A female POV on baldness

[uncomfortable man]

The media imo doesn't tell society bald = bad what makes people think/view bald being bad is our societies obsession with preventing/correcting it. Hairloss is a billion dollar industry that picks on our insecurities and leads us to believe that it is wrong.

...and what is the vehicle for our societies obsession I ask you? THE MEDIA! You just contradicted your own statement. You talk about the hairloss industry... well they are the ones making the tv/radio commercials, infomercials or in other words, THE MEDIA!

It's not the media and girls in everyday life who make bald this bad thing, it's bald men who lose all their confidence and livelihood that make being bald a bad thing. If every bald man went out in the world and acted as they should like nothing is wrong and they are no less of a man than someone with hair there wouldn't be a problem and being bald would be cool.

Wow, so by that rationale then anyone who hates overweight people can be converted to a more respectful opinion if the fat people in question just felt better about themselves and had more confidence? So really it's the afflicted's own fault if anyone irrationally hates them? Is that your premise? :shakehead:

 

[BrightonBaldy]

UC is correct on all fronts.

As are most of us who live in the real world and put ourselves out there.



I've become more comfortable with my baldness and have started to roll back my personality to the days before hairloss where I'd flat out ASSUME girls wanted me (as they did back then if I'm honest). I genuinely think if I keep myself in shape and not worry about women then the interest just happens, one of the fittest girls I've ever attracted is 10 years younger than me and could get anyone, wasnt on the scene when I had hair (I'm 29). I mean jesus, I buy all my clothes second hand from charity shops, it all works well for me as I'd rather have money than nice gear. When I'm in work I've got a suit on, when I'm not I'm in ill fitting rags, when people see me with one look they dont even flinch when I turn up for a pint in a pair of old trackies and an ill fitting jumper.. aslong as my body is in shape and I stand with my head held high, I know I look good.

I've posted this before but I now live hundreds of miles away from home after moving with work, honestly the only change is I'm not surrounded by people who knew me before I lost my hair. Everyone I meet now just simply knows me as a bald guy, even the guys I meet everywhere look at me and assume I'm getting laid all the time, on valentines day I had loads of blokes asking me in work where I was taking the missus for v-tines day. There wasnt even a question of are you single, it was where you taking her?

In reality I've grown alot inside and as macho as hard as we all like to act on here, I've grown alot spiritually which we dont really talk about, I' more independent on all fronts but most of all emotionally. I do not succumb to peer pressure anymore, I have no need for a woman in my life, infact I've little need for most people and thats not necessarily a negative thing. Any long lasting emotional connection I make with somebody could only be a drain on me these days, I dont need it at all. Years ago I felt the same but that was because I knew I had options.. now I feel the same but thats because I know my place on the food chain has gone up a few notches with a new outlook on the world. I can look at what guys on here worry about the same way I can laugh about the what the folks around me in person spend their days worrying about, mostly irrelevant BS, the world and its problems can only be invited into our lives, these women/people can only have the power over us that YOU afford them.

I think we can all agree that if women werent around then hairloss wouldnt be an issue, for me it isnt anymore, but I had to up sticks and move hundreds of miles to realise that.

I know for certain that when I next visit home I'll regress, I know fine when I next catch up with mates back home I'll fall back into my old uptight and self conscious state.

It's crazy such a move is what it took for me to feel comfortable, but getting away from people who knew me pre-hairloss has changed my life.

I'd go as far as recommending it, for those of you with strong minds and a strength of character that sets you apart from the rest of society... I'm not there 100% yet but I'm getting there.

I simply couldnt care a f**k for what any lass has to say about me, the reality is that they have nothing I need, its liberating and on here reads like an act but I can assure you nae-sayers its the truth.

 

[2020]

stop whining geez... you're bald, you're slightly less attractive - get over it. Middle-aged people are too dramatic :whistle:

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

stop whining geez... you're bald, you're slightly less attractive - get over it. Middle-aged people are too dramatic :whistle:

Balding for a 20 years old who just started his social life is not a small thing. Dont try to make it like it's nothing.

 

[seb]

stop whining geez... you're bald, you're slightly less attractive - get over it. Middle-aged people are too dramatic :whistle:

F**k off then....

 

[Ori83]

I've talked with girls who *CLAIM* they wont reject a bald guy just because he is bald, yet the very same women never dated a bald guy before... how convenient ...

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

I've talked with girls who *CLAIM* they wont reject a bald guy just because he is bald, yet the very same women never dated a bald guy before... how convenient ...

The good ones will care for personality. Believe I'm in love with one, she dating a guy with NW4, and she's beautiful. Who wants to date a shallow skank anyway.

 

[Jockson]

I've talked with girls who *CLAIM* they wont reject a bald guy just because he is bald, yet the very same women never dated a bald guy before... how convenient ...

The good ones will care for personality. Believe I'm in love with one, she dating a guy with NW4, and she's beautiful. Who wants to date a shallow skank anyway.

So you're saying women who care about physical appearance are shallow and superficial? Funny how the biggest deal about balding for most guys is usually the fact that it's now harder to get hot chicks :whistle:

 

[s.a.f]

I've talked with girls who *CLAIM* they wont reject a bald guy just because he is bald, yet the very same women never dated a bald guy before... how convenient ...

The good ones will care for personality. Believe I'm in love with one, she dating a guy with NW4, and she's beautiful. Who wants to date a shallow skank anyway.

I know those girls (beautiful and non superficial) exist however theres about 1 of them for every 1000 bald guys so your chances of getting one are not in your favour.
Its also the same for ugly women, how many good looking guys out there are turning down hot chicks in favour for a fattie with great personality? - not many.

Sorry guys but theres a lesson to be learned - Life is not fair.

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

I've talked with girls who *CLAIM* they wont reject a bald guy just because he is bald, yet the very same women never dated a bald guy before... how convenient ...

The good ones will care for personality. Believe I'm in love with one, she dating a guy with NW4, and she's beautiful. Who wants to date a shallow skank anyway.

I know those girls (beautiful and non superficial) exist however theres about 1 of them for every 1000 bald guys so your chances of getting one are not in your favour.
Its also the same for ugly women, how many good looking guys out there are turning down hot chicks in favour for a fattie with great personality? - not many.

Sorry guys but theres a lesson to be learned - Life is not fair.

Your looking for fast sex and not real love. Because those kind of superficial woman's also have a shitty personality, and there is nothing there besides sex anyway. You guys think life is all about getting laid every day in parties, relax you'll find your woman believe me

 

[seb]

No,God is alive and well,he just doesn't care.

 

[uncomfortable man]

I've talked with girls who *CLAIM* they wont reject a bald guy just because he is bald, yet the very same women never dated a bald guy before... how convenient ...

The good ones will care for personality. Believe I'm in love with one, she dating a guy with NW4, and she's beautiful. Who wants to date a shallow skank anyway.

Can't you see your own hippocracy (sp) here? You talk about not being shallow but then you have to drive home the point that she is beautiful as if that matters. Well what if she weren't beautiful? Would you still feel the same way? If not then you have failed because how are you going to expect anyone to see past your physical shortcomings when you are biased yourself?

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

I've talked with girls who *CLAIM* they wont reject a bald guy just because he is bald, yet the very same women never dated a bald guy before... how convenient ...

The good ones will care for personality. Believe I'm in love with one, she dating a guy with NW4, and she's beautiful. Who wants to date a shallow skank anyway.

Can't you see your own hippocracy (sp) here? You talk about not being shallow but then you have to drive home the point that she is beautiful as if that matters. Well what if she weren't beautiful? Would you still feel the same way? If not then you have failed because how are you going to expect anyone to see past your physical shortcomings when you are biased yourself?

She's actually not so beautifull, but more of a sweety, she's short and far from the hot chick look. I'm in love with her mainly because her personality

 

[seb]

Theres no such thing as love...its a chemical reaction thats all,the feelings are no different too eating a bar of chocolate.

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

Theres no such thing as love...its a chemical reaction thats all,the feelings are no different too eating a bar of chocolate.

Don't care what it is. I want to be with her rather then hot model like girls, shes small 1.55 look like a little girl, sweet smile, non superficial, not shallow, smart as he'll, I honestly can say since I know her for the first time, I don't care about any other woman anymore

 

[seb]

Theres no such thing as love...its a chemical reaction thats all,the feelings are no different too eating a bar of chocolate.

Don't care what it is. I want to be with her rather then hot model like girls, shes small 1.55 look like a little girl, sweet smile, non superficial, not shallow, smart as he'll, I honestly can say since I know her for the first time, I don't care about any other woman anymore

It won't last(the relationship AND those aforementioned feelings)...never does.

 

[Diffused_confidence]

Stupid b**ch! She probably doesn't realise that until her possible son with a bald guy would grow up into male pattern baldness age (which would be at least more or less 20 years from now), the baldness will probably not be a problem anymore. There will be either new powerful treatments to prevent it (like CB-03-01), or hair cloning, or if we'll be lucky, maybe even some of the Replicel, Histogen, Follica etc. will come up with something succesful in the next 5 - 10 years..

Lmfao.

But seriously the female comment is legit how they view baldness.