do women even like buzzcuts?

[danimaldonado]

not an issue

I can pull it off fine, and I've had some girlfriends while I've had a buzz cut.( though I like and mostly have my hair long) It depends on how you seee it. If you think you look bad, then you do, if not, then you won't. Girls can easily tell how you are feeling about yourself so just get the buzz cut and be positive. Although some people just really can't pull it off, then you've gotta make up for it in some other way.

 

[swingline747]

some do some dont.
I mean really thats the only answer

 

[DannyBoyy]

some do some dont.
I mean really thats the only answer

Same with baldness.

 

[swingline747]

Same with baldness.

I would not say some women "like" baldness. I think some women can tolerate or look past it for another quality. Youll never get the party life, one night stands with random hot girls, or flings, or even approaches from women like if you had hair (saying youre starting as this kind of guy anyway).
NO WOMAN go "oh man I find bald guys super sexy and have to have one" or even so much as "yes I prefer a bald man", unless they are talking about shaved heads as a choice. No woman says EVER "I want to run my fingers through a Larry David, Hulk Hogan style horseshoe!"

I was personally talking a crew buzz cut with good hair still up top

 

[DannyBoyy]

I would not say some women "like" baldness. I think some women can tolerate or look past it for another quality. Youll never get the party life, one night stands with random hot girls, or flings, or even approaches from women like if you had hair (saying youre starting as this kind of guy anyway).
NO WOMAN go "oh man I find bald guys super sexy and have to have one" or even so much as "yes I prefer a bald man", unless they are talking about shaved heads as a choice. No woman says EVER "I want to run my fingers through a Larry David, Hulk Hogan style horseshoe!"

I was personally talking a crew buzz cut with good hair still up top

Ok whatever lol, point is there is women who still dont mind it, a guy i know same age also went bald, still with his girlfriend, the right person not gonna care, sure you could say well they was together before he went bald, but if baldness was as bad as people say, they would leave them right? anyway regardless women like it or not, i wasnt some model with hair, not gonna pretend i was some catch before hand. And for the record the party guy thing never has and never will be my thing, i rather get with one person and end my days with her.

 

[Wolf Pack]

IMO baldness is fine day to day in terms of getting by and getting into relationships. I see it all the time and have a bald cousin. The real issues are too do with loss of identity and ability to create instant attraction. I think it would be rare for someone to say "Oh he is good looking" just by seeing him. For blacks, the big issue is only the personal one, like the hate for losing their hair/how they look at themselves in the mirror. Otherwise their shaved head has little impact on attraction for most of them.

 

[shookwun]

Danny,


Are you a virgin or involuntarily celibate?

 

[DannyBoyy]

Well lets be honest here, if i say im a virgin etc all the obvious responses will come out, if i say im not a virgin etc, wouldnt you just think im lying? regardless if you say yes or no to that question...i see this going to a pointless argument. So im not gonna answer.

 

[winnyblues]

Lol obvious gaha
But seriously went to get my race bib for a state charity run im doing and saw a young guy fully bald, white guy aroujf my age if not younger and serioisly he looked like a cancer patient....

Without frame and hairline = you are ****ed if you aren't black or very good looking... and even then you see **** all bald young people anyway.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Didn't Danny have a girlfriend? Or was that someone else.

In case it was someone else, Danny, welcome to the gourmetstylewellness.com incel club.

 

[swingline747]

i wasnt some model with hair, not gonna pretend i was some catch before hand. And for the record the party guy thing never has and never will be my thing, i rather get with one person and end my days with her.

well kudos to you but actually I WAS a really good looking guy with hair, not so much without and was very able to be frivolous and casual with the opposite sex. For me this was more aligned with my life style because I personally DONT see myself spending the rest of my days with anyone. You may say "thats sad" or "that immature" but that is my mind set. Im an intolerable a hole who grows weary of most relationships, and the older I get the WORSE it gets.

My brother is the same way. I feel my sis is actually not far from us. Its a genetic trait then and can not be helped, nor should it.

Now with the loss of hair, confidence, identity, motivation etc I can simply look forward to spending a many sexless night online or trying to focus on one of my hobbies. I can only hope in the next few years my luster for sexual activities dies so I will tolerate being around still, OR a real treatment comes out because continuous hair transplant's are probably NOT going to be an end all to this situation after looking at my pops hatless egg dome yesterday

 

[Isaac Newton]

well kudos to you but actually I WAS a really good looking guy with hair, not so much without and was very able to be frivolous and casual with the opposite sex. For me this was more aligned with my life style because I personally DONT see myself spending the rest of my days with anyone. You may say "thats sad" or "that immature" but that is my mind set. Im an intolerable a hole who grows weary of most relationships, and the older I get the WORSE it gets.

My brother is the same way. I feel my sis is actually not far from us. Its a genetic trait then and can not be helped, nor should it.

Now with the loss of hair, confidence, identity, motivation etc I can simply look forward to spending a many sexless night online or trying to focus on one of my hobbies. I can only hope in the next few years my luster for sexual activities dies so I will tolerate being around still, OR a real treatment comes out because continuous hair transplant's are probably NOT going to be an end all to this situation after looking at my pops hatless egg dome yesterday

wait a minute . . . . are you admitting your sister is on the slutty side? (no offense brah)

btw wat does she think of norwoods?

 

[keshaikol]

skinhead

depends if you got the features for a shaved head
imo if you are going to try pull off the 'skinhead' look or buzzcut
you need a good jawline/good cheekbone/strong eyebrows/nice eyes and a good nose imo.
head shape is significant as well. it depends on the individual
I think I can pull it off quite well because I have a decent headshape/good jawline and good bone structure
Just depends on your face, and thats why alot of black guys look good with a shaved head because they have good genetics in terms of headshape/dark skin to scalp/hair ratio
i don't really think it depends on height or anything.. although taller guys and bigger guys can pull it off more. you shoudl gain some weight

i got 6 instant patches 4 months ago which grew in size. hid it for a long time then began researcch the whole choise to go bald...heard tlk of the rite head shape and all tht.....worried tht my scalp would be really flakey and stuff like tht....then one fateful mornin i woke...still half sleepin...got an email about "brave the shave" for cancer. i thot this was my way out. i can go bald for a cause and no one will no any different. so i did it...bald 3 weeks now. the patches are sooooo noticable. but to my suprise im gettin alot of female attention. i guess i was lucky to be blessed with my mothers cheekbones and my fathers brows. ppl ask about my ****ed up hairline and i tell em i have alopecia. becuase i dont care anymore....it leaves them speechless and feeling bad...which is amusin. my new "not givin a fck attitude" has cause shadows to appear....and my hair looks like it may come back.....life lesson....fck everyone else

 

[GoldenMane]

i got 6 instant patches 4 months ago which grew in size. hid it for a long time then began researcch the whole choise to go bald...heard tlk of the rite head shape and all tht.....worried tht my scalp would be really flakey and stuff like tht....then one fateful mornin i woke...still half sleepin...got an email about "brave the shave" for cancer. i thot this was my way out. i can go bald for a cause and no one will no any different. so i did it...bald 3 weeks now. the patches are sooooo noticable. but to my suprise im gettin alot of female attention. i guess i was lucky to be blessed with my mothers cheekbones and my fathers brows. ppl ask about my ****ed up hairline and i tell em i have alopecia. becuase i dont care anymore....it leaves them speechless and feeling bad...which is amusin. my new "not givin a fck attitude" has cause shadows to appear....and my hair looks like it may come back.....life lesson....fck everyone else

Your problem is very different to everyone else's
Random patches aren't as bad as the receding hairline or horseshoe, and there's every possibility it will grow back. If it's plain old male pattern baldness, eveybody knows what it is, and nobody feels bad about pointing it out.

 

[JTS]

i got 6 instant patches 4 months ago which grew in size. hid it for a long time then began researcch the whole choise to go bald...heard tlk of the rite head shape and all tht.....worried tht my scalp would be really flakey and stuff like tht....then one fateful mornin i woke...still half sleepin...got an email about "brave the shave" for cancer. i thot this was my way out. i can go bald for a cause and no one will no any different. so i did it...bald 3 weeks now. the patches are sooooo noticable. but to my suprise im gettin alot of female attention. i guess i was lucky to be blessed with my mothers cheekbones and my fathers brows. ppl ask about my ****ed up hairline and i tell em i have alopecia. becuase i dont care anymore....it leaves them speechless and feeling bad...which is amusin. my new "not givin a fck attitude" has cause shadows to appear....and my hair looks like it may come back.....life lesson....fck everyone else

Thats right, you bad mother****er. :bravo:

 

[swingline747]

wait a minute . . . . are you admitting your sister is on the slutty side? (no offense brah)

btw wat does she think of norwoods?

not that Im aware. Shes married with a kid. Thats why I say shes not far from us. She never actually wanted kids growing up barely marriage but ended up with both. We talk every day and I can get insight into some of her frustrations.
We are just not very co existent people.

 

[Isaac Newton]

well daggnabbity

 

[DiffuseThinner1]

IMO baldness is fine day to day in terms of getting by and getting into relationships. I see it all the time and have a bald cousin. The real issues are too do with loss of identity and ability to create instant attraction. I think it would be rare for someone to say "Oh he is good looking" just by seeing him. For blacks, the big issue is only the personal one, like the hate for losing their hair/how they look at themselves in the mirror. Otherwise their shaved head has little impact on attraction for most of them.

The instant attraction comment is spot on. Once you're beyond that initial hurdle physical appearance becomes significantly less important. Good looks (and hair) will only open the door..

For what its worth I'm 36, average looking, diffuse Norwood 2.5 (I think) and regularly fishing in the same waters as you early 20-somethings.

Point is looks (and hair) are small part of the equation. I'd much rather have personality and be fun than be a model with neither. You younger guys will find this shocking, but most girls would much rather date fun than hot.

 

[Wolf Pack]

Diffuse thinner makes some good points, I agree with his overall sentiment. That it's okay not to be perfect, no one is.

But I also agree with Fred. I would go as far as saying sexual attraction is very important in a long term relationship too. If she don't find you attractive, you will be second best. This means she may leave you/cheat. She could treat you badly as secretly she wishes you were someone else she would be attracted to. Not to mention you will get less sex. It's not a nice feeling I can imagine generally. Of course there are also different grades of attraction.

I feel personality compatibility is not just to do with personality. I know it sounds strange but faces come into play and sexual chemistry. It's a more holistic thing.

 

[shookwun]

Date, sure, I agree with that. That's what a lot of women even actually do. But like most people, you mix up sexual attraction and romantic attraction.

Some women date men they don't even have sex with, because they have money, status, or are intellectual types who have interesting personalities.

But saying looks and hair are a small part of the equation when it comes to sexual attraction? That's just a lie.

Some men are fine with it, but I could never be in a relationship with a woman who is not crazy about my looks. I have many times before, and it's a pain.

I don't care if she finds me incredibly funny and interesting, I want her to get wet over my appearance alone. That's the basis of a healthy relationship in my opinion.

The compatibility of personalities is also important, but I think how much the girl melts over your looks is as important.

And let's face it, becoming bald reduces the chances of her genuinely loving your looks drastically.

I think that's the reason so many women are unhappy in their relationships or marriages.

They bought the lie that they're such good girls if they choose the man they're less attracted to but who has a great personality.

At a point, they will start to resent him for not looking like the men who make her wet.

And of course, the problem is that they cannot make these men they find attractive commit.

Life is a complicated mess.

Fred laying down the truth hammer:laugh:

Its all primal. resources n such are all secondary.

Hot women give men a mild cocaine rush which fuels our personality and interaction. Making it more rewarding and engaging. Its like a surge of dopamine