I am actually one of the guys that doesn't share the extreme feelings that others around here have about going bald. I believe you can be bald and still live a good life and get decent looking women. But I would be lying if I said I didn't see sh*t like this on almost a daily basis. Because of this place I am not only more aware of my hair loss, but also the hair loss of others. Every time I see a bald/balding guy I start to analyze his situation. How does he carry himself? Does he care about his appearance? Is he with a woman? What does she look like? Does he look like he wants to end it? Could he be somebody from GourmetStyleWellness?
I'd say you're reasonably balanced in your outlook.
I just find this kinda "Guess who she ends up with?! BALDY" kinda attitude is a bit simplistic, y'know? Maybe he had a legit serious relationship before her, maybe he didn't want to be what some could insinuate is a "beta provider" but he just fell for someone and subsequently grew to care for her children over time.
Life's f*****g complicated, is all, and we constantly twist every situation into assuming the bald guy is feeding off scraps. This may often be the case for all I know but, it does get very presumptuous and quite judgemental to have that attitude.
I think many carry these judgement calls into the real world, and as we see all the time on here, people can twist whatever they want in whatever way they want to see it.
Baldness to all of us is something that's unreasonable and makes no sense. In an attempt to combat that I think a lot of people reach far to make absolute sense of the world around us and why things happen, a bald guy with an attractive woman? Single mother who doesn't put out with baldcel provider.
It just goes on like that, it's a comfort that explains why good things can happen to other guys despite baldness, and not to us.
