I don't think a women can love you for you unless you're good looking?

[Feelsbadman]

The only way a women can ever love you for you is if you are tall and good looking
I know a lot of girls who love their boyfriend/husband who usually are Chads, 6 ft 4 , NW1 , Caucasian, social, etc
these guys aren't smart, don't have a great career, etc but their girlfriends and wives support then and love them and are happy being with them.

It seems that that is imo the only way a women can truly love you

The only other ways are if you are average looking or ugly but you have resources , money, good career, lifestyle etc, the women doesn't love you for you but only loves you for those resources you can provide her

whereas if you're a tall chad that will never go bald that will last a lifetime, you could be broke, poor and have nothing going for you and stil la women would just love you for "you"

if you're not good looking a women willl never love you for you it will be for some other reason. This is a bad thng because that other reason may not be constant or could be replaceable/upgraded easily.

long story short if you're not tall and good looking a women won't love you for you

 

[DoctorHouse]

The only way a women can ever love you for you is if you are tall and good looking
I know a lot of girls who love their boyfriend/husband who usually are Chads, 6 ft 4 , NW1 , Caucasian, social, etc
these guys aren't smart, don't have a great career, etc but their girlfriends and wives support then and love them and are happy being with them.

It seems that that is imo the only way a women can truly love you

The only other ways are if you are average looking or ugly but you have resources , money, good career, lifestyle etc, the women doesn't love you for you but only loves you for those resources you can provide her

whereas if you're a tall chad that will never go bald that will last a lifetime, you could be broke, poor and have nothing going for you and stil la women would just love you for "you"

if you're not good looking a women willl never love you for you it will be for some other reason. This is a bad thng because that other reason may not be constant or could be replaceable/upgraded easily.

long story short if you're not tall and good looking a women won't love you for you

LOL, we already know "size" matters. Since you have all the answers how do explain why Angela Jolie and Jennifer Aniston stopped loving Brad Pitt? Or why did Christine Brinkley fall in love with Billy Joel? And then fell out of love with him?

 

[Feelsbadman]

LOL, we already know "size" matters. Since you have all the answers how do explain why Angela Jolie and Jennifer Aniston stopped loving Brad Pitt? Or why did Christine Brinkley fall in love with Billy Joel? And then fell out of love with him?

But they loved them in the first place right??
i didnt mean they will love you for life.
also they are celebrities so have options readily and available. also how do you know they fell out of love do you know the truth? know then personally?

 

[MrClean1]

Woman want to produce the best genes for their baby they can get. So if they can get a 6' 4 inch guy they will because the baby will grow to be tall. Some of them don't want to work so they will look for the money and let the looks be secondary but for the most part couples match up in the looks department. Some fat slob is not marring Tom Brady

 

[Feelsbadman]

Woman want to produce the best genes for their baby they can get. So if they can get a 6' 4 inch guy they will because the baby will grow to be tall. Some of them don't want to work so they will look for the money and let the looks be secondary but for the most part couples match up in the looks department. Some fat slob is not marring Tom Brady

Correct.
Women's primal urge is to have babies. This primal urge to have babies makes them want to mate with partners who have the best;

1) Genetics and/or 2) Resources

This is why broke dudes who are good looking/tall will never have a problem finding women and also why very wealthy men will also never have problem finding women even if they are very ugly

The problem is that the 2nd thing is not who you are without it, you're nothing, the 1st thing genetics is who you are something you are born with and die with .

 

[INT]

I feel like this thread is about to turn into a broscience evolutionary psychology thread real soon.

 

[spring15]

Your standards are far too high. If you're short / bald / pale / poor - Start going for the other 4/10s

Unless you're on tinder then you'll have to settle for the 1/10s

 

[Feelsbadman]

Your standards are far too high. If you're short / bald / pale / poor - Start going for the other 4/10s

Unless you're on tinder then you'll have to settle for the 1/10s

but if slept with hotter girls in the past how can i be happy?

 

[b4sedt0ny]

but if slept with hotter girls in the past how can i be happy?

Time for a trip to the Feels Bar boyo, don't forget your wig & hat

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Nah you don't have to be a male model

If you look normal, stay fit, wear cool clothes you'll get girls

 

[Oknow]

The only way a women can ever love you for you is if you are tall and good looking
I know a lot of girls who love their boyfriend/husband who usually are Chads, 6 ft 4 , NW1 , Caucasian, social, etc
these guys aren't smart, don't have a great career, etc but their girlfriends and wives support then and love them and are happy being with them.

It seems that that is imo the only way a women can truly love you

The only other ways are if you are average looking or ugly but you have resources , money, good career, lifestyle etc, the women doesn't love you for you but only loves you for those resources you can provide her

whereas if you're a tall chad that will never go bald that will last a lifetime, you could be broke, poor and have nothing going for you and stil la women would just love you for "you"

if you're not good looking a women willl never love you for you it will be for some other reason. This is a bad thng because that other reason may not be constant or could be replaceable/upgraded easily.

long story short if you're not tall and good looking a women won't love you for you

Not true at all
Believe it or not, different people like different things

By your logic, not being white and not having a NW1, I should not be able to attract anyone when I recently had to end it with a white hottie due to logistics.

it’s a numbers game.

 

[Oknow]

Your standards are far too high. If you're short / bald / pale / poor - Start going for the other 4/10s

Unless you're on tinder then you'll have to settle for the 1/10s

Again another major myth

I have found that ugly women can be just as fussy as attractive ones.

Recently I was on a date with a very unattractive woman 4/10 easy, short answers and generally had a sh*t vibe, the date ended after 20 minutes because she was such a knob

I thought it would be an easy hook up.

in contrast the nicest girl I’ve met recently was easily a 7 or 8/10 , with a great personality. Kept in touch for over 6 months

didn’t workout since she is in the US and wanted me to move over to be with her - can’t because of my career

 

[Oknow]

Nah you don't have to be a male model

If you look normal, stay fit, wear cool clothes you'll get girls

Some of the best looking women are insecure and have realistic expectations, sure you get some stuck up one’s too but that’s why it’s important to screen them

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Some of the best looking women are insecure and have realistic expectations, sure you get some stuck up one’s too but that’s why it’s important to screen them

A lot of the hottest girls that I see on Instagram have average boyfriends with many flaws

Flaws such as: small frame, short, receding hairline, beer belly.. incels would tell those guys it's "over"

Matter of fact I find it rare to see a totally "wow" couple (where the woman is gorgeous and so is her guy)..

 

[Oknow]

@Feelsbadman

I think that very few people share your outlook on reality, and most people are far more upbeat and happy about things.
Is your outlook "the correct" one? In my opinion the answer is absolutely no, because there isn't really such a thing as a "correct" outlook. There just exist people with different outlooks.
Is it possible to reconfigure your outlook to be more upbeat? Potentially, I don't know you well enough.

i think women will be able to sense his vibe - he’s desperate and thirsty

I’ve noticed that when I’ve been successful it’s usually when I’m not feeling thirsty and don’t really care if I get the woman or not.

Whenever I’ve tried to mask sh*t vibe, never works they can always figure it out something is off.

 

[Oknow]

A lot of the hottest girls that I see on Instagram have average boyfriends with many flaws

Flaws such as: small frame, short, receding hairline, beer belly.. incels would tell those guys it's "over"

Matter of fact I find it rare to see a totally "wow" couple (where the woman is gorgeous and so is her guy)..

The thing is most of these ‘attractive’ women are average too

Lots rely on makeup to look hot, and they are self conscious about it

spoken to a few where they refuse to chat to you face to face unless they are dolled up

 

[Oknow]

@Oknow

Yeah, I generally agree. Bitterness, jadedness, and neediness aren't attractive, and neither is negativity generally.

The problem is that I think many men don't really know how to develop a more positive and life-affirming mindset.

A fairly good approach in my view is to find a role model, and to try to emulate their mindset and vibe. I think this generally is more effective that trying to change your mindset from scratch.

dating is one of those things, it will happen when it happens

So many times I’ve felt like Feelsbadman, down and out, struggling to get dates, matches but then from out of nowhere I meet a woman who is interested, usually when I least expect it

On that note, just as I was writing this I got a new match

 

[Oknow]

This is @Feelsbadman problem

Summed up in one quote, by the KING

 

[justinbieberscombover]

The thing is most of these ‘attractive’ women are average too

Lots rely on makeup to look hot, and they are self conscious about it

spoken to a few where they refuse to chat to you face to face unless they are dolled up

Yeah I don't mind tbh

It's more important for me that the girl will find me hot

For example, I'd rather be with a 7/10 who gets soaking wet for me than an 8/10 who thinks she's doing me a favor lol

 

[Oknow]

I more or less agree, the trouble is that I think that many people don't know how to "believe in themselves". I think that changing attitude, and figuring out a positive and productive attitutde, is not a trivial thing for many people, and they basically don't really know how it's done.

the first step with believing in yourself is knowing that you will be ok no matter what happens