being dumped

[swingline747]

yep same here started at 17... have to admit as i get older (and"balder" ), the more i m afraid of being single

being single is nothing to be afraid of. not having options is.
I never had the feeling of needing to be married or have kids. The thought of it actually makes my stomach turn. But I used to have options. Now I do not.
Never been dumped because of baldness. What I have been dumped or had a relationship end for is because of my co existence views. Thing was prior it never bothered me to end a relationship because I could easily meet a new woman or girl.
Not now.
Might as well just go gay at this point.

 

[VeprSuper]

A German saying goes, "things never turn out as good or as bad as you expect". I think thats true.

 

[swingline747]

A German saying goes, "things never turn out as good or as bad as you expect". I think thats true.

so you are saying going gay would not turn out bad nor good, just indifferent?

 

[VeprSuper]

Haha, no. Just life in general.

 

[JimmyJones]

There's also a famous German philosopher that came with the theory that one gets depressed because you know your life will never be as good as it was. They mentioned it on the Big Bang Theory..can't remember his name though.

 

[VeprSuper]

Germans are smart.

 

[Fena2000]

Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed - Jonathon Swift

 

[swingline747]

Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed - Jonathon Swift

That why people call me pessimistic but if you expect the best your that much worse off when you get the worst. If you expect the worst and get adequate results you think they are the best. Reverse psychology.

 

[Wolf Pack]

being single is nothing to be afraid of. not having options is.
I never had the feeling of needing to be married or have kids. The thought of it actually makes my stomach turn. But I used to have options. Now I do not.
Never been dumped because of baldness. What I have been dumped or had a relationship end for is because of my co existence views. Thing was prior it never bothered me to end a relationship because I could easily meet a new woman or girl.
Not now.
Might as well just go gay at this point.

My biggest fear is losing my looks if I lose my hair. I know I would still be able to date (with less options) but it would hurt me to see myself in the mirror. That's the crux of the problem for me. Sometimes I think if I was the only person left on Earth I would probably still be getting through Finasteride, just the way I am.

You won't go dateless dude, your body rocks.

 

[VeprSuper]

Wolf, I feel the same. I want my wife to be stoked about my looks and that means hair. Not saying that is all she cares about but I want to stay the best I can.

My point in the German quote for Swing was basically what you said. He may not wrangle supermodels but I highly doubt he will get a hildebeast either.

 

[swingline747]

Wolf, I feel the same. I want my wife to be stoked about my looks and that means hair. Not saying that is all she cares about but I want to stay the best I can.

My point in the German quote for Swing was basically what you said. He may not wrangle supermodels but I highly doubt he will get a hildebeast either.

problem is you have to be with someone who turns you on. Thats the point of my relationship now. Shes not a troll but her weight has gotten to the point where I have ZERO sexual interest. So even if you have 30% sexual interest in someone you initially meet that will eventually fade away faster and make the original sexual interactions less stimulating and fade faster than if you were with someone you found 70% sexually attractive. Its like a reverse Moores law.

Also hildebeast is relative as is super model.

 

[maxou]

dafuq, especially NY girls, or US girls in general cauz of your french accent ?

all girls in general, nah i don't have a french accent... i'm a dual citizen

 

[VeprSuper]

I find that most couples are looks matched. Ergo, since you are not bad looking, your future filly wont be either.

I think pessimism can be healthly but sometimes you take it too far, brah.

 

[swingline747]

I find that most couples are looks matched. Ergo, since you are not bad looking, your future filly wont be either.

yay so we'll both be looking at each other is submissive and secret contempt for having to "settle"

Hey at least my brother will have some fun and good looks still......

 

[VeprSuper]

Ok, I yield. I have depleted my positive energy and still cannot penetrate your negative force field

 

[swingline747]

Ok, I yield. I have depleted my positive energy and still cannot penetrate your negative force field

Im in a mood, only time whittles this away....

 

[Wolf Pack]

Wolf, I feel the same. I want my wife to be stoked about my looks and that means hair. Not saying that is all she cares about but I want to stay the best I can.

My point in the German quote for Swing was basically what you said. He may not wrangle supermodels but I highly doubt he will get a hildebeast either.

Vepr, yeah that's us. I like looking my best as well, without hair definitely it goes down. I see what you mean about your wife, even if she goes oh you look great, you would still focus on your hair. It's basically about you and your battle, not her, that's me anyway.

Yeah I think swing needs to be a bit more positive as he seems to have a great body and facial features seem decent too. But I can't say I blame him for being depressed as he is currently losing hair and not on a DHT inhibitor due to sides. Only reason I feel better recently is I am eating finasteride and doing all I can - no sides and positives already. Take that away and I probably would feel out of control again.

It's a horrible cycle basically.

 

[MoHairMoBetta]

#ForeverAlone

 

[paulie72785]

Misery is comfortable......Happiness takes effort

 

[frenchy]

.Happiness takes effort

say no nowrood 1 ever