I'm Not Sure About This, But This Is How I Truly Feel.

[Stanx22]

Why you guys still care that much about dating, women and whatever ? I can understand caring for looks and baldness because they don't affect dating only, but nearly all the threads are about nothing but dating, which is too boring and pointless.

Women, chads, incels, virgins, black pill, red pill, blue pill, cucks, sex, etc

i'm f*****g tired of hearing and seeing them over and over non stop and everywhere.


Why can't there be threads that are not boring and actually interesting ? Like threads about science, religions, books, video games, cultures, languages, food, working out, movies, animes and tons of other topics and maybe people who have similar interests will connect better with each others and forget about baldness, women, dating for a bit.

This will be a great cope for us.

But women/dating threads have become very toxic and boring and nearly all people here feel bad after them.

Women get offended

Incels remember what they're missing and then they get more depressed and angry

Chads feel quite offended due to their relationships with women and because they love their girlfriends and then they clash with the incels and nothing good comes after.

This forum is great and i'm proud to be a part of it because it has awesome and cool people, but i believe that it can become dozens times better and more interesting.

People come here to feel better and to forget about their lives and pain and maybe to vent a little, but what would anyone feels if they came here and then saw a depressing thread about how bald men are treated or how women hate bald men and how it's over, when they are already depressed and feeling like crap ?

I think after like 50000 threads we know everything we need to know about reality, but 24/7 threads and constant reminder of reality isn't healthy for already mentally fucked people.

I'm not preaching about positivity and claiming that i'am a saint because i'm not, but too much negativity and too much boredom can be really toxic, especially for us people who face something as serious and as depressing as hair loss.

 

[CopeForLife]

threads about science, religions, books, video games, cultures, languages, food, working out, movies,

we have plenty of them and it's boring

young prime petite attractive girls is what rises interest

I agree in dating and other related sh*t it's also boring af

 

[Stanx22]

we have plenty of them and it's boring

young prime petite attractive girls is what rises interest

I agree in dating and other related sh*t it's also boring af

But what's the point if we're not getting them ? It's only a reality reminder and mental torture for us.

It's like African kids talking about food.

Also, those mentioned threads are way too much in the minority that i can't even remember one of them.

 

[Stanx22]

we have plenty of them and it's boring

young prime petite attractive girls is what rises interest

I agree in dating and other related sh*t it's also boring af

Btw, i love how you illustrated your face on your new avatar. It's creative and quite funny.

It also looks a bit like mine.

 

[fixthis]

I check out that future time line website from time to time and futurology on reddit to cope. I think we'll see big advances in our life time, not just with hair. If they can get down ageing that would be a godsend.

 

[barfacan]

Stan, every thread you make is about how close you are to killing yourself and those around you. So physician heal thyself!

But i don't disagree with your points, the western cancer is spreading fast and unfortunately this is the coping mechanism many men attach themselves to, but its not totally offbase either IMO. You should always be trying to better youself in various ways, for me that's basically a maxim of life.

How much of this new chadincelchat™ is venting / trolling / pure conviction is anyones guess. I think there's definitely alot of parroting going on (everyone does it) without any empirical evidence or life experience -- HOWEVER there's a reason this incel subculture not only exists but continues to permeate.... There is a ton of f*****g sexual frustration going on right now, and its being let out in safe spaces like forums lol.

 

[Stanx22]

Stan, every thread you make is about how close you are to killing yourself and those around you. So physician heal thyself!

But i don't disagree with your points, the western cancer is spreading fast and unfortunately this is the coping mechanism many men attach themselves to, but its not totally offbase either IMO. You should always be trying to better youself in various ways, for me that's basically a maxim of life.

How much of this new chadincelchat™ is venting / trolling / pure conviction is anyones guess. I think there's definitely alot of parroting going on (everyone does it) without any empirical evidence or life experience -- HOWEVER there's a reason this incel subculture not only exists but continues to permeate.... There is a ton of f*****g sexual frustration going on right now, and its being let out in safe spaces like forums lol.

I'll never think of killing myself or those around me, but anyways, i'm changing myself now and maturing, so i think i'm going to be better and more stable.

 

[Cue Bald]

i don;t believe in this / chad / alpha BS, it is pure nonsense. people saying you have to have a 4" chin to get laid or have a 2" eye separation or some stupid autistic shite like that.

every girl has their own type. one of my friends looks a michaelangelo statue, he has a beautiful angel face, golden curly hair, big blue eyes, random people would come upto him and tell him how gorgeous he was. beautiful girls would come upto him and put flowers in his hair and he rejected them every time - he only went for very plain, 5/10 girls. One night at a club he went upto one of these girls, who was really nothing special and chatted her up. She rejected him so hard i was gobsmacked; i later saw her chatting up some chubby guy.

same thing when I had hair, i was a skinny pale 5'7" nerdy guy with messy black hair. a girl i knew had a boyfriend who was 6'3", very handsome, six pack and all that; manager at a store with a nice car; her girlfriend got drunk and said she wanted to leave him for me because i looked like a cartoon character she liked (i declined her as i didn't want to get my *** whooped)

the problem however is that there is a universal ugliness. a lot of girls will like the handsome tall type. fewer girls like the skinny geeky type. even fewer like the fat bearded type. then, lastly, hardly any like the skinny, pale, bald, ill looking type.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Why you guys still care that much about dating, women and whatever ? I can understand caring for looks and baldness because they don't affect dating only, but nearly all the threads are about nothing but dating, which is too boring and pointless.

Women, chads, incels, virgins, black pill, red pill, blue pill, cucks, sex, etc

i'm f*****g tired of hearing and seeing them over and over non stop and everywhere.


Why can't there be threads that are not boring and actually interesting ? Like threads about science, religions, books, video games, cultures, languages, food, working out, movies, animes and tons of other topics and maybe people who have similar interests will connect better with each others and forget about baldness, women, dating for a bit.

This will be a great cope for us.

But women/dating threads have become very toxic and boring and nearly all people here feel bad after them.

Women get offended

Incels remember what they're missing and then they get more depressed and angry

Chads feel quite offended due to their relationships with women and because they love their girlfriends and then they clash with the incels and nothing good comes after.

This forum is great and i'm proud to be a part of it because it has awesome and cool people, but i believe that it can become dozens times better and more interesting.

People come here to feel better and to forget about their lives and pain and maybe to vent a little, but what would anyone feels if they came here and then saw a depressing thread about how bald men are treated or how women hate bald men and how it's over, when they are already depressed and feeling like crap ?

I think after like 50000 threads we know everything we need to know about reality, but 24/7 threads and constant reminder of reality isn't healthy for already mentally fucked people.

I'm not preaching about positivity and claiming that i'am a saint because i'm not, but too much negativity and too much boredom can be really toxic, especially for us people who face something as serious and as depressing as hair loss.

If you want to post about books and films etc you should go to off topic.

This is a hairloss forum and that's why we talk about looks and the impact it has on dating and other things.

 

[Exodus2011]

i don;t believe in this / chad / alpha BS, it is pure nonsense. people saying you have to have a 4" chin to get laid or have a 2" eye separation or some stupid autistic shite like that.

every girl has their own type. one of my friends looks a michaelangelo statue, he has a beautiful angel face, golden curly hair, big blue eyes, random people would come upto him and tell him how gorgeous he was. beautiful girls would come upto him and put flowers in his hair and he rejected them every time - he only went for very plain, 5/10 girls. One night at a club he went upto one of these girls, who was really nothing special and chatted her up. She rejected him so hard i was gobsmacked; i later saw her chatting up some chubby guy.

same thing when I had hair, i was a skinny pale 5'7" nerdy guy with messy black hair. a girl i knew had a boyfriend who was 6'3", very handsome, six pack and all that; manager at a store with a nice car; her girlfriend got drunk and said she wanted to leave him for me because i looked like a cartoon character she liked (i declined her as i didn't want to get my *** whooped)

the problem however is that there is a universal ugliness. a lot of girls will like the handsome tall type. fewer girls like the skinny geeky type. even fewer like the fat bearded type. then, lastly, hardly any like the skinny, pale, bald, ill looking type.

. . . . . sorry but she was still with him and not you. action > words. hate to say it but reminds me of the PSL maxim that girls say they like nerdy nice looking guys but actually date and f*** the jock.

 

[Baldingat188]

. . . . . sorry but she was still with him and not you. action > words. hate to say it but reminds me of the PSL maxim that girls say they like nerdy nice looking guys but actually date and f*** the jock.

There is definitely different types. Some girls like softer guys and some wanted a rugged alpha. And some want a mix of the 2 which is essentially the most attractive guy. Masculine pretty boy. But there is a wide range of tastes girls can have but ugly isn't one of them.

 

[Exodus2011]

There is definitely different types. Some girls like softer guys and some wanted a rugged alpha. And some want a mix of the 2 which is essentially the most attractive guy. Masculine pretty boy. But there is a wide range of tastes girls can have but ugly isn't one of them.

i know, just calling out his post cuz it sounded like some coping humblebragging. like ok . . . she liked you? but shes still with the other dude . . .

 

[barfacan]

There is definitely different types. Some girls like softer guys and some wanted a rugged alpha. And some want a mix of the 2 which is essentially the most attractive guy. Masculine pretty boy. But there is a wide range of tastes girls can have but ugly isn't one of them.

Depends on the time of the month buddy boyo.

 

[Chromedome1990]

I find myself agreeing with you more often these days, Stanx22. For me being treated more seriously in the business world, people in the corporate world being more receptive to me, and in general looking my age means much more than being able to slay more. I have so many strikes against me that even though hair would help my appearance tremendously, I'd still be a 4 or 5 at best in the eyes of women. I guess it's just so foreign to me, the idea of ever being a with woman you love where the feeling is mutual. It's made me bitter, not to the point of Elliot Rodger or something like that, but it's still kinda weird to see people both online and offline talk about sex so casually. I also agree that threads about it are incredibly boring, I'd rather talk about hair and the fight we're all fighting.

 

[Stanx22]

i don;t believe in this / chad / alpha BS, it is pure nonsense. people saying you have to have a 4" chin to get laid or have a 2" eye separation or some stupid autistic shite like that.

every girl has their own type. one of my friends looks a michaelangelo statue, he has a beautiful angel face, golden curly hair, big blue eyes, random people would come upto him and tell him how gorgeous he was. beautiful girls would come upto him and put flowers in his hair and he rejected them every time - he only went for very plain, 5/10 girls. One night at a club he went upto one of these girls, who was really nothing special and chatted her up. She rejected him so hard i was gobsmacked; i later saw her chatting up some chubby guy.

same thing when I had hair, i was a skinny pale 5'7" nerdy guy with messy black hair. a girl i knew had a boyfriend who was 6'3", very handsome, six pack and all that; manager at a store with a nice car; her girlfriend got drunk and said she wanted to leave him for me because i looked like a cartoon character she liked (i declined her as i didn't want to get my *** whooped)

the problem however is that there is a universal ugliness. a lot of girls will like the handsome tall type. fewer girls like the skinny geeky type. even fewer like the fat bearded type. then, lastly, hardly any like the skinny, pale, bald, ill looking type.

You didn't get my point. I'm not saying that i don't believe in the chad/incel thing or whatever, but talking about it whether you believe in it or not is boring af now.

 

[Stanx22]

If you want to post about books and films etc you should go to off topic.

This is a hairloss forum and that's why we talk about looks and the impact it has on dating and other things.

Don't you get sick of talking about the same thing over and over and over ? And when it's already depressing and make people feeling like sh*t ? I don't get you people, you whine about the negativity and the bad mindset blah blah blah, when you're talking about it EVERY f*****g SINGLE DAY.

I know what the impact really means, but why the most active section has to be boring and f*****g depressing and actually some old members left because they got sick of it ?

 

[Stanx22]

If you want to post about books and films etc you should go to off topic.

This is a hairloss forum and that's why we talk about looks and the impact it has on dating and other things.

Also, i made many threads before discussing my hair and the "impact" and barely anyone gave a sh*t, but make one thread about dating or women and you get like 50 pages of active talking.

That's why normies are boring and unoriginal.

 

[swingline747]

"Why can't there be threads that are not boring and actually interesting ? Like threads about science, religions, books, video games, cultures, languages, food, working out, movies, animes and tons of other topics and maybe people who have similar interests will connect better with each others and forget about baldness, women, dating for a bit. "

https://www.gourmetstylewellness.com/interact/forums/off-topic-discussions.36/

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Don't you get sick of talking about the same thing over and over and over ? And when it's already depressing and make people feeling like sh*t ? I don't get you people, you whine about the negativity and the bad mindset blah blah blah, when you're talking about it EVERY f*****g SINGLE DAY.

I know what the impact really means, but why the most active section has to be boring and f*****g depressing and actually some old members left because they got sick of it ?

The regular members who left were banned - or suspended and didn't come back.

The only two regular posters who quit - zircon and dante - quit for different reasons then what you posted.

 

[Hangin'on Hair]

Why don't you take a break from the impact section and peruse the other forums more often if it's boring you.

Alternative treatments, New research, success stories etc.... I find those threads more interesting than this shitty coping thread and I find myself visiting those ones more often.