Dating is hard, don’t take it personally...

[Oknow]

Sorry which part doesn't make sense?

- Average and ugly women sleep with attractive men
- Average and ugly women think they are entitled to said men
- Average men would be happy with average girl ( same looks level) but this is impossible due to he above

i do not want a model or attractive girl i'd be happy with a girl my level but all i can get are trannies and fatties at least my ex was ok looking and even she left me for a male model (some model who jst wanted an easy bang for a few months)

i can not physically get hard to trannies and women who are 5-6x my bod yweight

so what are my options?

I just texted girl in OP this morning for the banter asking if she is up for talking / meeting up , where if not wished her the best of luck - she said she wants too

a dating coach will say that is bad form , but goes to show no hard rules in this game

one thing for sure , requires effort either way

 

[Feelsbadman]

I just texted girl in OP this morning for the banter asking if she is up for talking / meeting up , where if not wished her the best of luck - she said she wants too

a dating coach will say that is bad form , but goes to show no hard rules in this game

one thing for sure , requires effort either way

so what? you're just her best option right now until a chad slideS into her DM.

 

[vondoom]

i honestly think that you can score an average girl, if you are average yourself, same goes for everyone...
from what i read online it might be difficult depending on your location (actually it is difficult here, too... at least from what i observe), but if you are in a bigger city you should have options other than trannies and fatties...

of course really attractive men have it easier often, but i personally never spend any thought about it, because i cant change what i look like... well to a certain extend (without surgery) i can and im sure you do it, too... but thinking like that only leads to frustration i think... sometimes it takes a little longer...

 

[Oknow]

so what? you're just her best option right now until a chad slideS into her DM.

Amount of times I’ve been in this exact situation and I end up getting the girl

 

[Feelsbadman]

i honestly think that you can score an average girl, if you are average yourself, same goes for everyone...
from what i read online it might be difficult depending on your location (actually it is difficult here, too... at least from what i observe), but if you are in a bigger city you should have options other than trannies and fatties...

of course really attractive men have it easier often, but i personally never spend any thought about it, because i cant change what i look like... well to a certain extend (without surgery) i can and im sure you do it, too... but thinking like that only leads to frustration i think... sometimes it takes a little longer...

but you can't though
look at tinder experiences 3/10 ugly women get hit on by 6/10 + men

 

[Feelsbadman]

Amount of times I’ve been in this exact situation and I end up getting the girl

huge if true man
im jus tmentally scarred coz my ex left me for a male model

 

[Oknow]

huge if true man
im jus tmentally scarred coz my ex left me for a male model

it is true

trust me, women don’t waste time with men they are not interested in

 

[Feelsbadman]

it is true

trust me, women don’t waste time with men they are not interested in

but women wil leave u the second a better man comes

 

[doubleindemnity]

i honestly think that you can score an average girl, if you are average yourself, same goes for everyone...
from what i read online it might be difficult depending on your location (actually it is difficult here, too... at least from what i observe), but if you are in a bigger city you should have options other than trannies and fatties...

of course really attractive men have it easier often, but i personally never spend any thought about it, because i cant change what i look like... well to a certain extend (without surgery) i can and im sure you do it, too... but thinking like that only leads to frustration i think... sometimes it takes a little longer...

But baldness puts you below average regardless of anything. People might say money this, fitness that but none of those things allow a bald guy to move up to average level.

 

[Feelsbadman]

But baldness puts you below average regardless of anything. People might say money this, fitness that but none of those things allow a bald guy to move up to average level.

+ the fact women on your level expect hot and above average guys

 

[Capone]

There’s two issues, a lot of men put getting women, one of their main goals in life, it’s like they have no self worth unless they have someone on the go. Then there’s tv shows like Love Island, etc, the girls all sound the same and are as thick as two short planks. I rem one said “oh he’s 6’6, imagine the kids”. So a lot of women watching them are being brainwashed into thinking that’s what I need

 

[Feelsbadman]

There’s two issues, a lot of men put getting women, one of their main goals in life, it’s like they have no self worth unless they have someone on the go. Then there’s tv shows like Love Island, etc, the girls all sound the same and are as thick as two short planks. I rem one said “oh he’s 6’6, imagine the kids”. So a lot of women watching them are being brainwashed into thinking that’s what I need

There’s two issues, a lot of men put getting women, one of their main goals in life, it’s like they have no self worth unless they have someone on the go. Then there’s tv shows like Love Island, etc, the girls all sound the same and are as thick as two short planks. I rem one said “oh he’s 6’6, imagine the kids”. So a lot of women watching them are being brainwashed into thinking that’s what I need

Need to some how fijd women who arent influenced by social media and stuff but its hard to find

Most western women are trash

Really hard dating a girl who takes selfies all the time has fucked heaps of dudes has no value and expects the world

The problem.is the good ones are in relationships and locked down early.

 

[vondoom]

huge if true man im jus tmentally scarred coz my ex left me for a male model

yeah that is your problem... you only think about how chad gets the women and you dont...
be glad that she left early and you didnt invest too much until she showed her true face... there will always be women who leave you for someone better looking (usually also someone richer, too)...
those are women noone wants to date anyway...

the dudes hitting on every women on every platform and the dudes who hit on ugly women, too? well they do that because they cant score a good one and that usually is because they suck ***^^

if it gives you some piece of mind: in first world asia the women are not much better^^ and here white chad usually ends up with the fatties, or women like 8 years older^^

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

But baldness puts you below average regardless of anything. People might say money this, fitness that but none of those things allow a bald guy to move up to average level.

Yeah, and baldness in your teens/early 20's makes you disgusting, literally freak tier because no one balds at that age. Any time anyone talks to you he just wants to awe at your f*****g wh*** c*** tenhead and mock you later wishing you roped

 

[Tom4362]

But baldness puts you below average regardless of anything. People might say money this, fitness that but none of those things allow a bald guy to move up to average level.

Baldness might be cured. Have a look at the new research section

 

[Diffused_confidence]

Baldness might be cured. Have a look at the new research section

Lol, yup just 5 years away!

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Then there’s tv shows like Love Island, etc, the girls all sound the same and are as thick as two short planks. I rem one said “oh he’s 6’6, imagine the kids”. So a lot of women watching them are being brainwashed into thinking that’s what I need

Because one girl said that? Grown women can think for themselves & aren't all the same. I swear the height thing is blown out of proportion by the Internet. Like I said many times I'm 5'8 and have no problem getting dates.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

but you can't though
look at tinder experiences 3/10 ugly women get hit on by 6/10 + men

Those men probably aren't really that good looking. I'm just decent and won't waste a millisecond on an "3/10 ugly woman".

 

[justinbieberscombover]

so what? you're just her best option right now until a chad slideS into her DM.

That's an incel forum fantasy, women aren't as looksbased as men. Once you pass their attractiveness threshhold you're fine and then it's all about how you present yourself and your interactions (among a lot of other factors that have nothing to do with you and aren't in your control). So if he secures a date and it goes well "Chads" are already out of the picture.

P.S. Looks are PARTLY subjective, so he might be a "Chad" to some women and not a Chad to others.

Also it's totally possible to seem like just a "Chad-lite" to a woman at first, and then she gets to know your personality and likes it, and mutual real life experiences increase how much she's attracted to you, and suddenly you go from "Chad-lite" to "Chad" in her eyes!

 

[justinbieberscombover]

That's an incel forum fantasy, women aren't as looksbased as men. Once you pass their attractiveness threshhold you're fine and then it's all about how you present yourself and your interactions (among a lot of other factors that have nothing to do with you and aren't in your control). So if he secures a date and it goes well "Chads" are already out of the picture.

P.S. Looks are PARTLY subjective, so he might be a "Chad" to some women and not a Chad to others.

Also it's totally possible to seem like just a "Chad-lite" to a woman at first, and then she gets to know your personality and likes it, and mutual real life experiences increase how much she's attracted to you, and suddenly you go from "Chad-lite" to "Chad" in her eyes!

@iCloud please confirm