Female attraction and hair loss?

[misterdh]

Hello, I'm hoping your all ready for my rant

Okay, firstly I'm 19 (live in uk) with an agressive receeding hairline and on top thinning.

Last night me and a mate went out clubbing, I go mainly every weekend and generally have a good time. But last night was shocking, I started off trying my luck with the decent hot females, and I noticed after the first minute of talking and me turning my back.. They were gone! Either that or they tell there friend something very closely to their ear! After realising I weren't progressing I thought I'd try my luck with the average or even the not so average large girls.. Still no luck but I find it funny by this point. So I gave up.

Now it seems to me that it really does help if you have a full head of hair, as most of the girls I weren't pulling the guy next to me with hair was!!

I'm not ugly, needy and not a pervert! Im a tall confident person that dresses well and have most things girls could ask for. It just seems that I'm missing the hair. Now I know I'll get people saying 'why do you want females that only care about hair?' but really it's the main thing that gets their attention.

I cannot actually blame any female for turning a young man down with hardly any hair! As all they have to do is turn round and go for the better looking one. What sucks is I want a full head of hair. I dont and won't touch any meds, hair isn't worth a floppy penis! I want a hair transplant, but am I too young? I have the money for it but want something that will sort my problem once a for all. Any suggestions or advice?

Feel free to comment if you've has similar experiences

 

[Artas]

Why don't try the meds? It is very unlikely you'll recieve sides, and if you leave it now you will regret it when you get older. Minoxidil is safe to use, although it requires you to use every day... basically forever... it may still help. You are still young and it is right now the meds will be most effective. Leaving it longer won't do any good. It is at least worth a try

If no meds... then why not a concealer. Toppik? This is a really good and popular hair fibre, you could try that. Use thickening shampoo's, try some other DHT inhibitors (You'll find more information around the boards about them)

Your life could improve... You could get a hair transplant, but I think it still requires you to use the meds (finasteride and minoxidil) but some more knowledgable members will be able to give you more information on hair transplants. It would cost a lot of money... :thumbdown2:

But it is up to you... Finally, if you don't have any success with any of these, you could get a hairpiece, if not... then live with being bald and try improving other factors, such as, fashion... maybe you could wear a cool cap, hat, or bandana while clubbing. Dress unique... there is so much you can do which can solve that problem you are having. I wish you luck on which ever you chose to do

 

[NINJAX]

This is hard to admit....but really has truth to it... ask a girl if its alright with her if she likes men without hair and theyll tell u its ok...but its really not.

women look for physical attributes such as hair...it displays youth..vigor and health. such as men look for women with long hair..nice curves and youth ..really the same.

Now the question is...why is it that youll notice that women in relationships have men with bald hair. this is because women change their behaviour when they are in relationship...baldness becomes a better sign to them meaning the men will most likely be faithful because they will seem less attractive to others..and in the future will be better focused at raising the young. That is why they are more accepting of it during the relationship especially if the relationship is serious ang going long term. Now for women looking for mates ofcourse they will look for the healthiest characteristics that will give them the best chances of healthy babies. Hair and skin display this health physically.

 

[s.a.f]

Welcome to the harsh reality pal.

 

[misterdh]

The thought of a hair piece makes me cringe, so un manly! Any good uk surgeons??

 

[andrei_eremenko]

go...take a hair transplant...and in some ears you will end where you are now or even worse...looking like a weirdo...at 19 you want to make an hair transplant? I;m 23 and I'm not thinking at doing this...anyway it is your choice...

 

[dougfunny]

I suggest you face reality and hit on girls that are in your league.

 

[s.a.f]

The thought of a hair piece makes me cringe, so un manly! Any good uk surgeons??

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[GeminiX]

The thought of a hair piece makes me cringe, so un manly! Any good uk surgeons??

I'm happy to recommend Dr Rogers (Westminster Clinic), he's amongst the best there is, I've just had my second procedure with him.

I've posted a lot of images of both my procedures on my website (http://www.daniellehallett.com/gallery)

Just to add however, while I recommend Dr. Rogers and his team and trust them utterly, don't just take my word for it and do your research.

There is all kinds of bull (for and against) pretty much every surgeon there is, so keep your eyes wide open

 

[dougfunny]

seriously man do not get a hair transplant at 19!!!

any GOOD doctor will tell you it does not make sense to get a transplant until age 35 or so when hair loss stabilizes.

if you get one now you will need a second one and you will end up looking stupid when you end up with an inappropriate hairline later in life.

 

[GeminiX]

Actually, have to agree with Dougfunny, you're too young to consider a hair transplant yet.

 

[Cassidy]

Girls under 25 definately don't like bald dudes as much. I guess to a lot of women it becomes less of an issue as they get older.

Like a 35 year old women will like guys like Jude Law and Jason Stathom, even without all their hair. However an 18 year old will be like 'ewww they're old!!'

My girlfriend is only just 19 and she loves to tease me about my hair line. She pulls my hair back and says 'omg...you're going to look so creepy when you're bald' and 'what age did you say your dad went bald at again?'

I f*****g hate it but she just thinks she's being playful and funny. She doesn't get how much it sucks!

 

[henryk9]

Wow, I will not agree to the topics starter statement. I think the looks of a male is secondarily for a woman. What a woman really attracts is acting and reacting as a confident man. You have to be the strong male and act different like all the others approaching them. You have to challenge them and don't ever chase after them. Make your life more interesting (Hobbies, Clubs, Parties etc. ) and improve your social proof. Every male can seduce every woman, if he is confident enough. And don't panic when you get rejections, that is normal and makes you even more confident.