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Click on the links, you'll come on the "incelwiki". Some smart incel guys searched for all kinds of studies that prove what they are saying.

I wish the studies were BS but most if not all are legit and not made up by these incels themselves.

Since you are a psychologist, these studies should be very interesting to you.

Yes, I will definitely look into them later, I am about to leave on a trip for a few days. Have you read all of them?

The reason why I asked you where you got these studies from was because I expected it came from a website you mentioned. I hope you realize that when picking studies that fit your narrative (which is what a lot of these incel guys love to do) everyone can cherry pick a collection of studies that will do the trick right? Selection bias and such. I mean you can even make a case for global warming being a hoax, or red meat not causing early death with a cherry picked selection of small studies.
 

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is this 'incelwiki' a funpage or is it for real? I read there for 5 mins now and it's full of self-hate, woman-hate, other guy hate and victim mentality. If you're often reading there (and it seems like that) your mind will become such a toxic sh*t with this comfortable victim-mentality.

To me this site looks like a fun page, but when you serious use this site for quotes, than this site must be true knowledge for you
 

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Whatever, I just tried to get this dude out of the loser-mentality-circle and put him to the normal guys, meeting girls. So I'm not here to fix your mindset, too. Every crying incel-b**ch is 1 guy less I have to compete with, so keep doing it honey. Peace, I'm out.

I cant even imagine a guy being a funny and interesting guy at the first date after he reads this woman-hating loser sh*t.
 

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So I'm an incel because I post some studies? Fallacies gallore. Guilt by association and ad hominem.

Try again with some real arguments next time.

This study could apply to you btw

Winners in a rigged game will consider the game fair as long as they keep winning
Many people are prone to believing in the just-world fallacy - the notion that our victories and failures are just and the appropriate reward or punishment to our actions. People like to continue believing the world is fair even when they intellectually know that it is not.

Researchers tested people's predispositions to the just-world fallacy by having them engage in a rigged card game. The game was designed so that one player would have a clear advantage throughout the game that would essentially guarantee their victory. They found that although both players could recognize the game was imbalanced, the winner was consistently more likely to still believe the game was "fair" and that their victory was the result of their skill and merit.

They suggest this can help understand how people react to inequalities in life. Generally, in a rigged game, their findings show that those who "win" will have a greater tendency to ignore the legitimate complaints of those who lose.

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  • Winners were generally more likely to believe that the game was fair, even when the playing field was most heavily tilted in their favor.
  • In short, it’s not just how the game is played, it’s also whether you win or lose.
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In a way, that study can also be applied to people that claim that finasteride side effects are 'just in their head' because they do not experience any themselves.
 

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Click on the links, you'll come on the "incelwiki". Some smart incel guys searched for all kinds of studies that prove what they are saying.

I wish the studies were BS but most if not all are legit and not made up by these incels themselves.

Since you are a psychologist, these studies should be very interesting to you.


You pretty much said it right there, "searched for studies that prove what theyre saying"

It would not surprise me if thats the case though, more people in this day and age have the internet to take up all their time complaining and finding studies to rationalize why theyre not getting laid, rather than going out and actually living their life. Self fulfilling prophecy.

Like another commenter said before, doesnt bother me if they want to spend their time that way, makes it that much easier for the rest of us who don't spend our time feeling sorry for ourselves
 

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There is an interesting speed dating study available..cant find the study itself right now.

http://timharford.com/2007/11/business-life-the-economics-of-dating/

The interesting part is that people adjust their expectations according to availability.
Can be easily observed in real life. In my ex home city there was an upmarket nightclub. By observation 55 to 65% were female. The social interaction was vastly different to another average nightclub where gender ratio was the other way round. Obviously the ladies were more in demand hence became choosy añd behaved more princess like.

Due to online dating sites such as Tinder and god knows what, the situation is now like that one in the average nightclub.
Women get absolutely hammered with emails what makes them feel overvalued...who can blame them.


Create out of fun a female profile on a dating site..OMG.

Lesson learned...stay away from online dating because men (on average) are disadvantaged.
If you don't..you don't deserve better..
 

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Lmao. When the state offers social programs and women are able to get equal work; then a major consequence of that is females don't need the resources of men like they used to, which means that a man's looks become the primary trait that women judge him by. That is especially true in this Instagram era. It's your looks that she wants to show off to make other women jealous. Your personalty ain't gonna increase her social value on instagram. Wake the f*** up people.
 

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Lmao. When the state offers social programs and women are able to get equal work; then a major consequence of that is females don't need the resources of men like they used to, which means that a man's looks become the primary trait that women judge him by. That is especially true in this Instagram era. It's your looks that she wants to show off to make other women jealous. Your personalty ain't gonna increase her social value on instagram. Wake the f*** up people.

Lol, damn what are the kind of women you guys surround yourself with.
 

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Im 30 and a virgin, no relationships, but i still think you are painting women in a bad light, i don't think men and women are all that different, well all strive for the same thing, companionship. The idea that some chad can like a pic on instagram and *get* your girl as has been suggested is completely devoid from reality. I think most women are better than that.
 

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Im 30 and a virgin, no relationships, but i still think you are painting women in a bad light, i don't think men and women are all that different, well all strive for the same thing, companionship. The idea that some chad can like a pic on instagram and *get* your girl as has been suggested is completely devoid from reality. I think most women are better than that.

Agreed. I am not saying that there are no women that are like how these incels describe them, I am sure there are plenty. It is a fact that there are plenty of horrible women out there. Just as there are plenty of horrible men. But to say that all women are like that is pathetic. Especially when they bring broscience evolutionary psychology into the picture.
 

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Agreed. I am not saying that there are no women that are like how these incels describe them, I am sure there are plenty. It is a fact that there are plenty of horrible women out there. Just as there are plenty of horrible men. But to say that all women are like that is pathetic. Especially when they bring broscience evolutionary psychology into the picture.
I never said that all women are like that. I'm simply saying as women become more and more independent financially, the more their standards of attraction shift from resources to looks.
 

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I never said that all women are like that. I'm simply saying as women become more and more independent financially, the more their standards of attraction shift from resources to looks.

I was not necesarrily refering to you. Also, do you have any data to back up your claims regarding the attraction shift from resources to looks?
 
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