i actually do think this is wrong,, but in the sense that getting sexual with a stranger is violation of privacy
It is indeed wrong but we do need some differentiating between verbal harassment (a cat call, even dubious ones such as an out of the blue "how are you today?" with a smile are basically put in the same "assault" category as groping or raping), assault (that would be groping or street stalking) and rape.
Because these are all falling under the same vague umbrella as "assault", it's hardly fair to put a woman who just got raped or potentially raped from a guy stalking her and going for physical contact, and tell her that her story is just as bad as some guy laughing with friends and shouting something across the street.
There will be this argument "well it's
all as bad as rape anyway as it's demoralising!" well fine keep telling yourself that, but there's been a major backlash in only the last year or two from women who previously considered themselves feminists, and now realise with "stats" like this involving "assault and rape" under 1 umbrella, and knowing full well that 30% of their friends have not been raped, well then they realise that is truly is bullshit and to stop pandering to it.
On top of that, your level of abuse is all self-diagnosed, look at
@JeanLucBB's example above where verbal harassment was instantly turned into physical in her own mind. Further from that, women can take offence such as a man holding the door open as a "micro-aggression", when asked if she's ever been "assaulted" (same playing field as "raped") she would genuinely believe her own bullshit by saying "this week" thinking of a guy who held the door open for her.
To tie this in with how bad it is being incel, most of the women who exaggerate their own physical abuse are the absolutely unfuckable incel kind. 90% of the time that there's a maniac making up fantastical bullshit always turn out to be some green haired obese acne ridden freak, and imagine it because they want to be included for once, with all the pretty girls who actually suffer some form of abuse from time to time.
This is exactly what I thought of "#MeToo" when I say it yesterday:
I'm thinking some women will say me too because its a subtle way of saying they are attractive enough to draw the attention
Indeed, this is definitely promoting hysterical sisterhood and girls seeing their friends using it, thinking to themselves "sh*t no man has laid a finger on me or even said anything... embarrassing... well *#MeToo* anyway gotta show that solidarity"
Though in the aforementioned case of the green haired tumblr maniac, they wouldn't even acknowledge that they're lying even to themselves, like a lot of victims they really do believe their own bullshit after a while and go "I can relate! I was
sexually assaulted just last Thursday! (guy holding a door open) #MeToo! #MeToo #MeToo!!!"
Being incel even drives some women into being f*****g nutcases.
The female Elliott Rodger's are walking around like normal people, except their views are respected and even upheld.
