Above average looking guys?

[Chefcurrywts]

I have a coworker who is tall 6'1 but is ugly but he thinks he is 8 on a scale of 1-10. He has that inner confidence that I don't have. How does one achieve this level of confidence?

What celebrities would you consider above average in looks? Is above average a 6-7 on a rating scale? 8-10 would be good looking/flawless?

What would you guys rate yourself?

 

[buckthorn]

I would guess -
face: 8-9
body: 7-8 (built, but with this new, awesome layer of fat over it)
height: 5-6
hair: 3-4
heart: priceless

of course the last one doesn't count. :uglylol:

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I have a coworker who is tall 6'1 but is ugly but he thinks he is 8 on a scale of 1-10. He has that inner confidence that I don't have. How does one achieve this level of confidence?

What celebrities would you consider above average in looks? Is above average a 6-7 on a rating scale? 8-10 would be good looking/flawless?

What would you guys rate yourself?

What about the possibility that many women have a different assessment of this guy than you do?

 

[Chefcurrywts]

The guys in his mid fifties. He's skinny-fat. Most woman in their 20'2-30's would not find him attractive but he still has inner confidence

 

[Roberto_72]

I have a feeling that self-confidence derives from how your parents and family raised you, in addition to genetics. I don't think that anyone feels confident because of what they see in the mirror. It is deeper than that.
This is why I don't think it is fair to suggest bald people should have "confidence" to make up for deteriorating looks. You don't decide to be confident.

 

[g.i joey]

Very solid analogy Roberto. Better than anything fred coughed up about confidence not being important.

 

[hellouser]

Confidence is a byproduct of predictability.

 

[Pray The Bald Away]

Do you guys agree with the popular sentiment that shaven looks better than balding?

 

[Tottenham]

Do you guys agree with the popular sentiment that shaven looks better than balding?

It all depends. If you're facially aesthetic, good head shape, tall (6'1+), 200lbs 8%, tanned, good fashion sense, wealthy & powerful, the shaved look will suit you. Anything less? Nope.

 

[Chefcurrywts]

So question is what makes a man above average in terms of looks? What makes a man way beyond above average

 

[diehunnen123]

So question is what makes a man above average in terms of looks? What makes a man way beyond above average

wtf? you cant say what makes someone good looking, because that thing might make someone else ugly

 

[Tottenham]

So question is what makes a man above average in terms of looks? What makes a man way beyond above average

Facial proportions, cheek bone/jawline intensity, eye colour, lips/nose shape, height, body shape, hair

 

[kmm179]

mostly eyes/brow shape and head shape/jaw.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Facial symmetry
white, properly arranged teeth
masculine jaw line
Low body fat
Height

All very important.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I have everything except the masculine jaw line. Am I going to be OK?

I don't know, but from the sound of your posts you do very well with women. Women find you attractive ... very attractive. You're 1.90 meters as you've said.

I would guess that your problem is you're using your gifts on the wrong girls. You said a few days ago that you've set up 4 dates on tinder very quickly. Maybe you won't pick the best one.

 

[xetudor]

It's a tiring process, but needed if I want to find my future long-term relationship.

Why do you want a long term relationships? You want to grow old next to someone?

 

[xetudor]

And do you think it will work for really long? Even when you and your partner are old?

 

[xetudor]

I am in a long term relationship, almost 10 years but it still cares me to think what can happen when you're older. Maybe she doesn't like any more when you're 50 so you invested so much for nothing. Who knows what the social dynamics will be in the future, I don't think you can take for granted having someone when you're old.

 

[Tottenham]

Relationships in this day and age? Lol..

 

[Joan]

Once my girlfriend is 40+ year old, I think it's either going to be hard to f-ck her or that my libido won't be as high anyway.

Looks don't matter that much anymore once you grow old with someone, you're both going to grow old and uglier, it's unavoidable.

At a point, it goes beyond looks, it's about building a family together. That's how I see it anyway.

You knew I was going to chime in here, Fred!

Sexual issues at 40+?!!? 40 + what? 25, 30 maybe? Why on earth would you think you think sexual issues start so young? My husband is 60, Fred, and last time we had the house to ourselves, he was going for #3 till we got interrupted. If you're both on the same page, things will never get stale.

You are right about looks not mattering as much as you grow old together. Being overweight will always matter, though.

And I love your last sentence about building a family together. Again, I am reminding myself that you're still in your 20s.