Confidence And Charisma More Important Than Hair?

[shookwun]

This pretty much nails what I've been trying to articulate. Don't be a shut in, get a good job, lift, and learn to dance.

Women like men who are spontaneous, & want to go on adventures. Something simple like going for a long drive, and drinking coffee is enough to ignite there interests.

They hate shut ins, and I learned this the hard way. it was not my aesthetics, but my life style.


From what I have learned is being boring, and predictable will leave you wondering why didnt it work out? I have had numerous women tell me they got sick of just hanging out at the house.

 

[tellersquill]

Women like men who are spontaneous, & want to go on adventures. Something simple like going for a long drive, and drinking coffee is enough to ignite there interests.

They hate shut ins, and I learned this the hard way. it was not my aesthetics, but my life style.


From what I have learned is being boring, and predictable will leave you wondering why didnt it work out? I have had numerous women tell me they got sick of just hanging out at the house.

I agree with this.

Women are okay being in doors if you make it into something fun. Like you tell them its pizza, ice cream and film night.

If you just spend every date in your room with them it gets boring for everyone.

 

[Allesandra]

You're forgetting something. Really good looking and attractive people we're very popular all the way through school. Consequently they are probably five to ten years ahead of their peers in the Sociological Department. Translation is good-looking people know how to talk to other good-looking people and therefore are rated much higher and charisma

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

You're forgetting something. Really good looking and attractive people we're very popular all the way through school. Consequently they are probably five to ten years ahead of their peers in the Sociological Department. Translation is good-looking people know how to talk to other good-looking people and therefore are rated much higher and charisma

They also tend to have good looking parents so on average they were better socialized from birth.

Positive feedback loops.

 

[Swoop]

 

[DBW]

Halo effect.

he had that type of look all women worship & love, and men get jealous over.

The dude was pretty, literally beautiful to look at. When you hit that level of aesthetics you can have any women.

Perfect balance of masculinity and prettiness.

A legitimate 8-9 out of 10

Are you serious? Dude is overrated in the extreme. 5/10 face at best, his body is halo-ing you brah!

 

[blackg]

Framecel

 

[DBW]

You're forgetting something. Really good looking and attractive people we're very popular all the way through school. Consequently they are probably five to ten years ahead of their peers in the Sociological Department. Translation is good-looking people know how to talk to other good-looking people and therefore are rated much higher and charisma

A relatively insightful and coherent contribution you've made here Alessandra. Well done.

 

[uncomfortable man]

I wanted to give the op some credit because he has experienced significant hairloss... enough to realize a few things but then he made this thread, which has convinced me that he hasnt been bald long enough to realize that CONFIDENCE WONT FRAME YOUR FACE!

 

[SBAmerican]

I wanted to give the op some credit because he has experienced significant hairloss... enough to realize a few things but then he made this thread, which has convinced me that he hasnt been bald long enough to realize that CONFIDENCE WONT FRAME YOUR FACE!

You're absolutely right @uncomfortable man, confidence will not frame your face. It was hell on Earth to put it lightly. Whenever I wasn't wearing a hat, people treated me much differently. Cashiers, servers, random people don't treat you as nicely as they do when you have a decent head of hair or when you are wearing a hat. It really pissed me off how much of a difference it made. I am going for a second hair transplant soon to straighten my hairline and add some density to the front. I still firmly believe that confidence can give you a big boost whether you are bald or if you have a decent head of hair. However, hair is massively important.

 

[CopeForLife]

this guy got a decent gf even with NW7 what are ur excuses, sirs?

 

[Dench57]

this guy got a decent gf even with NW7 what are ur excuses, sirs?

but if you zoom out...

 

[blackg]

but if you zoom out...

I've said it many times... But, I love your humor, Drench.

Are you sure you're not Australian?

 

[Rudiger]

Wow Dench.

I've always wondered, is the girl supposed to look despondent and frustrated? Maybe that's my assumption as a man who see's baldness as such a disability with females, I mean the other interpretation is that she's completely at ease, but I definitely don't see it that way as she's laying against a bald guy, simple as.

It's kind of funny that, if she was sitting against the NW1 that Dench posted, I'd probably see her expressionless face in a completely different way. Right now I see a girl who is frustrated at picking a guy who ended up being bald, and wondering if there's a way out, instead if it was an NW1 I could probably look at her and see a woman who's comfortable with being with this man for the rest of her life.

OK maybe not "ha-ha" funny.

 

[Rudiger]

Oh and I know this doesn't need pointing out but of course that's probably a stock photo of 2 "models" in a photo shoot.

 

[blackg]

I'm glad you're back, h.l.

 

[matthewmarcos24]

ljungberg is a norwood 7 but has a stunning wife !!

 

[matthewmarcos24]

Become a male model, problem solved.

 

[Dench57]

ljungberg is a norwood 7 but has a stunning wife !!

You're right dude, I'll just become like Freddie Ljungberg!

 

[Dench57]

Wow Dench.

I've always wondered, is the girl supposed to look despondent and frustrated? Maybe that's my assumption as a man who see's baldness as such a disability with females, I mean the other interpretation is that she's completely at ease, but I definitely don't see it that way as she's laying against a bald guy, simple as.

It's kind of funny that, if she was sitting against the NW1 that Dench posted, I'd probably see her expressionless face in a completely different way. Right now I see a girl who is frustrated at picking a guy who ended up being bald, and wondering if there's a way out, instead if it was an NW1 I could probably look at her and see a woman who's comfortable with being with this man for the rest of her life.

OK maybe not "ha-ha" funny.

Yes, I see her as despondent and frustrated as you say, staring into space. I couldn't convey that with MS paint and the drawing ability of a quadriplegic 8 year old so I just went with her staring at a NW1 model.