Balding guys just cant catch breaks

[s.a.f]

But I don´t want to give these sl*ts this power. Whenever I see a girl I look arrogantly away and clearly show them that I am mot interested in them. I don´t want them to think: "Oh, yeah, that ugly guy wants me, I am so beautiful."

And then you complain about not getting any girls! :roll:

 

[IBM]

People want a person that he/she likes. What is beautiful for me might be ugly for others. So what? Now this battle between ugly/pretty is stupid.

 

[Guest]

And then you complain about not getting any girls! :roll:

I don´t get girls because I miss the looks to do so, but at least I don´t want them to get satisfaction by me showing attention.

 

[Guest]

And then you complain about not getting any girls! :roll:

I don´t get girls because I miss the looks to do so, but at least I don´t want them to get satisfaction by me showing attention.

tauge, my friend, you are on a good way, dont care if you get woman or not! now just think "i am the most handsome guy in here and i am the greatest and all girls want me" and you will get every girl.

let me tell this ...think like this even if its not true. no guy is the most handsome, the greatest or the one who all girls want.

but think like that...after you socialisted. remind these words!

 

[Pondle]

And then you complain about not getting any girls! :roll:

I don´t get girls because I miss the looks to do so, but at least I don´t want them to get satisfaction by me showing attention.

You have to speculate to accumulate. If a girl blows you out, so what? Every man on the planet has been blown out at some time, I don't care how good looking they are. Success with girls is just a matter of probability. The more you approach, the more that are likely to say "yes".

 

[Guest]

And then you complain about not getting any girls! :roll:

I don´t get girls because I miss the looks to do so, but at least I don´t want them to get satisfaction by me showing attention.

You have to speculate to accumulate. If a girl blows you out, so what? Every man on the planet has been blown out at some time, I don't care how good looking they are. Success with girls is just a matter of probability. The more you approach, the more that are likely to say "yes".

lol i know that from experience and its not.

its the chance/trial * number of trials ... which is relevant. but if you didnt got any concept and no idea how you get a girl...how i suspect it with tauge and how i once was...then the chance/trial is so low that you can approach 1000 women and you wont get any success.


its both , working on "chance/trial" and working on "number of trials" . the second is pretty easy but the first one not.

its just logic. and my experience.

 

[Pondle]

And then you complain about not getting any girls! :roll:

I don´t get girls because I miss the looks to do so, but at least I don´t want them to get satisfaction by me showing attention.

You have to speculate to accumulate. If a girl blows you out, so what? Every man on the planet has been blown out at some time, I don't care how good looking they are. Success with girls is just a matter of probability. The more you approach, the more that are likely to say "yes".

lol i know that from experience and its not.

its the chance/trial * number of trials ... which is relevant. but if you didnt got any concept and no idea how you get a girl...how i suspect it with tauge and how i once was...then the chance/trial is so low that you can approach 1000 women and you wont get any success.


its both , working on "chance/trial" and working on "number of trials" . the second is pretty easy but the first one not.

its just logic. and my experience.

As long as you aren't totally socially inept, you should be OK. When I've approached girls in bars & clubs, I've just been happy, easy-going and acted like I normally do. Dance with them. Crack a joke. It's not rocket science. Some will react positively, others negatively. Take the rough with the smooth.

 

[Guest]

And then you complain about not getting any girls! :roll:

I don´t get girls because I miss the looks to do so, but at least I don´t want them to get satisfaction by me showing attention.

You have to speculate to accumulate. If a girl blows you out, so what? Every man on the planet has been blown out at some time, I don't care how good looking they are. Success with girls is just a matter of probability. The more you approach, the more that are likely to say "yes".

lol i know that from experience and its not.

its the chance/trial * number of trials ... which is relevant. but if you didnt got any concept and no idea how you get a girl...how i suspect it with tauge and how i once was...then the chance/trial is so low that you can approach 1000 women and you wont get any success.


its both , working on "chance/trial" and working on "number of trials" . the second is pretty easy but the first one not.

its just logic. and my experience.

As long as you aren't totally socially inept, you should be OK. When I've approached girls in bars & clubs, I've just been happy, easy-going and acted like I normally do. Dance with them. Crack a joke. It's not rocket science. Some will react positively, others negatively. Take the rough with the smooth.

thats the right attitude, my friend which creates a high chance/trial.

 

[RaginDemon]

I would laugh at Jayman's little lyrics there but I won't 'cause I'm sure he wouldn't be so positive if the treatments hadn't worked for him. It's obvious how the folks who have benefited most from the treatments are the most lighthearted about hairloss, along with blondeguy and couple of others of course.

ghg,

i'm not lighthearted about it at all. i was actually making fun of both the guys who claim hair loss is life ending(taug) and the guys who claim it doesnt matter at all(blondeguy). they're both stupid extremes to live at.

I agree to a certain extent.

 

[RaginDemon]

And then you complain about not getting any girls! :roll:

I don´t get girls because I miss the looks to do so, but at least I don´t want them to get satisfaction by me showing attention.

PLEASE quit sounding so pathetic... your such a depressing person

 

[Pondle]

Taug sounds very immature - like a moody, self-pitying teenager. How old are you Taug?

 

[Guest]

You have to speculate to accumulate. If a girl blows you out, so what? Every man on the planet has been blown out at some time, I don't care how good looking they are. Success with girls is just a matter of probability. The more you approach, the more that are likely to say "yes".

Sure, theoretically you are right. If I would approach like 10000 girls, then there might actually be one or two that reacted positive, but as Neo said the chances of that are very small for me. I would have to deal with maaaaany rejections at first and I don´t think I would have the self-confidence to deal with even one rejection. So in the end it is better for me to do nothing and not get hurt.

 

[Pondle]

You have to speculate to accumulate. If a girl blows you out, so what? Every man on the planet has been blown out at some time, I don't care how good looking they are. Success with girls is just a matter of probability. The more you approach, the more that are likely to say "yes".

Sure, theoretically you are right. If I would approach like 10000 girls, then there might actually be one or two that reacted positive, but as Neo said the chances of that are very small for me. I would have to deal with maaaaany rejections at first and I don´t think I would have the self-confidence to deal with even one rejection. So in the end it is better for me to do nothing and not get hurt.

LOL what is wrong with you man? You need to grow up. You sound exactly like a whining 15 year old. Only 1 in every 10,000 girls would want to go out with you? Don't be a dickhead. You aren't bad looking. The only thing holding you back is the fact that (a) you have no balls, and (b) you think like a total twonk.

Rejection is no big deal - it happens to all of us. Failure is part of life. Learn from every failure and move on. With women - as with so much else in life - you only learn the hard way. Hiding from life is no solution.

 

[Guest]

Taug sounds very immature - like a moody, self-pitying teenager. How old are you Taug?

I am 24, turning 25 in a few days. Yes, I am immature. Just normal, when you haven´t most experiences in your youth other teenagers have done.

And when you want to accept a rejection by a girl one has to be very self-confident. I am not. I have been bullied and abused my whole life.

 

[Pondle]

Taug sounds very immature - like a moody, self-pitying teenager. How old are you Taug?

I am 24, turning 25 in a few days. Yes, I am immature. Just normal, when you haven´t most experiences in your youth other teenagers have done.

And when you want to accept a rejection by a girl one has to be very self-confident. I am not. I have been bullied and abused my whole life.

So have lots of people, and they've come out fighting (metaphorically speaking). You have to find your own sense of self-worth and stop making excuses. As for rejection, it's not a big deal. You have to be realistic to know that not every girl will find you attractive. Far more than 1 in 10,000 :roll: but not everyone.

 

[IBM]

What rages me is that many users here say to approach any girls. In portuguese this tactic we said 'everything that comes in the net if fish'. We have feelings and taste. I wont approach any girl like she was the One.

 

[Pondle]

What rages me is that many users here say to approach any girls. In portuguese this tactic we said 'everything that comes in the net if fish'. We have feelings and taste. I wont approach any girl like she was the One.

Well if you approach any girl you like as if she's "the One" you'll probably scare her off anyway :lol: . The point is, Taug is always complaining that he can't get dates/sex/a girlfriend. And if, like Taug, you never approach anywomen, you will never get dates/sex/a girlfriend. However, if you do want dates/sex/a girlfriend it doesn't mean you have to approach every woman!

 

[Guest]

Well if you approach any girl you like as if she's "the One" you'll probably scare her off anyway :lol: . The point is, Taug is always complaining that he can't get dates/sex/a girlfriend. And if, like Taug, you never approach anywomen, you will never get dates/sex/a girlfriend. However, if you do want dates/sex/a girlfriend it doesn't mean you have to approach every woman!

Well, if we ignore my social phobia and the total lack of social skills then I actually might approach a girl. But the fact is that none are interested in me. They quickly look away when they see me coming or ignore me thinking something like:"Omg, hopefully that ugly fellow won´t talk to me." I can read this in their faces.

 

[Pondle]

Well, if we ignore my social phobia and the total lack of social skills then I actually might approach a girl. But the fact is that none are interested in me. They quickly look away when they see me coming or ignore me thinking something like:"Omg, hopefully that ugly fellow won´t talk to me." I can read this in their faces.

You see what you want to see, not what's really there. Why don't you get help, man? You really would benefit from some counselling, neuro-lingustic programming, hypnotherapy or something.

 

[IBM]

You dont understand that some people have no place in this society. I know what Taug feels. I'm also get rejected by people all time. No one invites me for anything for example.