Hairful must have missed the memo that I have a social life that's plenty good for me and that I am glad to not have sexual desire create awkwardness in my relationships.
There are cis people who choose to focus on their career or hobbies and never get married or have kids. This is no different than me choosing my realization of my gender to the best of my ability because it's more important to me than having a sex drive and not having a sex drive has its advantages. Lots of trans people still have sex drives post transition, I happened not to... I was informed that could happen and I was totally fine with it no matter how many times you claim to know better than me what I want.
Comparing my life to prison or isolation is peak ridiculous. Try to live a day in solitary compared to having social events, playing multiple instruments, being in a band, playing in a musical, supporting other trans people in their transition, having movie nights with friends, playing video games, practicing for and running yearly marathons... You get to do all that in solitary? Really?
Sorry, your transphobia and asexualphobia is still showing and also you apparently define happiness by having a romantic sexual partner which is just a narrow view of ways people can be happy. Maybe you are incapable of seeing women as anything but a potential wife or sex partner, which is also driving your narrow view - that is, in your view maybe any woman who you wouldn't want to have sex with if you weren't related is worthless and not even human, as you are trying to claim I am.
Why should I care if you or anyone else wants to have sex or a romantic relationship with me if I just don't want those things and decided they aren't worth the trouble and other things are more worth my time? Why should I think myself as lesser of a human for just not wanting those things? Are you one of those people who think that if a woman, a cis woman alright since you don't recognize trans women as women... If a cis woman doesn't want marriage and kids then she can't be happy? And moreover, does she stop being a woman if she can't have or doesn't want children and marriage?
Also, I'm sure in real life lots of cis straight people stop having sex in their marriage eventually and they still prefer to stay married because of the familial bond they share, for the kids, for the community... So like, why should I even apply your fantasy standard to how cis straight people interact to me?
Seriously, dude, just get off your high horse, live and let live.
There are cis people who choose to focus on their career or hobbies and never get married or have kids. This is no different than me choosing my realization of my gender to the best of my ability because it's more important to me than having a sex drive and not having a sex drive has its advantages. Lots of trans people still have sex drives post transition, I happened not to... I was informed that could happen and I was totally fine with it no matter how many times you claim to know better than me what I want.
Comparing my life to prison or isolation is peak ridiculous. Try to live a day in solitary compared to having social events, playing multiple instruments, being in a band, playing in a musical, supporting other trans people in their transition, having movie nights with friends, playing video games, practicing for and running yearly marathons... You get to do all that in solitary? Really?
Sorry, your transphobia and asexualphobia is still showing and also you apparently define happiness by having a romantic sexual partner which is just a narrow view of ways people can be happy. Maybe you are incapable of seeing women as anything but a potential wife or sex partner, which is also driving your narrow view - that is, in your view maybe any woman who you wouldn't want to have sex with if you weren't related is worthless and not even human, as you are trying to claim I am.
Why should I care if you or anyone else wants to have sex or a romantic relationship with me if I just don't want those things and decided they aren't worth the trouble and other things are more worth my time? Why should I think myself as lesser of a human for just not wanting those things? Are you one of those people who think that if a woman, a cis woman alright since you don't recognize trans women as women... If a cis woman doesn't want marriage and kids then she can't be happy? And moreover, does she stop being a woman if she can't have or doesn't want children and marriage?
Also, I'm sure in real life lots of cis straight people stop having sex in their marriage eventually and they still prefer to stay married because of the familial bond they share, for the kids, for the community... So like, why should I even apply your fantasy standard to how cis straight people interact to me?
Seriously, dude, just get off your high horse, live and let live.
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