Welcome to Jenny.
I thought I'd join in the transgender and gender queer club we've got going in this thread.
I am a frequently despondent transgender woman aged 29. Hair loss became noticeable to me around 22, but some people had pointed it out in my crown earlier. I started shaving my head then and parked the whole transition intention because my family would make me suffer for it and because I thought it was too late to transition (especially with my baldness).
Eventually I came out and started transitioning, in April 2018. Low and behold my family did hate it and have driven me close to suicide with their hostility (it's real f*****g bad), and it does seem I left it too long to really get my hair fixed.
Below are some pictures from just over one week ago and one from almost a year ago.
I have been on HRT since April 2018, though the shitty British docs I was using only put me on piss weak oestrogen and finasteride - no real AA. I started using heavy duty DIY meds in January and have been in the female hormone range since.
100mg spironolactone twice daily (was 200 but my oestrogen is like 1900 units at the low end of my cycle - I forget the units... Pmol/l or nmol/l I think... Whatever it is, menopausal women are around 200 of said units). 10mg oestradiol valerate injections every five days. 0.5mg Dutasteride daily.
I was using minoxidil topically for one year, but I switched to oral in April as covering this huge area was painstaking and seemed to make my scalp sore. I stopped oral in May because it seemed like it might be making my facial hair grow faster than I can laser it off.
Been microneedling from December until April. Restarted tonight just along my hairline, which is covered in vellus-like hairs measuring one to two CM in length. If the area covered in long, colourless hairs all turned terminal then my hairline would be back, at least.
Most controversially, I had a two day hair transplant in August 2008. 3400 FUT grafts on one day and 1700 FUE grafts on another.
Probably a mistake. I was conned into it by Vinci Hair Clinic in London - the lying, deceitful wankers. They told me this surgery would remove the need for me to wear wigs. I went in with low expectations, but they upsold me the extensive hair transplant on that basis and... We'll see the results for yourself... They're so sh*t that their patient co-ordination manager didn't know what dutasteride was. I was desperate when I picked them.
Two more clinics have seen me recently to propose a 1500 or 2000 graft transplant to the crown and extended crown area. I am provisionally booked for September, but... What's the point when I am this far gone?
Any idea what I should do next, besides jump from the local suspension bridge (my life is real shitty, but having my hair passably back would massively improve it - phsycially, emotionally, and financially).
I would love for the guy I am enamoured with and sleeping with (but not an item with) to be able to hold nime atght and not not see damn bald patches (especially at the back).
I tried a hair system, but it was painful, extremely expensive, and I didn't even really like the look that much.