Exploring The Hormonal Route. Hair=life.

[JaneyElizabeth]

Part of what killed my marriage was my inability to articulate anything except for depression. The shame was too great. This was my path and eh, I am thrilled with it. My children have had a different journey. I am obviously getting treatment for dysphoria from a therapist and a psychiatrist because of the gaslighting but it is good anyway to have support like that.

I literally had to and I have to embrace the shame to get through this to the other side and I am still working on that part.

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

Also "acceptance" will not do any good for a poor dysphoric trans girl going through puberty who is having her body destroyed by testosterone like a cancerous lesion.

When one looks at all of the benefits of MtF HRT, a person might opt for that just for health reasons. It improves everything in an older body to the point that it is spooky. Second puberty is really a thing to me.

 

[keepcoolmybabies]

Powers is a just a useful idiot that took a bunch of other people's ideas and made them his own

 

[Ephemeral-Kitten]

Okay but the thing that amuses me among MtF's is that we seem male-like in articulating opinions. FtM's seem more traditionally female in some of the discussions I have observed. But on Reddit as you know, there are some good battles or whatever. I used to enjoy it matching minds with Powers but eh,

It can be partly because of socialization and partly because a lot of people with dysphoria may have intersex conditions with their brain, so it's not totally one way or another. Another issue is higher rates of autism among gender non-conforming people. There's a neurological connection between the two, but I'm not sure what it is

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

Powers is a just a useful idiot that took a bunch of other people's ideas and made them his own

He has aspergers and my ex used to think I did but they have pretty much changed the standards. I have a similar mind to his in terms of retaining disperse bits of knowledge but I am an empiricist.

 

[Pls_NW-1]

How old are you? I always assume you are British since your English is perfect.

Hey Janey ,

I am 17 1/2 years old. And I'm not british haha

I am from germany, but thank you so much for that kind compliment!

 

[Ephemeral-Kitten]

It can be partly because of socialization and partly because a lot of people with dysphoria may have intersex conditions with their brain, so it's not totally one way or another. Another issue is higher rates of autism among gender non-conforming people. There's a neurological connection between the two, but I'm not sure what it is

Also I suspect people who went through a male puberty may be very bitter, and bitterness can come across as hostile which is read as a male trait.

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

Powers is a just a useful idiot that took a bunch of other people's ideas and made them his own

I love going on there and is this okay, sort of bragging about breast growth without rectal progesterone. I am bad. And I only swallow my pills; I refuse to suck on pills all day, Goddess preserve me what some MtF's will do to eek out some more but we are the same about hair.

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

Hey Janey ,

I am 17 1/2 years old. And I'm not british haha

I am from germany, but thank you so much for that kind compliment!

That was for Dogo. I have done that three times. Tell me more.

 

[keepcoolmybabies]

He has aspergers and my ex used to think I did but they have pretty much changed the standards. I have a similar mind to his in terms of retaining disperse bits of knowledge but I am an empiricist.

My point has nothing to due with his aspergers, but I'm referring to that he just took ideas that had been promoted off the hrt reddit and passed them off as his own

 

[Pls_NW-1]

I am thinking of dropping ideas of HRT/ADT for my hair, because of the risk factors and because I am a cis-male, and males just... shouldnt touch estrogens xD.

So yeah, I think of using a hair system, but that wouldn't be quite authentical, in my opinion, and again, it will be such a hassle, looking after it that nobody notices it, maintain it properly etc.

I. Hate. My. Life.

Where is this fuckin* stem cell cloning hair therapy . I can't wait till 2050...

 

[Pls_NW-1]

That was for Dogo. I have done that three times. Tell me more.

Who's Dogo tho?

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

My point has nothing to due with his aspergers, but I'm referring to that he just took ideas that had been promoted off the hrt reddit and passed them off as his own

Yes and he over touts Bica in my opinion. People act like he is a hero for prescribing bica. I am estradiol and progesterone only.

 

[keepcoolmybabies]

Also I suspect people who went through a male puberty may be very bitter, and bitterness can come across as hostile which is read as a male trait.

I think that's just an unfair stereotyping. I see women argue with much more hostility all the time. People just call it being bitchy or catty instead

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

Who's Dogo tho?

He's our pal who writes a lot and he has an unusual protocol but he's a fellow traveler.

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

I think that's just an unfair stereotyping. I see women argue with much more hostility all the time. People just call it being bitchy or catty instead

It's all presumptuous but I mean, KCMB, people are going to react differently to you. I haven't seen EK. I feel like I get better treatment than most trans folks when I wear my wig.

 

[Ephemeral-Kitten]

I think that's just an unfair stereotyping. I see women argue with much more hostility all the time. People just call it being bitchy or catty instead

Yeah, that's true. People see what they wanna see to fit their narratives.

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

I am thinking of dropping ideas of HRT/ADT for my hair, because of the risk factors and because I am a cis-male, and males just... shouldnt touch estrogens xD.

So yeah, I think of using a hair system, but that wouldn't be quite authentical, in my opinion, and again, it will be such a hassle, looking after it that nobody notices it, maintain it properly etc.

I. Hate. My. Life.

Where is this fuckin* stem cell cloning hair therapy . I can't wait till 2050...

We can chat but this is a thing where you have to be committed I am afraid and it might not be for you.

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

We can chat but this is a thing where you have to be committed I am afraid and it might not be for you.

To me, a lot of it has to do with how you see yourself. If you are sort of a top kind of person then maybe Serms are something we can discuss but they cost a lot and are unpredictable.

 

[keepcoolmybabies]

It's all presumptuous but I mean, KCMB, people are going to react differently to you. I haven't seen EK. I feel like I get better treatment than most trans folks when I wear my wig.

Not totally sure I follow what you mean by this.