Conversation with the Privileged

[Nrg]

No homo, I love you guys. I don't know why but I get a boost from reading that sort of stuff. Thanks for the link Hellouser, it makes dealing with this a bit better.

 

[hellouser]

I think some of it has to do with psychology. In general when you know you can get something the value of it decreases, but when you know you can't get something the value of it increases. For some people knowing they can get something is already good enough. I experienced this myself sometimes. First you think you can't get something and you really want it but once you find out you can get it you suddenly don't want it anymore.

This is EXACTLY what the positional good theory is based on.

 

[scorpiolove]

To each his own my friend.
We live in a world of randomness.......

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Also its pointless to think what MIGHT happen.

To think what might happen is just a simple task of using your common sense and taking precaution, like locking your doors before leaving your house,or looking both ways before crossing the street etc. We take real risks everyday, even princess dianne thought she was invunerable because of her status, her limo driver was drunk, the story tells itself. but like you said to each his own. The rich die just like the poor and there's nothing quote on quote "special" about them.

 

[Nadester]

That was depressing, but id more likely live something good would happen and die in an accident.
Losing my hair so young has cleared me onething:-
1.Their is no Karma
2.Their is no(not sure) god. Still id believe him coz blaming someone is easy
3. Things are Randomly happening

 

[shookwun]

Was in a tool box talk the other day, and out of no where the foreman says to one of the team leaders ''(name), are you bald?" (he's a NW6 at 36)

Our whole team was in the lunch room where we conduct our daily tool box talks, and responses in a shocked manner, face literally when stoned white and replied ''no, just a bitt of thinning" Keep in mind he has never taken his touqe off once since he started working. I briefly seen it off for a quick a distant area such as in his piece of equipment. Room literally went silent, and he then replies 'what kinda question is that', whilst everyone laughing. Again, privileged guy wins, and bald-shames another man as if it isn't a big deal.


But if someone had cancer it would be a different story, oh poor soul! Bald-shaming on other hand is allowed.

 

[shookwun]

Hahaha, so funny right! I would have picked the fattest guy or chick in the room and said "Are you a pig? Can't you stop eating you fat whale? Look at him/her!"

And of course, everyone would have stopped laughing and become angry: "That's no laughing matter, what's wrong with you? I want to see you in my office!"

Yah no kidding, despite baldness being a genetic disease most dont have control over it's okay to shame, and mock them because it's mild humour for everyone!


What pissed me off is it came out of no where, one minute everyones discussing food then then out of no where asks if he's bald when the discussion stopped.

Who does that? i wanted to kick him in his teeth for that comment.

 

[bilboswaggins]

Hahaha, so funny right! I would have picked the fattest guy or chick in the room and said "Are you a pig? Can't you stop eating you fat whale? Look at him/her!"

And of course, everyone would have stopped laughing and become angry: "That's no laughing matter, what's wrong with you? I want to see you in my office!"

Lol I actually had an incident almost just like that. This was after a party at my friend's house and a lot of us were sleeping over so we were all lying on mattresses on the floor. This chick tries to squeeze herself between me and someone else and I was really tired so I told her there wasn't enough room here. She replies "Are you saying im fat?". I was still a bit drunk at the time and i said jokingly "yeah". She got so mad and my buddies were all like "dude that wasn't cool". Of course such a reaction would not occur had it been about hair loss.

 

[billybob mcdougal]

Its to be expected, we are funny looking fu**ers. People don't ask me if Im bald(pretty obvious), they just call me a bald c**t. This is from complete strangers btw.

 

[bilboswaggins]

Bald-shaming on other hand is allowed.

Saw this on facebook a while back. A guy I know (about 23) put up a new profile pic of him and his girlfriend. His hair wasnt THAT bad, around nw3, but the camera angle made it seem a lot worse. First comment, "**** bro you're losing hair" which is liked by 10 people. I felt really bad for him as he tried to laugh it off replying "Yeah getting a wig soon! Nah, it was just the way my hair was brushed that day"

 

[thaxceptional1]

Hypergamy. Anyway, I will never marry, any man who decides to marry in this day and age deserves the divorce rape that will be coming to him eventually.

I didn't even read half this thread, but wow man. You really have a negative view on society.

 

[hellouser]

I didn't even read half this thread, but wow man. You really have a negative view on society.

Oh, so... you only live your life with blinders on and pay attention to 'positive' stuff only? I suppose the only 'negative' aspect in your life would be the realization that baldness is repulsive to women, but everything MUST BE positive?

 

[Lollerme]

Hahaha, so funny right! I would have picked the fattest guy or chick in the room and said "Are you a pig? Can't you stop eating you fat whale? Look at him/her!"

And of course, everyone would have stopped laughing and become angry: "That's no laughing matter, what's wrong with you? I want to see you in my office!"

So bitter!

 

[Lollerme]

You are entirely focused on superficial things. And so is it a surprise that all you end up interacting with are superficial people?

 

[hellouser]

Someone insults you and you're supposed not to react and smile right? No negativity allowed as hellouser explained.

I'm sick of that positivity trend on the internet. I call it delusion. Life can be beautiful, but it can often suck big time.

Burying you head in the sand while thinking about unicorns and rainbow to deny a harsh reality will lead you straight to insanity.

A guy is in a severe depression because he's ignored by women and mocked by society due to his baldness, and what does the NW1 crowd come up with?

"I don't know man, you're too negative, just stay positive!" About what?! You need a reason to be positive.

My positivity won't change society's hatred for bald men.

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Here's something interesting:

http://www.cnn.com/2015/02/24/entertainment/feat-zendaya-coleman-giuliana-rancic/index.html

So they make fun of her dreds smelling like patchouli oil or weed and it lands on CNN front page news but if someone humiliates a bald guy... NOBODY MENTIONS A FUCKING THING.

 

[shookwun]

Everyone wants to cloud, and delude the reality about being a baldite.



Hair is what compliments, and accentuates our features. It makes us feel, and look attractive.

 

[thaxceptional1]

Oh, so... you only live your life with blinders on and pay attention to 'positive' stuff only? I suppose the only 'negative' aspect in your life would be the realization that baldness is repulsive to women, but everything MUST BE positive?

nah..never did i think baldness was repulsive to women. i still don't think so. i guess i meant to say he has a really negative view because there are in fact certain things i view negatively. but you wont see me ignorant enough to say that all women are demanding for divorces midway into marriage. if i had that mindset i wouldn't get anywhere. its not even rational first of all. plenty women are happily married. im sorry if u go to bars every night and only meet sl*ts.

 

[Lollerme]

nah..never did i think baldness was repulsive to women. i still don't think so. i guess i meant to say he has a really negative view because there are in fact certain things i view negatively. but you wont see me ignorant enough to say that all women are demanding for divorces midway into marriage. if i had that mindset i wouldn't get anywhere. its not even rational first of all. plenty women are happily married. im sorry if u go to bars every night and only meet sl*ts.

It's funny how these women haters on here call themselfs realists, they couldn't be further away from reality. These people who have lost their hair think they know it all and everyone who opposes them will be called out as "white knights" or "in denial".

 

[swingline747]

It's funny, for a woman hater, women seem to love me a great deal. How do you explain that?

Yes we know the truth, women have no mercy, and you'll discover that when you'll be bald yourself.

No offense Fred, but American women would rip you apart lol
Im not talking the ONE American tourist you have probably met there but if you came here to their turf..... might as well just re shave a horse shoe on top of that head.

 

[Nadester]

The reason why their is Feminism is coz men aren't allowed to resist that pussy

 

[2bald2young]

Really? I'm curious. So you say that if I travel to the US and try to hit on some girls, they would notice my thin coverage and NW2.5 hair line and be merciless with me?

It's funny, I always read these posts about American women commenting on a receding hair line. Damn, this does not even have a translation in French or Dutch.

I remember watching the movie "10 things I hate about you" with my girlfriend, at a point a girl says "Did your hair line just recede?!" and the subtitle said "Is that a zit on your forehead?!"

See, we cannot even translate that insult. Americans seem very lookist to me, so much that they have to find expressions like "receding hair line" to mock men.

As far as I know there are dutch translations for those words. Unlike in Germany or the US people in Belgium and the Netherlands just don't say it in your face, they prefer to talk about it behind your back...