ClayShaw said:
Unless you're a guy who was NW7 at 18, baldness is probably not high on your list of potential issues with your child.
Not saying you implied the following but after reading this part this just popped in my mind.
All I meant was someone for whom baldness was a major concern. Not saying you'd have to be NW7 by 18 to care, I just mean those people are probably very affected by their baldness, and would therefore be thinking about it, especially the younger they were when they had children.
Say I'm a man wanting to have kids. "If I'm not losing hair, my son won't either. It makes perfect sense...." Just another example of ignorance.
I don't think it's ignorance, I just think guys who aren't losing their hair and don't have a strong family history of baldness (like a bald father or a bald maternal grandfather) aren't thinking about losing hair, or they think they'll lose it when they're older and they won't care (older being 45+). I think people who are expecting a kid or thinking about having a kid don't want to get into a frame of mind where they run through every possible problem in their head. It would drive you nuts.
One may rate down syndrome and 3 fingers as being worse than male pattern baldness. However that is his/her opinion and I would gladly be missing 2 fingers for a full head. Reason? I'd have confidence in everything I do and I wouldn't be down 85% of the time, even if I was not able to engage in things like sports. Come to think about it with the lack of confidence I'd probably not do that anyway.
Its not that one is worse than the other. Thats a pointless game to play. What matters is how it affects the person. Born with male pattern baldness might really affect some people, but someone else might be a concert pianist with missing fingers. The pianist would probably trade his baldness for your fingers, but it doesn't work that way.
There's no reason to rate what should be considered and what shouldn't. Your mentality will not be that of your son/daughter necessarily, but I think I won't go further with this.
I just think its a pandora's box of bad thoughts most people don't want to open.