So Today Was A Bad Day For Me.. Again

[uhoil]

It's been a while, but things are getting a bit worse.

So I'm working on this summer camp for kids around 10 to 12 years old. It's a pain in the a** and constant headaches.

Today I was managing as always, we got to lunch and I'm sitting around these kids and a fellow female teacher. Then one of them goes: "Mister, why do you have little hair here? (pointing and touching my temples) You look like my dad".

My colleague starts laughing hysterically and then says: "Oh it's the stress, he's about to graduate. Haha the boy called you bald". All I could do was fake laugh, pretend I don't care and continue eating my lunch.

I f**king hate my life sometimes, I have to be 8 hours around these little monsters to get my social service hours in order to graduate, and even them notice the state of my hair and make my life more miserable than it is. I wish I could just fast forward to a year I don't care about my hair loss anymore, or at least to be able to fix it with a transplant or something.

End of rant.

 

[MorningGlory]

You could have explained to the child that it’s inappropriate to comment on such things.

 

[hanginginthewire]

You handled it well. You don’t need to “correct” a child for what was probably an innocent comment. Dick move from your coworker though.

Hope you feel better.

 

[jasonstatham]

My colleague starts laughing hysterically...

Imagine a kid said to your female colleague: "You look chubby like our overweight dog at home.." and YOU start to laugh with the children.

#metoo #misogynist

 

[Saurabhaj]

Stop bothering by such little incidents.

As you are balding,people will happily point out this and will make mean comments.
Ignore it.

Its in human nature to make mean comments on others flaws,but if you take such taunts to your heart,you are troubling your mind by stressing on it.

 

[Exodus2011]

You could have explained to the child that it’s inappropriate to comment on such things.

but OP, females are so "soft and sensitive" , they show us a "gentler side of life"!

 

[Roberto_72]

It's been a while, but things are getting a bit worse.

So I'm working on this summer camp for kids around 10 to 12 years old. It's a pain in the a** and constant headaches.

Today I was managing as always, we got to lunch and I'm sitting around these kids and a fellow female teacher. Then one of them goes: "Mister, why do you have little hair here? (pointing and touching my temples) You look like my dad".

My colleague starts laughing hysterically and then says: "Oh it's the stress, he's about to graduate. Haha the boy called you bald". All I could do was fake laugh, pretend I don't care and continue eating my lunch.

I f**king hate my life sometimes, I have to be 8 hours around these little monsters to get my social service hours in order to graduate, and even them notice the state of my hair and make my life more miserable than it is. I wish I could just fast forward to a year I don't care about my hair loss anymore, or at least to be able to fix it with a transplant or something.

End of rant.

Are you for real?
Can a kid be so observing and clueless at the same time?

 

[Marky]

It's been a while, but things are getting a bit worse.

So I'm working on this summer camp for kids around 10 to 12 years old. It's a pain in the a** and constant headaches.

Today I was managing as always, we got to lunch and I'm sitting around these kids and a fellow female teacher. Then one of them goes: "Mister, why do you have little hair here? (pointing and touching my temples) You look like my dad".

My colleague starts laughing hysterically and then says: "Oh it's the stress, he's about to graduate. Haha the boy called you bald". All I could do was fake laugh, pretend I don't care and continue eating my lunch.

I f**king hate my life sometimes, I have to be 8 hours around these little monsters to get my social service hours in order to graduate, and even them notice the state of my hair and make my life more miserable than it is. I wish I could just fast forward to a year I don't care about my hair loss anymore, or at least to be able to fix it with a transplant or something.

End of rant.

Dont worry about it karma will get your colleague.....and that little brat eventually.

 

[MorningGlory]

but OP, females are so "soft and sensitive" , they show us a "gentler side of life"!

Your comment has zero relevance. Let it go, you won’t find happiness through forum battles.

 

[Exodus2011]

Your comment has zero relevance. Let it go, you won’t find happiness through forum battles.

lmfao op literally just showed how girls are. now you're trying to sweep it under the rug. fail. also you arent hot if you werent able to f*** that girl lolz

 

[MorningGlory]

op literally just showed how girls are

My comment was in reference to the child, though.

now you're trying to sweep it under the rug

What motivation would I have for doing that? It was you who interpreted my comment as a veneration of all women.

also you arent hot if you werent able to f*** that girl

You described me as hot, not me.

Look, I understand what this is all about. You need to exercise your manhood and the safest place for you to do that is on the internet. It can’t be nice living your life day to day filled with fear and feeling threatened.

So please, for the sake of your masculinity, have one more cathartic blast at me. Feel like - believe - you’re the superior man. And then move on.

 

[Exodus2011]

My comment was in reference to the child, though.



What motivation would I have for doing that? It was you who interpreted my comment as a veneration of all women.



You described me as hot, not me.

Look, I understand what this is all about. You need to exercise your manhood and the safest place for you to do that is on the internet. It can’t be nice living your life day to day filled with fear and feeling threatened.

So please, for the sake of your masculinity, have one more cathartic blast at me. Feel like - believe - you’re the superior man. And then move on.

splitting hairs to skirt things now lol. seriously im racking my brain for girls that i know that actually act feminine and nice. im getting nothing. maybe its a generational thing but millenial men are the same. a lot less masculinity among them.

seriously though this kind of behavior op is talking about is pretty common among girls. you may be in denial about it but its still true

 

[Cue Bald]

when i first started working in a school as NW1 i was considered cool by the kids. (who are 11 - 16) they would talk about video games and music etc with me
but now I am NW4 i am considered just an old man, they are surprised that i play FPS etc after work rather than going home after work and reading the financial times while listening to motzart.

the kids also wrote "boldie" on my colleague (NW6)'s door....

 

[jasonstatham]

Are you for real?
Can a kid be so observing and clueless at the same time?

Yes, a lot of women are like that. Oh and kids talk without filters.

 

[jasonstatham]

when i first started working in a school as NW1 i was considered cool by the kids. (who are 11 - 16) they would talk about video games and music etc with me
but now I am NW4 i am considered just an old man, they are surprised that i play FPS etc after work rather than going home after work and reading the financial times while listening to motzart.

the kids also wrote "boldie" on my colleague (NW6)'s door....

But do you throw a little smile at the kids from time to time? It shows how confident you are.

 

[blackg]

Dont worry about it karma will get your colleague.....and that little brat eventually.

The colleague will put on 100 pounds and that little brat will be NW4 by 13.