Try Nads, you can find it a sav-on - it's just like wax but a lot easier to clean up (all you need is a wet cloth) and there is no heating. check out http://www.nads.com They have a special line just for men.
Just thought I would give you guys a girl's perspective on the whole gay thing.....If you say that fudge packing is just disgusting than why are all men so facinated with doing it up the butt with girls? could this be a manifestation of your homosexual instincts? :lol: