Conversation with the Privileged

[hellouser]

Here's a typical conversation of someone who's privileged with hair on the topic of hair loss:

http://fyre.it/ZjYT0Q.4

Key comments made by this moron:

Boldness is nonsense, get a wig, it won't kill you. The issue of boldness is genetic, there is no cure. Unless you plan to splice your genes.

Making fun of hair loss is just a convenient thing to make fun of but the underlining issue is always something else. If a person who is being made fun of hair loss did not have hair loss, they would make fun of something else. This is also seen with people who wear glasses.

If I go fully bald, I really could care less.

I am not saying balding should not be addressed, but end of the day it is at the bottom of the tag pole.

Post you're conversations.

 

[winnyblues]

Here's a typical conversation of someone who's privileged with hair on the topic of hair loss:

http://fyre.it/ZjYT0Q.4

Key comments made by this moron:










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god i wish these C**ts would get hit by the karma train, serve them a bit of their own medicine.
I do not wish ill on any but seriously how can you make such assumptions without even been through it? I mean I can't, but I Know enough that going bald is a) going to ruin your dating life b) makes everyone treat you that tiny bit ****ter c)lower your self-esteem

 

[shookwun]

It's true. I'm relatively tall/average for Caucasian and always chuckle at manlets aka short people.


We only sympathize, and stand for baldness because we have it ourselves.

 

[SayifDoit]

People who are let's say 'privileged' with hair shouldn't be even allowed to talk about the struggles and just dealing with being bald. How the **** do they know what it's like to be totally bald in your early 20's? Your youth stripped away from you?
I do hate the word 'privileged' because it steps in tumblr feminist domain but I can't think of a better word. It's like someone was NW1, saying to you 'just shave it off'
Who the **** gives you the right to say something like that?

What's funny when the rare few guys who've come to accept baldness, will say something 'like bulk up + get a tan + be confident' and then you reply with something like 'So if there was a cure baldness would you use it?' They literally can't say 'No.' Because any bald person would love to have their hair back.

It's too bad really. There should be a cure for male pattern baldness and anyone who thinks otherwise, should be slick bald. Then see what they say.

I can not believe aggressive male pattern baldness has not gained any recognition for how truly terrible it is, I'd love to see some A List celeb in his 20's loose all his hair in a year or two. Maybe then it would get some attention.

 

[doublebatman]

I do hate the word 'privileged' because it steps in tumblr feminist domain but I can't think of a better word.

I'm glad I'm not the only other person who sighs every time I see that word... It's usually from fat disgusting feminists who live in first world countries complaining about the 'privileges' of straight white men

I also can't see there being more recognition for male pattern baldness sufferers. Anyone in the media will jump on meds the second their hair moves a millimetre. In ten years time there will be much less bald celebs than say, 20 years ago.

 

[Agustin Araujo]

I do not wish ill on any but seriously how can you make such assumptions without even been through it?

I do not wish ill on anyone either. I think the reason why those who make such assumptions not only about alopecia, but about anything without even going through it is simply because they're ignorant.

I'm seeing more and more of my Facebook contacts starting their baldness journey.

Perhaps now they must have a better understanding of what you've been through.

 

[F2005]

Yeah, I always say to all of the full-haired people who say hair loss is no big deal, I would just shave my head and own it: Unless I see you shave your head into an NW6 pattern and keep it that way for a long time, then your words do not mean jack sh*t to me. If I had a nickel for everyone who talked the talk but could NEVER walk the walk, then I would be a millionaire today.

 

[shookwun]

Sitting at our buddies pad, pre drinking with about eight others. Shortly before out NW6 22 year old friend shows up.

'don't talk about such, and such hair loss, he's coming over in about an hour'


Meanwhile he's always the one bringing up hair around those follicular challenged :roll:

 

[hellouser]

Last year I had two instances where my coworkers openly denigrated men with baldness.

1) My female coworker said something about some guy being bald and I asked 'Whats wrong with being bald?' and she replied 'What's NOT wrong with being bald?!'
2) My other male coworker said TO ME; 'Youre going bald, you better get married soon or no woman will, hahaha'

 

[bilboswaggins]

This was just before I became aware of my own hairloss
My 30 yr old friend/co worker was showing me and another employee (nw1) nudes of this chick he had hooked up with.
After he left, the nw1 says to me "I bet it was a hooker, how else could a short bald dude like him pull that?"

 

[2bald2young]

Last year I had two instances where my coworkers openly denigrated men with baldness.

1) My female coworker said something about some guy being bald and I asked 'Whats wrong with being bald?' and she replied 'What's NOT wrong with being bald?!'
2) My other male coworker said TO ME; 'Youre going bald, you better get married soon or no woman will, hahaha'

Well it is true that your chances of marrying a decent or good looking woman drops dramatically. Forgot what it was called, something with hypergame?

 

[bilboswaggins]

are you going to have children fred?

 

[Nadester]

Im lucky here. Blad or not, If you have a good job with a degree and belong to a better caste you WILL be respected and be asked to marry a girl of your choice. Then we have the dowry case that compensates at times for an unsuitable bride. Im born to a good family and ill be doing my best on my academics so some problems are taken care of.
Still i choose to keep my hair, coz this whole dating thing is not of so much value as you guys put it, then perserving your identity with which you were born

For the haters/judge's:-
Shallow as **** and immoral but it is comfortable.

 

[billybob mcdougal]

Children yes. At worst it's 200€ per month of alimony for that here in Belgium. And even then, if you refuse to pay, the government can't do much.

Pleas dont have children Fred, youre too far gone in the head.

 

[billybob mcdougal]

Do you care to explain why you think that? With proper spelling if you can.

I have retracted my last statement as it was wrong of me. Sorry Fred, my heads gone.

 

[scorpiolove]

Im lucky here. Blad or not, If you have a good job with a degree and belong to a better caste you WILL be respected and be asked to marry a girl of your choice. Then we have the dowry case that compensates at times for an unsuitable bride. Im born to a good family and ill be doing my best on my academics so some problems are taken care of.
Still i choose to keep my hair, coz this whole dating thing is not of so much value as you guys put it, then perserving your identity with which you were born


Just because people have hair or have the perfect job or come from a higher learning, social, political or whatever type of background doesn't necessarily mean they're smart or will succeed in life.
For example, some men I know get married in three months after meeting a woman and choose which car to drive within a one year time frame, my point is, if you spend more time in choosing which car to drive than you do marrying a woman you're going to spend the rest of your life with, without fully knowing her, it could be a tragic mistake.
She could be, or turn out to be, the wicked witch of the west and in divorce she could take your precious car, house and nearly, if not all your money, in alimony and child support. The math just doesn't add up. Some people might have it all, but they lose it all over years of time just for making stupid decisions like the one I mentioned above. In a more exterme example, look at Elliott Rodger, he had it all in life and made a stupid descision,life is mainly about choices and things in life change, can you adjust and adapt to your environment? there are no guarantees in life, I worked my way to the top at one time, fell down, and I got back up.
In life, ish happens, you have to prepare for these times and most of all don't act in stupidity.

 

[Nadester]

To each his own my friend.
We live in a world of randomness.......

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Also its pointless to think what MIGHT happen.

 

[Nadester]

Your posts move me at times fred.
This one is really good.No bs posivite moral. Only True words from personal experience

 

[DoctorHouse]

Hypergamy. Anyway, I will never marry, any man who decides to marry in this day and age deserve the divorce rape that will be coming to him eventually.

Fred, I will agree with you there. I was watching the show Gotham and it really portrays exactly how women are in their true form. There are a few scenes with Gordon dating this doctor. She constantly challenges him and if he does not agree with her she bashes him every time. And I still don't understand why women let themselves go after around 30 or in some cases earlier. I have been single all my life and I love it. Secondly, I get bored of people very fast unless they are intellectually stimulating. A woman who has been scored by some man in the past is already damaged goods for life. And eventually, like a mad dog, women will turn on you when things don't go their way. Unfortunately for me, novelties wear off fast so marriage is not in my blood.

 

[2bald2young]

I agree with this. People can be given everything in life and they will still screw up.

I know people who have the money from their parents, money with which they could kickstart a great project or live a blissful life. Yet they spend everything on clothes, drinking and women.

I know people who had a very high IQ and could just sail through the high grades with ease at university. Yet they just gave up for some reason and stopped studying.

I know people who have perfect looks, yet won't make any effort to meet quality women and still sleep with chubby 5/10 girls.

Finally, I know guys who don't have any of these things, and yet they do better than these 3 types of people combined.

I think some of it has to do with psychology. In general when you know you can get something the value of it decreases, but when you know you can't get something the value of it increases. For some people knowing they can get something is already good enough. I experienced this myself sometimes. First you think you can't get something and you really want it but once you find out you can get it you suddenly don't want it anymore.