i'm not doubting that short term side effects exist and i'm not doubting that pfs exist, both these things do happen. What i am saying is that when you say "horror stories online" this is exactley what i mean it's counterproductive to make up your own decisions based on anecdotal evidence online by a subset population that probably worries to much about side effects (i would bet people who worry more and are more likely to experience a nocebo effect are on this forum.) i think everyone should realize that the best way to gauge the level of side effects is through peer review literature and not this forum because you will never get an accurate reflection of how finasteride effects the general population by reading this forum there will always be bias.
What the science currently suggests is that side effects are generally rare 1-3%, finasteride use is strongly associated with the nocebo effect because of its link to a male sex hormone and that pfs probably does exist but it is extremely rare im only aware of one incidence of persitent side effects in 1 person from clinical trials (which researchers presumed was due to a different cause). I am especially aware of this because the first time i took finasteride at 18 i was completely impotent but i was also a nervous wreck from reading propecia help and i wasn't being rational (i have grown up now and i no its hard to accept but clinical trials are objective and the most relistic depiction of fins effects there is no conspiracy here). However this time on finasteride im about 25 days in and not one incidence of a side effect whereas the first time i experienced them within 12 days.
I think it is irresponsible the fear mongering that goes on in this forum and believe the best way to gauge side effects yourself is read peer review trial results if you have access to a uni paper database and be aware that there is risk of permanent effects but the incidence is likely about 1 in 1000-10000 or even less. e.g spencer kobren had a hair transplant surgeon on his show who had never heard of permant effects in the aprox 10000 people he treated and barley ever had reports of people discontinuing treatment due to sides. We are talking about a subset of a subset here.
goodhurr im sorry to say but if you do indeed have androgenic alopecia no level of natural remedies will help you this association of "natural" as inherently good is the first hallmark of psudeo science there is virtually no chance of you saving your hair i'm sorry to say, although general healthy living is good in all cases and might even slow your loss due to reduced body stress levels. But be aware that there is no way you will keep your hair if you have male pattern baldness.
However there is also the risk of effecting mechanisms in the body that are not immediately obvious from side effects profile because it is true that 5 alpha reductase has other effects in the body than just converting t to dht. I'm researching this at the moment and will let you know what i find.
In the end it's your choice no one has a gun to your head and the best option is probably to move on with your life and do nothing if you think you can deal with it. I advice everyone to listen to spencer kobrens show i know it helped me if you're young and confused about hair loss.