At what Norwood would you consider killing yourself?

[Thom]

I agree, while I want to ignore it my conscience would have me try to be a voice of reason. I sent the Admin a message as well so maybe they will start taking notice.

Hate to sound sappy, but if any of you feel that your life is worthless how about living your life to try to help others.....that would prove you wrong for sure and you could at least have the benefit of knowing that other people benefited from your existence. Nice thought eh?

 

[hairplz]

I see where you're coming from mate, but it's also dangerous to leave such views unchallenged. Anybody considering suicide should be logging off and making an appointment with a professional.

A professional hair transplant surgeon? I completely agree. There have been tons of cases of desperate/balding men getting hair transplant and living a happy life from then onwards. Too bad not everyone has the money for a good transplant. For some people like me, death is the best way out.

Hate to sound sappy, but if any of you feel that your life is worthless how about living your life to try to help others.....that would prove you wrong for sure and you could at least have the benefit of knowing that other people benefited from your existence. Nice thought eh?

No, that would make me even more depressed. Knowing that I gave so much, yet received nothing.

I suffer from BDD and with hair loss this can be a dreadful combination. I just got unlucky I guess. The world didn't help me, I don't need to help anyone. I posted up a job offer if anyone wants a quality virtual assistant. When I work, I don't mix it with my emotions, I just do the work I'm supposed to, like a robot.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

You will end up getting abuse for doing so though Thom, Dannyboy and I have both had that. The weird thing is, any of my friends IRL would say that I'm a gloomy depressive person, yet on here I'm one of the more positive members. I NEVER EVER thought I'd be described as positive!

 

[DannyBoyy]

I agree, while I want to ignore it my conscience would have me try to be a voice of reason. I sent the Admin a message as well so maybe they will start taking notice.

Hate to sound sappy, but if any of you feel that your life is worthless how about living your life to try to help others.....that would prove you wrong for sure and you could at least have the benefit of knowing that other people benefited from your existence. Nice thought eh?

Im the same i want to stop replying cause i dont want to be the ones what makes things worse...but my conscience is saying dont stop replying...help them.

 

[Thom]

You will end up getting abuse for doing so though Thom, Dannyboy and I have both had that. The weird thing is, any of my friends IRL would say that I'm a gloomy depressive person, yet on here I'm one of the more positive members. I NEVER EVER thought I'd be described as positive!

Funny, that sums me up as well! I didn't realize how negative I was until a friend brought it to my attention. It's something I'm working on though.

 

[hairplz]

You will end up getting abuse for doing so though Thom, Dannyboy and I have both had that. The weird thing is, any of my friends IRL would say that I'm a gloomy depressive person, yet on here I'm one of the more positive members. I NEVER EVER thought I'd be described as positive!

Getting abuse for doing what?

help them.

You can help me. I will pay you if you can successfully send me a package of dutasteride/avodart. I can't get a prescription and the customs do not let drugs inside, so we would have to mask it somehow. I will pay for the efforts as well. So...who here REALLY wants to help me and not just bull**** talk?

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

A professional hair transplant surgeon? I completely agree. There have been tons of cases of desperate/balding men getting hair transplant and living a happy life from then onwards. Too bad not everyone has the money for a good transplant. For some people like me, death is the best way out.


No, that would make me even more depressed. Knowing that I gave so much, yet received nothing.

I suffer from BDD and with hair loss this can be a dreadful combination. I just got unlucky I guess. The world didn't help me, I don't need to help anyone. I posted up a job offer if anyone wants a quality virtual assistant. When I work, I don't mix it with my emotions, I just do the work I'm supposed to, like a robot.

No, I meant like seeing a counsellor, GP, Psychologist, hell even ringing the Samaritans will do you more good than driving yourself mad on here. I empathise with the BDD, I have it myself. It's not easy to get out of "that" mindset, and I'm still not there yet. I'm sure you'll see my words as hollow, but I am being completely genuine

 

[Thom]

Im the same i want to stop replying cause i dont want to be the ones what makes things worse...but my conscience is saying dont stop replying...help them.

I agree, it's hard to know who just wants the attention and who is really considering this. I remember a thread like this a good few months ago and the amdinistrators sought out a good suicide help forum to link them to. Now it's all falling on deaf ears though.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Get abuse for saying that hair loss is not the end of the world. I've never said it's good, or doesn't matter, both quotes that have been attributed to me. But it's not the reason to give up completely on life.

 

[hairplz]

No, I meant like seeing a counsellor, GP, Psychologist, hell even ringing the Samaritans will do you more good than driving yourself mad on here.

Those don't grow hair. The money should be better put in the hair transplant fund. We all aren't millionaires you know (if I was, I would never have these problems, would have gotten hair transplant long time ago.)

But it's not the reason to give up completely on life.

For me it is, because my main goal in the life is to be aesthetic and hair loss is a big FU in my face by life telling me "You will never achieve your dream/goal, you will never be happy, just die now!"

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

I know they don't. I wasn't saying that they would. But it has to be better than being on here right?

 

[DannyBoyy]

Getting abuse for doing what?


You can help me. I will pay you if you can successfully send me a package of dutasteride/avodart. I can't get a prescription and the customs do not let drugs inside, so we would have to mask it somehow. I will pay for the efforts as well. So...who here REALLY wants to help me and not just bull**** talk?

I cant help you in THAT way i ment like how chris said get a counselor etc etc.

 

[hairplz]

Sure, again, proves my point. When people they can help, they DON'T ACTUALLY want to help. They just want to do something easy like pray, say good words or "direct me to a counselor" which takes them 5 minutes of Google search.

They wouldn't care less if I was dead, they just need that little good feeling, to make themselves feel good, that they are "kind". Words mean nothing. Only actions do.

I don't need a counselor, I need a hair transplant, I need dutasteride. As I said, I will pay for it. I will pay for your help, but I need someone from UK, USA, Germany, whatever...to send duta to me, so it passes through the customs.

People never REALLY want to help. They just want to talk.

 

[zeroes]

This was my fear when I left mod team, they need to find someone to mod.

I can't do it any more this section kept getting to me.

I suggest PM Cassin and someone ask to be mod. It will take admin sometime to sort a new mod out.

 

[uncomfortable man]

He is taking a direct approach to fix the source of his unhappiness, his hair loss. How can that not be considered a positive thing? Being depressed about hairloss isn't an indication of mental illness, it's a natural response to a ****ed up situation.

 

[DannyBoyy]

Sure, again, proves my point. When people they can help, they DON'T ACTUALLY want to help. They just want to do something easy like pray, say good words or "direct me to a counselor" which takes them 5 minutes of Google search.

They wouldn't care less if I was dead, they just need that little good feeling, to make themselves feel good, that they are "kind". Words mean nothing. Only actions do.

I don't need a counselor, I need a hair transplant, I need dutasteride. As I said, I will pay for it. I will pay for your help, but I need someone from UK, USA, Germany, whatever...to send duta to me, so it passes through the customs.

People never REALLY want to help. They just want to talk.

Its not that we dont care and we dont want to help etc its that we CANT not in THAT way anyway you told me to send you those drugs...i dont have them or get them so i cant help in that way...we dont do it to get that "good feeling" etc we say get help cause we CARE otherwise we wouldnt say anything...we ARE trying to help we WANT to help dude.

 

[hairplz]

Everything is fine, no mods are required. Stop being such pussies. People need a place to vent. If you stop talking about the problem, it won't go away. THINK. Think further than 99% of normal***s. Actually, think deeply about the subject and maybe, MAYBE you will realize that there is a big point to all of this, that maybe the conventional beliefs about right and wrong are flawed. That maybe in some cases these solutions ACTUALLY ARE the best solutions.

And why can't you people help to send me duta? I pay you by paypal, you buy it at your local pharmacy or online pharmacy that ships to your place. Then you send it via courier to my place and say it's some spice for food or something, it passes through. I pay your commission for efforts. You get money, I get duta, everyone's happy. No, I guess too much work to help someone who is ****ing suicidal.

 

[Quantum Cat]

yeah you guys are right, this thread should be locked. I made it when I was very depressed.

I have a feeling Hairplz isn't serious but if he is I hope he gets some help

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Hairloss Police? Now that sounds like a fun job where I get to bang my head against a brick wall, where do I sign up?

 

[uncomfortable man]

I just think too many here prescribe psychologists as a nice way of saying "your crazy".
Sorry, but I don't need to be patronized like that. Especially from someone who doesn't know the pain of being bald.