I'm beginning to think that hair is the #1 physical attribute that women care about

rick39

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I know that a good number of people who post in this forum seem to think that being physically fit or being tall is the #1 thing that women are physically attracted to for men but I'm really beginning to think that having a full head of hair is #1.

I say that because I was at a mall walking around earlier today observing couples walking together where the woman was attractive and I noticed that the guys who weren't wearing hats all had 1 thing in common: they all had a full head of hair with little if any recession. Some were overweight, some were very thin, some were shorter than me (I'm 5'7") but none were bald or balding and I saw 15-20 couples. I'm really starting to believe that most women care about a man having good hair first and foremost even over height and physique.
 

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I know that a good number of people who post in this forum seem to think that being physically fit or being tall is the #1 thing that women are physically attracted to for men but I'm really beginning to think that having a full head of hair is #1.

I say that because I was at a mall walking around earlier today observing couples walking together where the woman was attractive and I noticed that the guys who weren't wearing hats all had 1 thing in common: they all had a full head of hair with little if any recession. Some were overweight, some were very thin, some were shorter than me (I'm 5'7") but none were bald or balding and I saw 15-20 couples. I'm really starting to believe that most women care about a man having good hair first and foremost even over height and physique.

You're right! That's what I've been saying. The reason women like the men with hair is that hair produces attractiveness.
Women want attractive men. Another word for attractive is PRETTY. Women want pretty men.
The prettier the better as long as he doesn't look like a girl.

A month or so ago a poster was here complaining because the pretty blond haired man in his group of friends was having the best time with the women.
He seemed shocked and disgruntled about it. He posted the pretty blond guy's pic and he said something like, "Can you believe that women actually like
this guy the most?" Although I could not tell if the blond haired guy was tall I can tell you he was NOT muscular. Women say one thing when they're looking
at pics of celebrities and they go ga-ga over some celebrities muscles, but when women are out at clubs or parties, sipping drinks, and being flirtatious
that is where the truth comes out. And the truth is that women are trying to pair off with pretty men. Pretty trumps muscles, height
(as long as the pretty man isn't too short), money, everything. Pretty men are life's winners. And hair makes men prettier.
 

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Yeah, a couple of the guys that I saw with attractive women had very feminine-type hairstyles and one guy even had a man bun. Neither looked like they work out. It made me sick to my stomach to see the type of women that they were with.
 

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Yeah, a couple of the guys that I saw with attractive women had very feminine-type hairstyles and one guy even had a man bun. Neither looked like they work out. It made me sick to my stomach to see the type of women that they were with.

Yes. It makes guys mad and the women deny it but when it comes time to get paired up with a man the women select attractive (pretty) men.

Some women are into muscles so if you make yourself muscular that can benefit you but nothing, and I mean nothing, compares to being attractive.
 

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Well, a good build is always welcome and will go a very long way, it's just that hair trumps everything else - or, rather, lack thereof does. It's the make-or-break of physical attraction, the switch.

People just talk more about shredded bodies as an important factor because hair is implied by default; it's the condition, the assumption when discussing male beauty.
 

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I can understand women wanting to be with attractive men just like men want to be with attractive women but the one guy had a MAN BUN, lol, and I think that men who have those look ridiculous and basically look like women.
 

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I can understand women wanting to be with attractive men just like men want to be with attractive women but the one guy had a MAN BUN, lol, and I think that men who have those look ridiculous and basically look like women.

But remember that it doesn't really matter what we as guys think looks "ridiculous". It's like I said about that poster who came off as disgruntled and shocked because his pretty friend with lots of long blond hair
has the most women. What matters is who the women are selecting? And women select ATTRACTIVE men. I would not wear a bun under any circumstances, but I'm not going to lie to you, when I have my hair
I do try to make myself as appealing as I can without looking like a girl. I have my hair cut by quality stylists and I have it styled in ways that make me look as appealing as I can look. I use pricey shampoos
and conditioners.
 

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Yeah, a couple of the guys that I saw with attractive women had very feminine-type hairstyles and one guy even had a man bun. Neither looked like they work out. It made me sick to my stomach to see the type of women that they were with.

Man buns are BOMB!
 

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Is it realt a mystery?


Why would they be with a bald guy when they can have a guy with hair.

why be with a bald muscular guy, and when you can be with a muscular man with hair?


we want the best. Women are fortunate enough to have a wider selection to choose from, where as men kinda just deal with what they can in most cases
 

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I'm pretty sure the order of priority for North American women is:

White
Low body fat
Tall
Big bones and muscles

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Is it realt a mystery?


Why would they be with a bald guy when they can have a guy with hair.

why be with a bald muscular guy, and when you can be with a muscular man with hair?


we want the best. Women are fortunate enough to have a wider selection to choose from, where as men kinda just deal with what they can in most cases

There are as many men as women.
 

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And guess what, most would rather be alone then be with someone they are not genuinely attracted to. Plenty of women I know are in this category.


Most women want a hunk who has his head on his shoulders, makes decent wages and has his own toys. A lot are waiting for this man.

Men on other hand, well let's not even go there. I see plenty of decent looking guys with the scraps of women most of us wouldn't even consider.
 

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And guess what, most would rather be alone then be with someone they are not genuinely attracted to. Plenty of women I know are in this category.


Most women want a hunk who has his head on his shoulders, makes decent wages and has his own toys. A lot are waiting for this man.

Men on other hand, well let's not even go there. I see plenty of decent looking guys with the scraps of women most of us wouldn't even consider.

Strange, why would they put up with that if they could get better?
 

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And guess what, most would rather be alone then be with someone they are not genuinely attracted to. Plenty of women I know are in this category.


Most women want a hunk who has his head on his shoulders, makes decent wages and has his own toys. A lot are waiting for this man.

Men on other hand, well let's not even go there. I see plenty of decent looking guys with the scraps of women most of us wouldn't even consider.

Thing is, I know women say the same thing about men. Any guy who's remotely decent will be immediately snatched up according to women.

So I'd be more convinced if I saw hard data.
 

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On top of being good looking with hair you have to have game. Atleast in NY. Theres an army of GQ looking guys in NYC. Then theres another army of hipsters with beards and man buns in Brooklyn. I dont think any of those guys are native of NY though. I sware I never see those guys pulling girls though. There timid and scared of locals I think. They stand around talking to there broews.

But yeah its so competitive. Hairloss is such a big handicap. Making a girl laugh and dancing can go a long way though. Atleast in my experiences.
 

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On top of being good looking with hair you have to have game. Atleast in NY. Theres an army of GQ looking guys in NYC. Then theres another army of hipsters with beards and man buns in Brooklyn. I dont think any of those guys are native of NY though. I sware I never see those guys pulling girls though. There timid and scared of locals I think. They stand around talking to there broews.

But yeah its so competitive. Hairloss is such a big handicap. Making a girl laugh and dancing can go a long way though. Atleast in my experiences.

Game is important, all though I hate that word with the passion.


Socializing, and having strong charisma is important to meeting new women, and networking your way around.


even job wise, it's so important to have good social skills to prospect your way into better jobs, and meet high level individuals. handing out resumes is a joke
 

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Man you all desperate as **** am going bald like crazy and girls know it and still **** me every weekend ive even got an std man come on i qas stressing so much but since some time am really convinced that its all about how you feel yourself or something man they feel it real good think like you see a shy girl or a fat girl who looks away cause she fat man ive ****ed a realy really fat girl and she knew she was gonna **** me and swear to god i didnt ever plan that to happen she overpowered me man do this with woman ull see you wont bother as much as u do now its not the end of the world i also think it sometimes but days like this remind me its not just the hair man for real brothers keep a good state of mind im new here but want nothing but the best for us all man trust me

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Reading my msg it sounds kind of insulting but its not like that am really tryna convice you its really not the end of the world man i been there still going worse BUT THEY KNOW IT i mean everybody sees it i just dont complain or think about it when i see anyone just cut it short last week and feels even better man was all caight up with how my skull was looking 10 years ago and was holding on to one guy who onc said " Egg head " but then i thought man this all in my head cause that was the only one time i ever heard it now i cut it and everybody says man looking good looking fresh b****s dont even notice man and

ONE TIP if u cant hide long hair balding with styling go and cut it short for once and leave the top a little longer its great man looks so much healthier and self confidenced even if u think u got a weird skull man ill post a video later
 

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Man you all desperate as **** am going bald like crazy and girls know it and still **** me every weekend ive even got an std man come on i qas stressing so much but since some time am really convinced that its all about how you feel yourself or something man they feel it real good think like you see a shy girl or a fat girl who looks away cause she fat man ive ****ed a realy really fat girl and she knew she was gonna **** me and swear to god i didnt ever plan that to happen she overpowered me man do this with woman ull see you wont bother as much as u do now its not the end of the world i also think it sometimes but days like this remind me its not just the hair man for real brothers keep a good state of mind im new here but want nothing but the best for us all man trust me

Fat girls and STDs....winning....
 
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