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Yeah, I definitely agree. It 's a subconscious process, so an ordinary woman can find you attractive if you have a strong jaw but she can't pinpoint why. A random guy on this forum would be capable of listing every positive trait that makes him look good. But what I'm trying to say is this: Here where I live I really doubt that a super strong jaw is worshipped as much as in the USA. Actually you don't even need a Brad Pitt jaw to be handsome and I'm sure many European people share my point of view. But many American people in the internet seem to have another opinion, claiming it's crucial or incredibly attractive.I'm 5'11 with a Nw2. I'd rather be 6'1 than a NW1. I agree that it's not my problem, it's not my strength either.
I don't represent America, and you don't represent Europe.
Most people, in general, don't think at all about looks to the level of detail that people on this forum do. It's mostly a subconscious process with the general population, with some focus on weight, muscle, clothes, and hairstyle, but very little on other things. And you know, for all the talk about Europeans not caring about looks, when I've been there the gyms have been packed, and the women have been well-dressed and with carefully placed makeup.
Others on the mainstream internet often mock lookism and other sites similar to this community for focusing on philtrums, etc. It's not a normal thing to do anywhere. The obsession with understanding is a coping mechanism emerging from our poor social station in life, we try and understand why we failed.
I don't claim that height buys everything, only that it's very valuable. Similarly there are men with fantastic hair who don't do well with women. There is no one trait that you can have that will buy everything.
Separately, 6'5 might well be too tall. I'm not sure where the threshold is, and it might vary from country to country and woman to woman, but 6'5 is borderline.
Furthermore I have two theories regarding height: First, the metric system. In Europe 5'11 is 180 cm, so pedantic girls round the minimum attractive height up to 180 cm, whereas Americans do that with 6' because it feels good to round up. Secondly, the average height in Germany is supposedly bigger than in the US. That means girls are more accumosted to tallish or tall guys and thus they are less pretentious than in the US.