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Brain Surgeon

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hello

have registered here to share my opinion with you all. not that anyone would care but i just hope you take the time to read and make your own decision. okay so here we go.

we all know there are products out there that can help you but what i notice is some people are going overboard, why the hell would you need to use more than one product to have successful regrowth!? its b.s its sad but it is, half of you dont know which one is working and then some of you complain of side effects which i believe is a fuse in your brain, its coz you read and you see it so you believe it and it ends up happening to you, like when someone tells you 'dont stress or you loss it all' well, there you go, the same thing, even though you dont stress out, its already made the fuse go off in your head. so where am i going with all this?

do we need therapy? yes and no, for a start if its genetically there, you cant stop it from falling out, wake up! theres NOT one single product that says permanent fix for your head, every single one will destry you once you stop taking it. its like youre on heroin, you cant live without it, and when you want to break free you have to fight your demons, just like a streamloss of hair, it will bring you to suicide if it has to, so why fight it?

no im not saying go pop yourself. my answer is simple, save your money! dont waste it on these b.s products and hair treatments. they will not save you or the world, until there is a 100% proven scientific discovery then you can shed some hope, but for now, let it loose.. be human thats what we are, let it go if it wants to go. its sad some people have no despair but to lock themselves inside and not want to smell the freshair outside, the fear of embarrasment or a girl laughing or losing your cool around chicks. again, all this stuff is in your mind, you will be suprised how strong the human mind can be, once you learn to control it you will make people believe you once more, you will have more friends and have more women. how do i know this? coz its f*****g common sense! the thing people forget in everyday life. think of it like this, you have just won lotto and everyone that was your enemy today wants to know you tomorrow, they dont care what you look like, its the power they like. go out there and pretend were loaded? no! thats not the idea. find something that you like doing or even try a sport or anything that will make you change, most importantly BODY LANGUAGE, is one thing people read, when someone comes face to face with someone, the first thing they want to know is, who is this person? not hey that person has hairloss. being yourself is what makes you special. when you act like someone youre not people pick up on that. and thats why you have to defeat these f*****g hairloss products and be yourself! gain the dignity and respect you deserve, youre human not an alien not a creature you are f*****g human, and its only coz we care what people think is what manifests into a disease.

another thing before i tie this up, women can break our hearts i know and many people blame themselves coz they find its their image. well ive given this alot of thought and the truth is, no matter how sexy or damn intelligent or rich a girl is you cant live with someone that wont love you for who you are inside, when someone judges you from your image. show some balls! get rid of them! it will earn you respect and that person will want you even more. so if you havent figured it out already, read the whole thing again until you realize it.

life is a game folks, the longer you play the more you win

look in yourself, not at the mirror
 

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Brain Surgeon said:
we all know there are products out there that can help you but what i notice is some people are going overboard, why the hell would you need to use more than one product to have successful regrowth!?

LOL!

You poor desperate idiot!! :)

This has really hit you hard, hasn't it.

The reason a multi-modal approach is more successful than a single treatment is that the pathology of male pattern baldness is essentially split into a few different areas like fibrosis of the follicle, inflammation, genetic predisposition to DHT and so on.

No treatment will address all of these.

I, like the majority of people using medications to fight male pattern baldness simply pop a small fraction of finasteride, rub a little quick drying minoxidil into my scalp and two or three times a week swap my regular shampoo with Nizoral.

So far my thinning scalp has healed fairly well (no more tenderness, or itchyness) my hair has thickened up and filled in to the point where, although not back to the covergae of my youth, it has certainly made a much appreciated cosmetic difference which I am pleased with.

So do you advise I drop my simple regimen and let my hair thin and my scalp return to the irritated scalp of old?

Shall I also stop brushing my hair?

Should my wife stop using moisturiser?

Should my son stop using his astma medication?


LOL!!!


Please don't let your own fears cast a shadow over those who have had a simple problem addressed by people researching the many human ailments.
 

jason566

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interesting post you make some valid points and I agree on some of it.
But Im not trying to keep my hair for woman I wanna keep it for myself its part of my indetity as i age i will accept it more but at 27 Im not ready to Im still young..I wanna be happy and bein happy is also about being happy about how u look ..I admit having things u love to do and people who care is important not that I have those things really..but I wanna keep my hair..Is that such a bad thing?
 

Trent

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see, i've always believed moderation is the key. if you are concerned about hairloss (anyone reading this must be) you need to be somewhere between the guy who is really concerned about his hair loss, but doesn't do anything about it, and the guy who goes overboard and uses every product imagineable and stays in his room sulking. If you just plain don't care about male pattern baldness, then you won't be reading this right now, so i won't even speak to them. there's nothing wrong with wanting to look attractive, its very natural, and is as genetic as male pattern baldness in my opinion. we are all genetically programmed to "look" a certain way, but we still do things to combat our looks: wear nice clothes, work out, clear up acne, brush our teeth, etc. But for some reason there is this stigma with hair loss, we are supposed to just accept it and move on. why?? what is so special about hair loss? no one says: "hey man, you have crooked teeth, don't get braces though, just live with it!! its fun!! people will love you for what's inside!!" no, you go get them straightened if the crooked teeth bother you. propecia is a pill you take ONCE A DAY, you wake up, pop the damn pill then move on, and it adds at least five years of your hair. why not do it? its one of the safest drugs out there. a lot easier than 2 years of braces, trust me i know :x

i do believe some things the brain surgeon said though, you will never be happy unless you find someone that loves you for who you are. but first you need to make yourself happy, be content that you tried all you could to fight hair loss. save yourself seven years, maybe a new miracle product will come out? maybe the new product only works if you have kept your hair? now, giving up your treatments disallows you from getting great results from the new treatment. it will be easier for someone to love you for what's inside, when you feel good about yourself. whatever you need to do to get there is the key. for me, its spending each morning popping a propecia.
 

viperfish

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I agree with everything you said, except why not at least treat your hairloss and still think that way.
 

The Gardener

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It's a fair statement.

I must admit that my hairloss treatment is not just a treatment, it is kind of a hobby. It's like, well, gardening. But, on my scalp.
 

Trent

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viperfish said:
I agree with everything you said, except why not at least treat your hairloss and still think that way.

bingo.
 

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Alopecia-Nate said:
life is a game folks, the longer you play the more you win

look in yourself, not at the mirror
Thanks, David Brent.

“What is the single most important thing for a company? Is it the building? Is it the stock? Is it the turnover? It’s the people, investment in people. My proudest moment here wasn’t when I increased profits by 17%, or cut expenditure without losing a single member of staff. No. It was a young Greek guy, first job in the country, hardly spoke a word of English, but he came to me and he went ‘Mr. Brent, will you be the Godfather to my child?’. ... Didn’t happen in the end. We had to let him go, he was rubbish. He was rubbish!â€￾ - David Brent

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Drinkrum: well f*****g put.

And on that note: "Will there ever be a boy born who can swim faster than a shark?" --Garreth Keenen (sp?)
 

Brain Surgeon

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It wasnt intentional to abandon the thread, but I received an email saying it was a "fairly uneducated post" and this got to me. Everyone is entitled to their opinion whether they are right or wrong.

I dont care how many products there are out there. For starters not a single one of them will permanently repair your hair follicles. Once you stop the medication say goodbye to your threads.

You know animals are smarter than humans, they have wit. They dont have to worry about bullshit like this. Its a society-mind-quadropolitan something thats feeds your disease and lingers you into doing things to 'fit into todays world' well guess what.. why waste your time? you have a clock ticking which counts on your heartrate you dont need to be manipulated and be formed into a soul that will fail. But no! Brain Surgeon I am winning my hair back. HA! so the day your head grew full, your pride became full? dont make me laugh.

Please don't let your own fears cast a shadow over those who have had a simple problem addressed by people researching the many human ailments

My own fears? Sorry but you reload the bulletin board and see how many posts there are on here. If the "PROBLEM IS ADDRESSED" you wouldnt see this many people discussing it, coz they would be too busy smiling at themselves in the mirror.

Do you see Microsoft releasing a 100% hack-proof system? Of course f*****g not, because of HUMAN ERROR, just like the world today. No one out there is perfect, you can go spend all that hard-earned cash and what for at the end of the day? We're going to be dead one day and no one is f*****g going to care. life exists and so does death.

Theres hope out there, I know. I dont mean to crush your dreams, if you are happy with yourself then thats good. I'm not showing hate towards anyone but society today.

I started this thread to share my outlook and in hope to make someone smile because ill say it again, you cant have someone love you if its not inside you -- and think: if you were born in the 1900's you wouldnt give a f*** about hairloss, WAKE UP!

The only thing that affects you today is love tomorrow.
 

juststarting

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jason566 said:
interesting post you make some valid points and I agree on some of it.
But Im not trying to keep my hair for woman I wanna keep it for myself its part of my indetity as i age i will accept it more but at 27 Im not ready to Im still young..I wanna be happy and bein happy is also about being happy about how u look ..I admit having things u love to do and people who care is important not that I have those things really..but I wanna keep my hair..Is that such a bad thing?

Just an FYI, you are never really ready to accept the hair loss change I think. Just last week these 18yro on this board said they would be fine getting to like 30. :) It's all relative.
 

juststarting

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Wow! You must have had some sermon on Sunday! phew.
Are you a re-born or an evangelical christian?

Just curious... :)

Brain Surgeon said:
Theres hope out there, I know. I dont mean to crush your dreams, if you are happy with yourself then thats good. I'm not showing hate towards anyone but society today.

I started this thread to share my outlook and in hope to make someone smile because ill say it again, you cant have someone love you if its not inside you -- and think: if you were born in the 1900's you wouldnt give a f*** about hairloss, WAKE UP!

The only thing that affects you today is love tomorrow.
 

Deaner

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I think we were all born in the 1900s to be honest with you...
 

Greg1

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Ok, I think that I missed something here. Bible? Where did Brain Surgeon quote the Christian Bible? I don't see it. Did you mean how he came across?

Brain Surgeon, you make some very valid points but I'd check the altitude that you share it from bud.
 

iamnaked

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There's a difference between allowing hair to be at the centre of your self esteem, and being concerned about keeping up appearances. I think most people fall into the latter category. I agree with you in that I would love to be able to not care about my hair, but self image is at least partially a reflection of interactions with others. Because other people are superficial about appearance, some of this has rubbed off on me.
 
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