What Happens To All The Young Baldies

[Christoppp]

Im really curious what happens to them? Anyone care to share their stories. Do they just live a depressed life? Do they learn to accept they will be alone or have to settle with heavier women ? is it possible to not live a depressed life without any women. Did you just accept you're alone forever ?

 

[Secretlybatman]

We live depressed knowing women our age has a hell of a lot of full heads to choose from. Games are a good distraction.

 

[ManinBlack]

I am single right now. I just cope by trying to focus on my education and career. I know a few other guys my age, (21) who have hair like me. I also try to maximize my other looks. I am starting to work out and trying to lose some weight. I know one guy who is a year younger than me, 20, who is already a diffuse Norwood 7 and obese. I feel really sorry for him.

 

[Christoppp]

I am single right now. I just cope by trying to focus on my education and career. I know a few other guys my age, (21) who have hair like me. I also try to maximize my other looks. I am starting to work out and trying to lose some weight. I know one guy who is a year younger than me, 20, who is already a diffuse Norwood 7 and obese. I feel really sorry for him.

Do you worry about being alone forever?

 

[Christoppp]

We live depressed knowing women our age has a hell of a lot of full heads to choose from. Games are a good distraction.

Games will only work to distract so long :/ Hairloss in your 20s really is a dating death sentence it seems. Do you worry about being alone forever?

 

[Norwoodcemetary]

They go mgtow and escortmaxx....thats wat id do

 

[g.i joey]

We gotta lay low till we hit that 28/30 year old
Mark, believe me girls that are over 26 are a lot more open to dating bald men.

Balding young makes you lose your youth idc what anyone says, which is why I don't see myself coming off propecia for the next 3-5 years

 

[Christoppp]

I was one of the worst "baldies" at a young age on this forum.

Started losing hair diffusely at the age of 16 and was completely bald by the age of 22.

Still had sex and relationships with slim decent-looking women as a bald man.

The relationships were just very fragile and the women were often behaving like b****s towards me.

I had a hair transplant and the quality of my relationships greatly improved.

That's my story when it comes to balding and dating.

So bald = alone forever? Not for all young "baldies".

So nice of you to use that word on this forum by the way.

I can tell the majority of posters in this thread are sluthaters/lookists.

Always with the doom and gloom.

Sorry if I offended you with the term baldies. I want to have a hair transplant but I'm diffuse nw3 and can't take finasteride. Sorry yours happened so fast you are lucky you are tall at least.

 

[Christoppp]

We gotta lay low till we hit that 28/30 year old
Mark, believe me girls that are over 26 are a lot more open to dating bald men.

Balding young makes you lose your youth idc what anyone says, which is why I don't see myself coming off propecia for the next 3-5 years

When you say 26+ do you refer to just minor balding or actually bald?

 

[Christoppp]

When you say 26+ do you refer to just minor balding or actually bald?

btw wish i could take finasteride like you.

 

[Christoppp]

We are stripped of our youth and the possibility to have sex with young, decent girls and humiliated on a daily basis and forced to give up on social life and live as a recluse.

At least this is what happened to me.

I can understand the youthful thing and girls in their prime. What if you make a good life for yourself ? Also about the social aspect. Maybe I'm lucky but does it really kill all social interactions? I must admit i lost a lot of girl friends due to me razor shaving my head as a norwood 2.5 ( was testing how accurate it is to what people say) And they were right. I still have all my bros though.

 

[Christoppp]

I look like a rotting corpse. Nobody takes me seriously and I simply can't have normal social interactions without being humiliated. Baldness kills all social interactions if you're ugly, as it did to me, luckily for you and many here, few people are as ugly as I am.

I'm sorry bud. I would not judge you but then again i'm a caring guy who wants to do nursing and can't speak for others. Do you think about killing yourself anymore?

 

[abcdefg]

Do you worry about being alone forever?

You realize if you got married and she died first your probably going to die alone anyway? Being alone is not something to fear besides anyway after your dead I doubt you will remember.
The whole die alone thing is founded on ignorance. Enjoy your time while your here, and you meet someone great if not you will be fine.

 

[Crystalclear12]

There are some sad dudes around here. It's just hair, grow a sack. If you're a decent looking, in shape dude and you lost your hair, you can still get decent looking, in shape women. If you think your life is over because you're losing your hair let me tell you something... it was over before you lost your hair. If you're the fat bald guy that's your fault. Be the shredded, tan, confident bald guy. I'm a Norwood 2.5 btw, 27, single and slaying.

 

[Crystalclear12]

Help.

That is helping

 

[Crystalclear12]

It's not just hair.

Easy to say when you're not bald, not even close.

Wait until you're bald.

I would never let something like balding/being bald ruin my life. Ya it sucks. But if mine ever gets bad I'm shaving it. I won't be as good looking but f*** it. The point is, if you're decent looking, work on your body, and dress well, hair is not that big of a deal. Take a step back and think about it. Life is way too short. I'm at that limbo point where if I style my hair it doesn't look like I'm receding, but in my opinion that's worse because you're on the fence. Once you're over the fence you just bic the damn thing and move on.

 

[Dsport]

You learn to maximize other strengths and how to find a woman who loves your looks

Im really curious what happens to them? Anyone care to share their stories. Do they just live a depressed life? Do they learn to accept they will be alone or have to settle with heavier women ? is it possible to not live a depressed life without any women. Did you just accept you're alone forever ?

 

[Dante92]

I would never let something like balding/being bald ruin my life.

Said no man ever.

 

[Dante92]

It doesn't work.

Let him live in his daydream. The amount of bullshit will thin out along with his hair when he'll come to grips with reality.

 

[bien_jezreel]

I understand that it must look awful or frustrating now, but I am positive that there are solutions available to us. I believe that the major factor that separates us from the desires we have is enough budget. I tell you, even with medications, it can burn a hole in your pockets in the long run. I have been thinking about hair transplant but being 23 at still starting my career and with a string of bills to pay, that's still placed in the back of my list today.
I get how frustrating this is socially, and it does take a toll on my confidence. But I try to enhance other features, like my personality, to make up for what I lack in terms of follicles.