Notcool, never forget the most important thing about yourself. You don't have to be average on the "inside". This forum just demonstrates how "average" society is in general. Always attacking each other when they don't agree on the same perspective. We all don't see the world the same. We all don't view women the same. Most of this is based on observation, your childhood experiences, limiting beliefs, and perspectives. Obviously, your limiting beliefs will change as you experience more things in life.
Most of the younger guys here are unfortunately living in a time where there is no more privacy. Everyone knows everyone's "business" on Facebook, instagram and twitter. I have no accounts on any of these narcissistic media site as I tend to be more private. In this era of narcism men want to be alpha and women want to be models. Its all about looks. The biggest joke to me is the "selfie".
Many on here are always bashing Fred. However, he is the smart one as he is reading constantly about ways to improve his "inner self". I started late in life but now I see the world in a new perspective after reading so many books on psychology, fitness, nutrition, finance, how the brain is wired, how humans are wired, and I see why the world is exactly the way it is. It all makes sense. Not many people have the desire to "evolve" in this world. Look at the facts. Divorce rate is the highest its ever been. Depression and anxiety is rising at astronomical rates. People despise people based on how much hair they have. Nobody wants to look "underneath the hood" anymore.
After reading your posts Notcool, I see a guy who is beyond average inside but is letting his hair dictate who defines him.
I have been there so I do know what it is like. My advice to you is to spend more time reading or listening to audiobooks that will enrich your life and help you evolve emotionally so you will start to see you are no longer average. Right now I am listening to Tony Robbin's new book and it is mind blowing. He is an amazing person and I realize now he may be one of the most influential person in my life. I don't think you can learn that much on here.

And Tony only became the way he became after reading about everything in life too. I only wish I had that knowledge when I was Fred's age. And I really admire Fred for what he has accomplished. He finally realizes the "truth" about women. I have them all figured out and I realize now why so many women fall for the wrong type of guy. And why so many men fall for the wrong type of women. And why some men are attracted to other men and why some females are attracted to other females. Its amazing when things make sense in life. The human brain is very complex but when you understand exactly how it works you will understand what I am talking about.
Take home message: Perspective and limiting beliefs define you. You have to change both of them to become beyond average. Enrique may be bald or wearing a system, but he found a way to become beyond average.