Ok sorry let me just clear some things up here, because it seems that people are misunderstanding me. I think it's because my views have changed a bit since joining as I've been learning so much over just the last 4 or 5 days (mostly on these forums!)
Here's the thing - I know now that although diet/lifestyle/stress may have triggered this for me and maybe for many people out there, as you said let-it-grow, once the gene has been activated I understand it would be very difficult to turn it off again (it would probably involve gene therapy, or a very precise trigger). This sits well with what we observe around us, as we hear countless tales of people who "tried everything but could not halt their balding" once it had started. It does seem that once you set it off it's damn hard to stop it again! That was difficult for me to accept and that's why I got a bit depressed in my thread called "Do we think it's possible to turn this gene off again?

", but I've pretty much accepted it now ._.
With that in mind, I now understand that SOLELY diet and lifestyle changes are probably not going to reverse this one, and I need to come up with a more specific solution that works according to the needs of my now more sensitive hair follicles.
Ok so that's that bit done, I hope that clears that up a bit!
Secondly though let-it-grow, I think you are really underestimating or perhaps simply misjudging the "power of nature"! heh
The reason people take Saw Palmetto extract is not because it's some witch's potion or because I don't know, it makes your hair shiny or something. Saw Palmetto contains beta-sitosterol which has been shown to inhibit both forms of 5-alpha reductase, bind to androgen receptors, is a phytoestrogen, and probably even other mechanisms we are not aware of. You see? So yes it's natural, but it's properties are actually very close to synthetic alternatives like Finasteride and Dutasteride.
The same goes for my old friend the Lingzhi mushroom, that too inhibits at least one form of 5-alpha reductase and balances out the hormones, although I came to the conclusion it probably isn't strong enough, which is why I'm shifting to beta-sitosterol.
beta-sitosterol is like MY equivalent to Finasteride, and the equivalent for many people on here. Like Dutas it is an ALTERNATIVE, with very similar properties.
On top of that I am trying to strengthen my hair follicles with b vitamins, enhance the blood flow to them with omega 3, and combat the sebum build up in and around the follicle with Coenzyme A and Nizoral.
Why am I going to all this trouble? Because I love my hair to bits and I would do anything to ensure that instead of "Take finasteride and cross your fingers", I can put together a solution which WILL work (I am doing this slowly and learning more and more every day), unless my follicles are so damn sensitive that nothing will save them.
And yes, if beta-sitosterol does NOT have the required effect (I am choosing it because it's natural, more freely available, requires no prescription and often has fewer and less damaging side-effects), I will switch probably to Finasteride.
Sorry for this very long post, but do you understand what I'm saying now? I think because I've changed my opinion a bit people have been thrown off, but if you look at my regimen you will see quite a good balance
Mike!