Tinder pictures and deception

[FlopTurnRiver]

I've said it before. With my thick, sleek, shiny full head of Lachowski hair, I used to look good enough to be a model. I've worked in A&F where all of the guys and girls that were hired were exceptionally good looking. I've banged so many 9's and 10's that I've lost count. Even when I used to treat girls badly, coldly, indifferently etc, they still wanted me and kept trying to seek validation from me. This also meant that I was able to go on tinder and bang the best looking girls on there with no effort. I didn't even message them, they always initiated it. Man I banged some bad b*tches off that app. This of course was all before hair loss ruined me.

Something that used to piss me the f*ck off was meeting girls off tinder and they looked nothing like they did in their pictures. This ranged from them being much less attractive in person (sometimes to the point of being ugly) to being much fatter in person. When women used to shamelessly pull that stunt on me, I used to flat out call them out on it and walked away.

I've mentioned before that women are inherently narcissistic and social media exists for them a way to fight for attention; get validation from the tide of thirsty men and to make their females friends jealous of them. They have perfected the art of making themselves artificially look better in pictures and they employ all types of techniques such as camera angles, lighting and filters etc. One of the other ways women make themselves look better is by intentionally standing next to a more ugly or fatter woman so relative to her she looks much better. That's why you see so many women who have a fat/ugly 'bestie' in their profile pictures.

I haven't updated my pictures on tinder simply because I can't be asked and if I occasionally swipe left, I'm always getting matched with smoking hot b*tches. My inbox is full of messages. However I can't meet them looking like a completely different person. I refuse to. On the other hand if I update my pictures to how I look now, then the outcome doesn't even need to be said. It's one of the key differences between men and women. Most men (excluding effeminate beta males) look exactly how they look like in their pictures. They don't try to deceive women by falsely looking much better in pictures than they actually are. They would feel ashamed. Can you imagine a guy having a full head of hair in his picture and then turning up as a NW6. Just lol.

 

[CaptainForehead]

A bald dude once asked me if it was deceptive on his part to wear a cap in the main profile picture (he was without cap in other pictures). Most men have an inherent need for honesty.

 

[hellouser]

A bald dude once asked me if it was deceptive on his part to wear a cap in the main profile picture (he was without cap in other pictures). Most men have an inherent need for honesty.

Wish it were the same for women. Fvcking con artists with fake nails, fake eye lashes, fake personalities, fake lips, fake hair, fake faces with thick layers of clown makeup using paint rollers.... and they say they want a REAL man.

 

[mr.patches]

I've mentioned before that women are inherently narcissistic and social media exists for them a way to fight for attention; get validation from the tide of thirsty men and to make their females friends jealous of them. They have perfected the art of making themselves artificially look better in pictures and they employ all types of techniques such as camera angles, lighting and filters etc. One of the other ways women make themselves look better is by intentionally standing next to a more ugly or fatter woman so relative to her she looks much better. That's why you see so many women who have a fat/ugly 'bestie' in their profile pictures.

So much wisdom in that paragraph...

Man I shut down my twitter, facebook, tinder, myspace (who uses that anyway), etc, because I get angry at that same thing you mention there. If baldness has taught me anything is how narcissist we all are, specially women. Now I don't really want to see pictures of myself and worst compare them to old pictures where I sport some precious locks and overall optimism.

With that said I still try to stay fit, dress well, read and enforce my intellect so when I meet someone in person I make a good impression, and I actually fare better that way than on social media even though the hair loss will ALWAYS be on the way.

 

[scorpiolove]

Wish it were the same for women. Fvcking con artists with fake nails, fake eye lashes, fake personalities, fake lips, fake hair, fake faces with thick layers of clown makeup using paint rollers.... and they say they want a REAL man.

I repped up hellouser on his post.

 

[FlopTurnRiver]

Most men have an inherent need for honesty.

One of the reasons why our civilization is built upon the shoulders of Men.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

.... and they say they want a REAL man.

Great hair, money, six pack abs, muscles, great looks...women don't care about any of that. All they care about is someone with a good heart and a good sense of humor.

 

[donyell]

Great hair, money, six pack abs, muscles, great looks...women don't care about any of that. All they care about is someone with a good heart and a good sense of humor.

Amen to that sister!

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hahahhahahahah

 

[jksl]

Great hair, money, six pack abs, muscles, great looks...women don't care about any of that. All they care about is someone with a good heart and a good sense of humor.

I gotta say, you have a good sense of humour. Bless your heart.

 

[resu]

And confidence, don't forget about this magic ingredient that can turn a frog into a prince.

 

[EvilLocks]

Wish it were the same for women. Fvcking con artists with fake nails, fake eye lashes, fake personalities, fake lips, fake hair, fake faces with thick layers of clown makeup using paint rollers.... and they say they want a REAL man.

Yet you go after the women who is all of the above What a great irony

 

[VeprSuper]

If it was socially acceptable wouldn't you do the same?

 

[EvilLocks]

So these 3/10 women that morph into an 8/10 with makeup will continue to live the life of a good looking person even though they know they don't deserve it.

Most women look average to below average without makeup (and all that jazz), but do we deserve to feel less about ourselves to satisfy men? I don't even think men would be satisfied if all women went bare faced, because you all like to drool over the same "fake" women you hate on.

 

[CaptainForehead]

I don't even think men would be satisfied if all women went bare faced, because you all like to drool over the same "fake" women you hate on.

Er no. Just because we drool over "fake" women doesn't mean we wouldn't be satisfied with them sans makeup. This is something intrinsic to men, we can look at something more attractive, and *still* be satisfied with something less attractive. Women are different (Fred can jump in with links to some studies).

At least for me, all I care about is a decent face, and an in shape figure. In real-life, I am a bit creeped out by caked out doll makeup.

 

[jksl]

but do we deserve to feel less about ourselves to satisfy men?

Women don't deserve to feel less about their selves. Neither do men.

I don't know if women primarily put makeup on to satisfy men. Might be part of it sure. I think women are conditioned to put makeup on from a very young age. It's almost socially unacceptable for them to go out without any makeup on of any sort. I used to have a girlfriend who actually looked more attractive without any makeup on, but she would still refuse to leave the apartment without any makeup on. It drove me nuts. She put the makeup on for herself and not for me.