It turns out I have a rare form of AA called Alopecia Areta Incognito...its so far not super aggressive
Update (isn't hair loss journey fun? i feel like i have whip lash)
diagnosis
androgenic alopecia, early
microscopic description
there are a diminished number of hair follicles in anlagen
an increased number catagen and telegen
and some hair follicles are thin
there is a scant inflammatory cell infiltrate
I am 99% sure i am going to a alopecia dermatologist specialist fancy pants on Monday that i am going to pay out of pocket to make sure i am having a definitive diagnosis.
I am quite exited to have less shedding right now so I'm not using minoxidil to keep seeing what is going on.