The weirdest thing happened last night and actually havent recovered, think about it all the time. I was at a party at a friends(who is 23) house. We got drunk, partied a little bit and when everyone was gone about at 6 in the morning we just chilled a little bit longer and he suddenly mentioned hairloss and started talking to me about it and said he noticed I have lost some. I was mindblown, how could someone with a perfect head of hair notice it. And he told me he is bald. He is a NW4... under his wig. I was shocked. Then he ****ing changed the wig with me watching, I cant believe it. I guess he just had to get it off his chest to someone who wouldnt talk about it to anyone else. It IS a hassle wearing a wig. He does the haircuts on his own, lol. But I am just suprised how undetectable it looks on him. He has similar "hair" to mine but NW1 and thick, and I tried the hairpiece that he wore off on(cleaned it of course before I did it).
Just wow, this was the time when I understood how good I'd look with hair. I have worked on myself, I have facial hair now, more muscle, better clothes, more tan and understanding that I would be such a good looking guy was soul crushing, but at the same time it made me remember that Im not ugly, im just losing my hair.
Hope things dont get awkward between me and him, maybe he regrets the decision of revealing it to someone.