do you like balding?

[Solo]

Solo, ignorance is bliss. You may think your all happy but your losing your freedom and yourself.

Really?? well I hate the day I got into the knowledge of certain things.

I specially remember the day I turn 21 and I realized for sure that I wasn´t really a ninja, just a spanish guy dressed in pijama with a pierced sock in his head and some sort of nunchakus made with a broom-stick, tape and a bathroom door chain.

I wish I never found...

 

[drinkrum]

This is the most pointless thread imaginable; you guys have clearly no more material to work with! It's like going on a cancer forum and quizzing people if they like the cancer eating away at their flesh.

D.

 

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yes

 

[drinkrum]

I saw that post coming, Ty. :wink:

D.

 

[dead]

nobody sees the 'yes' post coming !

 

[VWdude]

8 people voted for yes so there are a few people who like balding.

 

[Guest]

Drinkrum, there is always another way of thinking about things so yeah, your right but you may be missing a deeper meaning.

On a Cancer message board you may in fact come across someone that realizes that there suffering is what made them more human in a sense. Whether they liked getting Cancer or not they still had much to learn about themselves and Cancer or a lack of, allowed them to do that.

One more quote and I'm done.

"It's not about wanting what you don't have, it's about wanting what you don't want."

All quotes copywrited anonymous (Paradise Lost)

 

[drinkrum]

There is a fundamental difference between liking something and liking the change in your persona due to something. No one in their right mind will say they "like" cancer, but they might look on the brighter side of things and say they like the fact that they have become stronger as a person. They would still say that they dislike cancer. This is not just a matter of semantics -- it is a relevant point.

D.

 

[Trent]

if hair multiplication ever comes out, and gets me all my hair back, i would say that balding was one of the best learning experiences of my life as it taught me more about myself than anything else has. however, until it is cured, i will always be less of a confident man. I think if a cure ever comes, past balding men will soon become the absolute sh*t when it comes to confidence, personality and integrity. We'll have it all.

 

[Guest]

I feel paralysed from the hair down! :lol:

 

[VWdude]

it makes me feel good for a split second when I think about hair multiplication but in reality i know that it probably won't be available for the public in a long time...

 

[Greg1]

To be honest, I'm not sure where this thread is going either?

 

[Wezz]

dumbest quesiton


WHO WOULD LIKE BALDING ??


- DECREASED SELF ESTEEM

- AFRAID OF TALKING TO GIRLS WITH THAT NASTY THINNING

- AFRAID THAT A GIRL TOUCH UR HAIR

- AFRAID OF GOING TO POOL OR BEACH

- CAN'T STYLE YOUR HAIR THE WAY U WANT IT

-CANT FEEL THICK FINE HAIR WHEN U TOUCH IT


WHY THE f*** WOULD U LIKE BALDING WHEN THERE IS NOTHING POSITIVE, DUMBASS

 

[VWdude]

Man... there is more to it than just going bald and being insecure about it.

I've never faught so hard for something my whole life.

 

[Greg1]

VWdude, out of that struggle can come a better and more adjusted you and someone who can become a blessing to those around him. The struggle is on but strength is nearby

 

[VWdude]

VWdude, out of that struggle can come a better and more adjusted you and someone who can become a blessing to those around him. The struggle is on but strength is nearby

You just made my day!

 

[thin=depressed]

This is a very tricky question VWdude and I couldn't give you a straight answer. I feel very ambivolent (I both love and hate male pattern baldness) about my current predicament.

Of course I hate it and I wish everyday that I was never effected by male pattern baldness, but then suffering from male pattern baldness changed my life. It made me look at the world differently. I realized that I am this imperminent being that could be menuvered by fate at any moment, anywhere. male pattern baldness made me learn things that I needed to learn, but I guess I didn't want to, like a lot of things in life.

I'm guessing that is why you asked this question VWdude if this strife can somehow be a good thing...

...What makes life worth living is that it's not really worth it to live.
Paradise Lost

Paradise, I'm shocked by your reply.

You know... you hit it right on the dot and things like this makes us who we are... and we are all human. If life was perfect and we all had a good healthy head of hair then the world as we know it would be pretty dull. Not only that, but given the situation we would not be challenged by our own human nature. Every experiance we have in our lives we learn something new from it and grow from it, be it good or bad.

somtimes I look in the sky at night and say to myself in the head... "why me god why me". If God were to speak to me I know what he would probably say "This is what I have for you, make the best of it". And that is exactly what I am. Dealing with male pattern baldness makes me emotionally fit. Some may take it lightly, some may totally freak and some people may even try killing themselves. I believe dealing with it makes me a stronger person, and that benefits me. Mind you I don't like balding but i'm doing what I can and just that alone puts a smile on my face.

I'm one of those guys who took it very very hard and I never left my house yet in the last decade without a hat because I'm psychologically devastated by it. Its become a disease for me and depression is always near. Pretty crazy sh*t! I've always seen myself as better than most people in many ways such as sincerity,kindness,considerate,artisticly, and I.Q but there's always that f*****g head of hair the f*****g retarded moron catches the chicks with!Oh how twisted

 

[The Gardener]

I love my male pattern baldness.

Yeeeeaaars ago when I first started receeding, I hated it. I actually tried a rug for several months in my mid-20's because I was so self conscious about it.

To be frank with you, having the rug on made me MORE self conscious about my hair than the fricking male pattern baldness. When I got that rat sawed off my scalp, the feeling of liberation was intoxicating! And frankly, my male pattern baldness didn't really seem like that much after the inner turmoil and self-questioning that wearing a rug inflicted on my soul. I was me!!!!

So, since then, although I would love to grow back more hair, my regimen is more a matter of curiosity, and it is kind of a hobby. You know, doing what you can to make those little fuckers grow on a day-by-day basis. It is a hobby very similar to, well, similar to gardening, which I enjoy.

 

[VWdude]

I love my male pattern baldness.

Yeeeeaaars ago when I first started receeding, I hated it. I actually tried a rug for several months in my mid-20's because I was so self conscious about it.

To be frank with you, having the rug on made me MORE self conscious about my hair than the fricking male pattern baldness. When I got that rat sawed off my scalp, the feeling of liberation was intoxicating! And frankly, my male pattern baldness didn't really seem like that much after the inner turmoil and self-questioning that wearing a rug inflicted on my soul. I was me!!!!

So, since then, although I would love to grow back more hair, my regimen is more a matter of curiosity, and it is kind of a hobby. You know, doing what you can to make those little fuckers grow on a day-by-day basis. It is a hobby very similar to, well, similar to gardening, which I enjoy.

Wow! that's a great way to think of male pattern baldness. Good to hear something on a more positive note. So your regimen is like your fertilizer eh!

 

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So, since then, although I would love to grow back more hair, my regimen is more a matter of curiosity, and it is kind of a hobby. You know, doing what you can to make those little fuckers grow on a day-by-day basis. It is a hobby very similar to, well, similar to gardening, which I enjoy.

I feel pretty much the same way!

male pattern baldness really got me down at first, now it doesn't really bother me, I am definately in 'hobby' mode when it come to growing some new fur.