do you like balding?
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This is a very tricky question VWdude and I couldn't give you a straight answer. I feel very ambivolent (I both love and hate male pattern baldness) about my current predicament.
Of course I hate it and I wish everyday that I was never effected by male pattern baldness, but then suffering from male pattern baldness changed my life. It made me look at the world differently. I realized that I am this imperminent being that could be menuvered by fate at any moment, anywhere. male pattern baldness made me learn things that I needed to learn, but I guess I didn't want to, like a lot of things in life.
I'm guessing that is why you asked this question VWdude if this strife can somehow be a good thing...
...What makes life worth living is that it's not really worth it to live.
Paradise Lost
Of course I hate it and I wish everyday that I was never effected by male pattern baldness, but then suffering from male pattern baldness changed my life. It made me look at the world differently. I realized that I am this imperminent being that could be menuvered by fate at any moment, anywhere. male pattern baldness made me learn things that I needed to learn, but I guess I didn't want to, like a lot of things in life.
I'm guessing that is why you asked this question VWdude if this strife can somehow be a good thing...
...What makes life worth living is that it's not really worth it to live.
Paradise Lost
VWdude
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Paradise Lost said:
Paradise, I'm shocked by your reply.
You know... you hit it right on the dot and things like this makes us who we are... and we are all human. If life was perfect and we all had a good healthy head of hair then the world as we know it would be pretty dull. Not only that, but given the situation we would not be challenged by our own human nature. Every experiance we have in our lives we learn something new from it and grow from it, be it good or bad.
somtimes I look in the sky at night and say to myself in the head... "why me god why me". If God were to speak to me I know what he would probably say "This is what I have for you, make the best of it". And that is exactly what I am. Dealing with male pattern baldness makes me emotionally fit. Some may take it lightly, some may totally freak and some people may even try killing themselves. I believe dealing with it makes me a stronger person, and that benefits me. Mind you I don't like balding but i'm doing what I can and just that alone puts a smile on my face.
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Another one of my quotes:
What's better, knowing everything or learning everything?
This is the best post ever, though you have to see the depth involved. That's why I said what I said. A deeper understanding of this post and how it relates to you was my intention as was the original scriber of this post.
Great post VWdude!
What's better, knowing everything or learning everything?
This is the best post ever, though you have to see the depth involved. That's why I said what I said. A deeper understanding of this post and how it relates to you was my intention as was the original scriber of this post.
Great post VWdude!
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All my friends are jealous because I'm losing my hair and they're not.
Vinton Harper
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There are enough trials in life in which I can learn from. male pattern baldness teaches me nothing of which I do not already possess.
In other words, no I do not like it.
In other words, no I do not like it.
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I wouldn't mind going bald if it wasn't associated with a particular kind of stereotype. I don't want people to think I'm a skinhead, yet nor do I want to desperately hang on to the scraps of my rapidly balding head as I see some people doing. It's a dilemma, no mistake.
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Personally, balding don´t make me a better person. I know I´ll be stronger and more confident if I would have perfect hair. I would live a better life, maybe a more stupid life, but happier. I feel envy for those with great hair, becouse it´s a thing you can´t alter, just like a gift, you have it or not. That´s something I don´t like, feel envy for others. I see friends who never passed this way, and I see them living unconscious of certain facts that I am becouse of the degeneration of self image. Those facts are age, time passing by, life being short, and things that are gone for never to return. And that´s humorous becouse I´m not bald at all, not even closer, just I see myself a little worse than I should be, but that is enough for taking a pee to those sad things. I also envy those easy living ways, the easyness people have in forgetting some important and very very sad things about our lives, becouse worrying about them is useless and stupid, but once they are shown to you, you´ll never forget.
I know hair it´s just hair, and I know being bald could not change the little thing about your behavior, but for me, it´s big deal. I like seducing people, I like being seduced, I like to say things with my own image, I like to be fit for making me feel batter, and also make other people feel better about me, I like girls looking at me, any kind of girl, I like feeling young and healthy, I like to compliment my interior being with an according image... and I like a bunch of many other things that are quite stupid if you think about them, but are the things that make me forget and enjoy life, the things that make me absurdly happy. The only way to be happy in this world.
But, on a more possitive thinking, I realize I´m fighting a strong thing, i´m doing wathever it is my hand to improve, and that gives me courage. If my treatments work and I look better, and I maintain for many years and all that stuff, I´ll feel very very good about myself. Becouse it is not the same being born wealthy and having a life by the swimming-pool, than a hard-earned not-that-much amount of money, if you know what I mean. It´s like feeling that you are the master of your own destiny, and whatever are the threats upon you, you will find a way.
Just to say that I think this is all about manly feelings: supremacy, proud, rivalry, exhibitionism, self-steem... that are quite ridiculous, but touches us in the center, so that´s why we are all here, and that´s where our anger and sadness and discomfort come from. That´s why we all are making a drama about something that it is not so important, if you think it calmly. But that´s how we are made, that´s who we are, some bunch of hurted men. To heal a disease there are two ways: cut off the entire thing (proudness, vanity, etc...) or heal the wound (male pattern baldness). I prefer the second, becouse I prefer the complete form of myself, even if it´s ridiculous, stupid or full of vanity. But I appreciate the first option, becouse it is the most effective and the one that requires the most bravery. Maybe, when horseshoe beats me to the ground, I´ll be forced to cut off that parts of me, but by now, I´m still complete. Time will tell.
I know hair it´s just hair, and I know being bald could not change the little thing about your behavior, but for me, it´s big deal. I like seducing people, I like being seduced, I like to say things with my own image, I like to be fit for making me feel batter, and also make other people feel better about me, I like girls looking at me, any kind of girl, I like feeling young and healthy, I like to compliment my interior being with an according image... and I like a bunch of many other things that are quite stupid if you think about them, but are the things that make me forget and enjoy life, the things that make me absurdly happy. The only way to be happy in this world.
But, on a more possitive thinking, I realize I´m fighting a strong thing, i´m doing wathever it is my hand to improve, and that gives me courage. If my treatments work and I look better, and I maintain for many years and all that stuff, I´ll feel very very good about myself. Becouse it is not the same being born wealthy and having a life by the swimming-pool, than a hard-earned not-that-much amount of money, if you know what I mean. It´s like feeling that you are the master of your own destiny, and whatever are the threats upon you, you will find a way.
Just to say that I think this is all about manly feelings: supremacy, proud, rivalry, exhibitionism, self-steem... that are quite ridiculous, but touches us in the center, so that´s why we are all here, and that´s where our anger and sadness and discomfort come from. That´s why we all are making a drama about something that it is not so important, if you think it calmly. But that´s how we are made, that´s who we are, some bunch of hurted men. To heal a disease there are two ways: cut off the entire thing (proudness, vanity, etc...) or heal the wound (male pattern baldness). I prefer the second, becouse I prefer the complete form of myself, even if it´s ridiculous, stupid or full of vanity. But I appreciate the first option, becouse it is the most effective and the one that requires the most bravery. Maybe, when horseshoe beats me to the ground, I´ll be forced to cut off that parts of me, but by now, I´m still complete. Time will tell.
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Paradise Lost, have you been taking lessons from Master Yoda?
BTW I just have to say this...does Lucas think that his fans are boneheads? What a waste of 2 hrs and 20 or so minutes! GRRRRRR!
Ok, that aside, WOW! Lots of powerful wisdom in your post there! Challenges offer us many things and among those are opportunities to see who we really are, what makes us personally tick and what truely motivates us. Without daily challenges, the muscle weakens, the resolve fades and the flame smoulders. VWdude, thanks for posting this poll. It's an eye opener!
BTW I just have to say this...does Lucas think that his fans are boneheads? What a waste of 2 hrs and 20 or so minutes! GRRRRRR!Ok, that aside, WOW! Lots of powerful wisdom in your post there! Challenges offer us many things and among those are opportunities to see who we really are, what makes us personally tick and what truely motivates us. Without daily challenges, the muscle weakens, the resolve fades and the flame smoulders. VWdude, thanks for posting this poll. It's an eye opener!
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Solo, ignorance is bliss. You may think your all happy but your losing your freedom and yourself.
Greg1, I hate Star Wars! I am not a fan of science fiction or movies in general but more a fan of the science and philosophies that these movies use in there plots. I am an Artist that studies philosophy and life in general and I am an Artist with my posts on gourmetstylewellness.com, at least I try to be.
Greg1, I hate Star Wars! I am not a fan of science fiction or movies in general but more a fan of the science and philosophies that these movies use in there plots. I am an Artist that studies philosophy and life in general and I am an Artist with my posts on gourmetstylewellness.com, at least I try to be.