tight a$$), guys often seem to forget that women actually work on a lot more than simply visual attraction when judging a man, so people need to stop telling themselves it's game over, when they haven't even tried to express their personality and character to others in public.
 

Thom

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Not saying this to sound like I am full of myself, but I tend to talk myself down a few notches when apparently girls like me. When girls have rated me, in person, it's always surprising to me but I guess I just get too tongue tied around them to ask em out or talk for more than five minutes.

I would never consider putting my pics on one of those sites though because I really don't care that much. Superficial people rating superficial people? Id rather just want to know what the down to earth ones think.
 
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