HI Guys -
Considering its the Alpha Male who can attract and keep very attractive woman, and also get the pick of the girls with 'spark' i thought id get some traits of an Alpha male. How many of these traits do you think you have?
Wouldn't it make some sense to develop these...instead of complaining that its hopeless because your bald? Or is your self esteem so low you can't even face rejection and get to stage 1? My feeling is baldness exposes who you are, it reveals you to yourself. If you don't like it, change it.
An Alpha male is very comfortable with himself. He always radiates confidence. He does not fear anyone, he does not really care how people think of him. Confidence is him.
Very passionate in life. He knows what he loves to do and follows his dreams. A true Alpha male has goals and ambitions, and really high ones. He follows these to the ultimate end, and ends up living a fulfilled life. (And women love passionate men with ambition. They see these kind of men becoming very successful in life and in their subconcious minds this is a qualifying factor in choosing a mate that will be able to provide for their future kids.)
Failure is only a minor setback for a real Alpha Male. Its only part of the process, he is learning. He is moving. He will always bounce back from failure, learn from the experience and move ahead with life. Nothing holds him back, after all, he is the Alpha male. Nothing can put him down. This is how he overcomes the challenges in his life.
He is always composed. An alpha male never loses composure, he is always himself, thoughtful and calculated. He won’t be carried away in emotional spasms.
Driven. A real Alpha male is very self- driven and self disciplined. Once he decides his target, all his attention will be at achieving his goal. He will do everything persistently to achieve what he wants. This is also why Alpha males drive women crazy, they are men of their own, they don’t need to be told what they should do. Women prefer men who make the decisions.
A Alpha male is a natural leader. He is always looked up upon to provide direction when needed.
He believes in growth. He knows that change is an internal process and takes time. He does not blame anyone for his mistakes because he knows that he has the power to make his life better and become a better man. Life for him is all about constant growth. This is the real essence of a man living a life of purpose. Every successful man in history knew this. That life is learning process. It is only an arrogant person who thinks they know it all. Humble yourself and learn!
With women he always poses a challenge. No, he is not chosen by women, he CHOOSES them! He does not throw himself at women and start acting needy with women. For him its the other way round. They really have to impress him and earn his attention.
He is not afraid to face his faults or admit when he is wrong. For a real Alpha male, there is nothing wrong with admitting when he has done something wrong. Its all about moving on with life, finding a solution, moving forward. If he wronged someone, he will politely admit and apologise, without making a big deal out of it, then move on to the next thing.
He does not have to prove himself. An alpha male is a being of very high self esteem, he does not need anyone’s approval to make him feel better about himself.
Dominant, not aggressive, Alpha males also posess superior social skills.
Physically fit.
Optimistic. Alpha males will always see the positive side of things and make the best out of what they have. A true Alpha male knows that in every problem there lies therein an opportunity. They just have to find it.
Its time to take responsbility for everything in your life. Not only don't victoms get the girl, they live the worst lives and blame everything except their own mind. No Victom can be an alpha male. The definition of a Victem is somebody who blames something else for his cirumstances.
Im not putting anybody down, ive been there. I hope its a wake up call, if your first instinct is to defend your belief system, try and be objective. I didn't listen then to these kind of posts, and you probably won't listen now. But the future is in your hands. And life is a whole lot more than getting the hot girl.
Considering its the Alpha Male who can attract and keep very attractive woman, and also get the pick of the girls with 'spark' i thought id get some traits of an Alpha male. How many of these traits do you think you have?
Wouldn't it make some sense to develop these...instead of complaining that its hopeless because your bald? Or is your self esteem so low you can't even face rejection and get to stage 1? My feeling is baldness exposes who you are, it reveals you to yourself. If you don't like it, change it.
An Alpha male is very comfortable with himself. He always radiates confidence. He does not fear anyone, he does not really care how people think of him. Confidence is him.
Very passionate in life. He knows what he loves to do and follows his dreams. A true Alpha male has goals and ambitions, and really high ones. He follows these to the ultimate end, and ends up living a fulfilled life. (And women love passionate men with ambition. They see these kind of men becoming very successful in life and in their subconcious minds this is a qualifying factor in choosing a mate that will be able to provide for their future kids.)
Failure is only a minor setback for a real Alpha Male. Its only part of the process, he is learning. He is moving. He will always bounce back from failure, learn from the experience and move ahead with life. Nothing holds him back, after all, he is the Alpha male. Nothing can put him down. This is how he overcomes the challenges in his life.
He is always composed. An alpha male never loses composure, he is always himself, thoughtful and calculated. He won’t be carried away in emotional spasms.
Driven. A real Alpha male is very self- driven and self disciplined. Once he decides his target, all his attention will be at achieving his goal. He will do everything persistently to achieve what he wants. This is also why Alpha males drive women crazy, they are men of their own, they don’t need to be told what they should do. Women prefer men who make the decisions.
A Alpha male is a natural leader. He is always looked up upon to provide direction when needed.
He believes in growth. He knows that change is an internal process and takes time. He does not blame anyone for his mistakes because he knows that he has the power to make his life better and become a better man. Life for him is all about constant growth. This is the real essence of a man living a life of purpose. Every successful man in history knew this. That life is learning process. It is only an arrogant person who thinks they know it all. Humble yourself and learn!
With women he always poses a challenge. No, he is not chosen by women, he CHOOSES them! He does not throw himself at women and start acting needy with women. For him its the other way round. They really have to impress him and earn his attention.
He is not afraid to face his faults or admit when he is wrong. For a real Alpha male, there is nothing wrong with admitting when he has done something wrong. Its all about moving on with life, finding a solution, moving forward. If he wronged someone, he will politely admit and apologise, without making a big deal out of it, then move on to the next thing.
He does not have to prove himself. An alpha male is a being of very high self esteem, he does not need anyone’s approval to make him feel better about himself.
Dominant, not aggressive, Alpha males also posess superior social skills.
Physically fit.
Optimistic. Alpha males will always see the positive side of things and make the best out of what they have. A true Alpha male knows that in every problem there lies therein an opportunity. They just have to find it.
Its time to take responsbility for everything in your life. Not only don't victoms get the girl, they live the worst lives and blame everything except their own mind. No Victom can be an alpha male. The definition of a Victem is somebody who blames something else for his cirumstances.
Im not putting anybody down, ive been there. I hope its a wake up call, if your first instinct is to defend your belief system, try and be objective. I didn't listen then to these kind of posts, and you probably won't listen now. But the future is in your hands. And life is a whole lot more than getting the hot girl.
