I tought i really had no hope reading this forum

[gravesen]

(I should note here that i'm not completely bald, but i had a very receeding hairline and thinning hair that would be considered as "bald" by the majority here)

So, after reading days after days this forum, i tought my days with girls are already over, i didn't even try to meet any new girls etc ...

But when i did, i found two girls interrested in me after some rendez-vous, same age as me (21), i kissed one of them (i found her cute, but for society she would be rated at a '7'/10 ) and she even wanted to be my girlfriend (but i refused, since she was studying in Europe the whole year and i'm living in Morocco :/ )

The fact is i'm schoked and amazed at the same time, i really used to read all the folks here religiously, but i can't trust you over my eyes.

(I'm only talking about girls her, i still feel bad for my hairloss of course)

 

[gravesen]

If you don't talk about how every one is rejecting you you can't get a reply in this section

 

[DannyBoyy]

What are you on about?

 

[gravesen]

Like most people on this section, just relating about my personal experiences.

It's not like we are searching any things or solutions in there.

But i would just like an answer for all the sect who says "If you're severely thinning you're a freakish bald" etc.

So why am i then still attraction some girls of my age ? (And nop, they're not fat, not models but they seem above average to me)

 

[DannyBoyy]

Ah ok i get it now i wouldnt listen to most here dude some off the people who say what you just said are banned anyway...at the end off the day you get women who like and dont like bald people simple really you get women thats all what matters i mean she likes you right? isnt that enough proof?

 

[Scarred4Life]

(I should note here that i'm not completely bald, but i had a very receeding hairline and thinning hair that would be considered as "bald" by the majority here)

So, after reading days after days this forum, i tought my days with girls are already over, i didn't even try to meet any new girls etc ...

But when i did, i found two girls interrested in me after some rendez-vous, same age as me (21), i kissed one of them (i found her cute, but for society she would be rated at a '7'/10 ) and she even wanted to be my girlfriend (but i refused, since she was studying in Europe the whole year and i'm living in Morocco :/ )

The fact is i'm schoked and amazed at the same time, i really used to read all the folks here religiously, but i can't trust you over my eyes.

(I'm only talking about girls her, i still feel bad for my hairloss of course)

Couple facts.

First, if you weren't bald or thinning, you would have hundreds of girls interested in you instead of only two.

Second, a girl kissed you and right afterwards wants to be your girlfiend? What girl would do that without having some sort of issues or problems? She is either broke and looking for a free ride or is hiding something.

 

[gravesen]

I don't understand how you got that from my message.

She confessed to me later that she liked me 2 months since then, when i kissed her, it's just that she KNEW i was interessted.

And nop, she doesn't have any issues and had 2 average looking/1 good looking guy who wanted to date her.

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The rest is fiction, not fact, since i'm average looking.

 

[meetjoeblack]

(I should note here that i'm not completely bald, but i had a very receeding hairline and thinning hair that would be considered as "bald" by the majority here)

So, after reading days after days this forum, i tought my days with girls are already over, i didn't even try to meet any new girls etc ...

But when i did, i found two girls interrested in me after some rendez-vous, same age as me (21), i kissed one of them (i found her cute, but for society she would be rated at a '7'/10 ) and she even wanted to be my girlfriend (but i refused, since she was studying in Europe the whole year and i'm living in Morocco :/ )

The fact is i'm schoked and amazed at the same time, i really used to read all the folks here religiously, but i can't trust you over my eyes.

(I'm only talking about girls her, i still feel bad for my hairloss of course)

Good for you man. Never quit. Drown out stupid people.

I picked up this really cute girl (7/10) but my skin was broken out. I didn't know. I just acted upon my desire for her. I was shocked to notice afterward since in my head I assumed I looked great.

Indifference is like magic.

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Like most people on this section, just relating about my personal experiences.

It's not like we are searching any things or solutions in there.

But i would just like an answer for all the sect who says "If you're severely thinning you're a freakish bald" etc.

So why am i then still attraction some girls of my age ? (And nop, they're not fat, not models but they seem above average to me)

Your attractive to the girls regardless. Your positive, carefree, easy going. Easy on the eyes and they love you. You for you is the best man. Congrats.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Glad to see some positivity on this forum. Had to take a break for a few days after last week. Great to come back and see some people going against the overly negative attitude!

 

[Jockson]

I really do feel for new members or lurkers who come on here for help and advice only to discover this section of the forum where the majority of the negative stuff that gets posted is complete BS. Case in point:

if you weren't bald or thinning, you would have hundreds of girls interested in you instead of only two.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

I think the problem is, that there's a hardcore of posters who are so warped and broken that they post this type of stuff endlessly. You give anecdotal evidence and it's lies, yet their anecdotes are paraded as facts. There are vulnerable forum members who will take what is said on board and just give up. Combine with the virulent misogyny, referring to women as "b****s", "skanks" etc, makes the forum seem a very dark place.

 

[uncomfortable man]

When your bald you see a different, less accepting side of society which can lead to disenchantment with humanity.
Name one actual bald poster here who is happy about it and sees things the way you positivity pushers do?

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

I already have seen how society can be judgemental first hand But it doesn't mean that everybody or even a majority behaves like that or thinks that way. It's just that the ignorant often shout the loudest, and a hurtful comment stays with you far longer than a compliment.

 

[I AM AWESOME]

When your bald you see a different, less accepting side of society which can lead to disenchantment with humanity.

Bald at 17 checking in.

Not a single fuk was given. [OK maybe a few fuks were given but not to the level you take it to]

HAve had no more problems than what the typical teenager faces [srs].

 

[uncomfortable man]

I just saw your pic guy and you aren't bald, not even close so that right there explains your relatively normal teenagehood.

 

[I AM AWESOME]

I just saw your pic guy and you aren't bald, not even close so that right there explains your relatively normal teenagehood.

Did you not see my vertex area? Bald as fuk there.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Not the same as a horseshoe.

 

[I AM AWESOME]

Not the same as a horseshoe.

Pretty fuking bad for a teen.

 

[meetjoeblack]

I think the problem is, that there's a hardcore of posters who are so warped and broken that they post this type of stuff endlessly. You give anecdotal evidence and it's lies, yet their anecdotes are paraded as facts. There are vulnerable forum members who will take what is said on board and just give up. Combine with the virulent misogyny, referring to women as "b****s", "skanks" etc, makes the forum seem a very dark place.

You got to go beyond society or conformist mentality. Imagine if martin luther king jr was okay at sitting at the back of the bus? If women didn't make the feminist right movement? There is a certain level of difficulty necessary in order for change.

 

[Scarred4Life]

Not the same as a horseshoe.

Let's face it, these guys with full heads of hair or slight thinning aren't bald. They don't have a clue hos society treats bald people. In fact, I think most of them have come here to harass bald people.

Like you, I am still waiting for an actual bald guy to come here and tell us how great it is.