Around 3 years ago I invited a German girl to my house, a girl who I had been fooling around with for some time. When I told her to come over that day, we hadn't seen each other in 4 or 5 months.
She lived very far, like an hour and a half away, so the plan was to talk a bit and then cook dinner together --and then well, we didn't talk about the rest but we knew what came afterwards--.
So she made the 1 and a half hour trip, arrived at my house, but since the first moment I noticed something weird in the way she looked at me. I thought that maybe it was something that I said so I just didn't pay attention to it. After about 15 minutes of talking, I said something like "well let's have a drink and maybe a snack before we start cooking?", and she said "hmmm... actually I think I'm gonna go". I was really surprised at that response, and she added some lame excuse like "yeah I have to wake up early tomorrow" or something like that.
She left and I was absolutely astonished. I asked myself a thousand times what had happened... Why did she travel one hour and a half and left after only 15 minutes?
I never really knew and had a thousand theories, until today when I saw a picture of myself during those days, and noticed my hair. This was 3 years ago, when I started losing my hair, and my hairline was already receded badly, pretty noticeable and unattractive already, especially for a young girl (I was 26 and she was like 21). It's worth mentioning that after she left that day I was never able to make contact with her again.
Is it possible that my hair was the deal breaker? I can't find any other reasons as to why she would have left like that, especially since we had our history. I think she would have been more forgiving if the problem was something I said (even more considering she had to travel another hour and a half!!!).
Any thoughts?? Or maybe I'm going crazy already?
She lived very far, like an hour and a half away, so the plan was to talk a bit and then cook dinner together --and then well, we didn't talk about the rest but we knew what came afterwards--.
So she made the 1 and a half hour trip, arrived at my house, but since the first moment I noticed something weird in the way she looked at me. I thought that maybe it was something that I said so I just didn't pay attention to it. After about 15 minutes of talking, I said something like "well let's have a drink and maybe a snack before we start cooking?", and she said "hmmm... actually I think I'm gonna go". I was really surprised at that response, and she added some lame excuse like "yeah I have to wake up early tomorrow" or something like that.
She left and I was absolutely astonished. I asked myself a thousand times what had happened... Why did she travel one hour and a half and left after only 15 minutes?
I never really knew and had a thousand theories, until today when I saw a picture of myself during those days, and noticed my hair. This was 3 years ago, when I started losing my hair, and my hairline was already receded badly, pretty noticeable and unattractive already, especially for a young girl (I was 26 and she was like 21). It's worth mentioning that after she left that day I was never able to make contact with her again.
Is it possible that my hair was the deal breaker? I can't find any other reasons as to why she would have left like that, especially since we had our history. I think she would have been more forgiving if the problem was something I said (even more considering she had to travel another hour and a half!!!).
Any thoughts?? Or maybe I'm going crazy already?
